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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by IbukunSangotola(m): 9:03am On Mar 02, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?
No kiss
No hug
No sex
Kindly end the relationship please
Ere kinni aja bekun se??
I still doubt this kind of relationship exist sef
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Tombrown3(m): 9:11am On Mar 02, 2019
This is what happens when you see a beautiful strange girl on the street and decide to approach her.
1. You fight to get her attention, which she mostly like turn you down because of the women ego.

2. You try to make her see how much you care about her (at this point some of these girls are already thinking: thank God for this Maga) caring about her when she barely knows you it's even a turn off to some girls.

3. Now she agrees everything you say but tells you she can't visit you, so you should keep that away from your mind. (already making the rules)

4. The bottom line here is, she will always make the rules and you will always wanna follow to show a gentleman attitude.

5. Last last... You might end up having sex, but that's only if she likes you and probably you might have spent a lot before that. She will always have the entitlement attitude because from the very start she never even cared, after all, you walked up to her in the first place.

THE SOLUTION.

Only talk or walk up to girls you understand has a little crush on you or show you a little green light, you wouldnt have to say much in this case. Her replIes would be encouraging and in the long run you benefit more and spend less cause she already likes.

Do things that attracts women: like making money, being very neat and minding your business, being bold and always in control, never beg a woman for her contact! Never, in fact... Never beg a girl for anything unless she's your wife! When you approach and she declines, move on instantly, don't preach to her or try to persuade her. Just move on and say hi next time you see her and walk away again.

Women need attention, and they always find those who give them less attention more attractive, ironically though, but that's the truth! Am not saying don't give your girlfriend attention or your wife, that's a different senerio. I only mean when trying to woo her these are the qualities that will likely make things bearable.

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by litaninja(m): 9:27am On Mar 02, 2019
Lmao. Bruv...please quote me when you eventually find out. That babe is chopping a minimum of 2 guys by the side and giving them steady knacks. You may not mind...and that is fine....but that is what's happening.

crispyJ:

Bro it's no big deal.
My first relationship lasted for 2yrs plus, we only held hands and the worst she did was peck kiss my hands or we side hugged, although it was my first relationship and i vowed to myself not to have sex before marriage.
Same thing now have dating another girl since last year February, at worst we side hug or hold hands while working, funny part she makes sure i don't even go as far as having any other girls contact on my phone, she goes through my contact every time we meet, and because of me she stopped to chat with the boys in her class, best part is we have this telepathic feelings for each other right now..

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Larryslim(m): 9:31am On Mar 02, 2019
Kingwizzy16:
Guys I need advice

A female friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend last week, she just found out that she's pregnant and she wants to abort it
She don't have money I want to give her the money


Please is it advisable I gave her Money to abort another man baby

Help
Should abortion even be an option?
If you have unprotected sex, then you should be ready for anything that comes with it.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Larryslim(m): 9:32am On Mar 02, 2019
crispyJ:

Bro it's no big deal.
My first relationship lasted for 2yrs plus, we only held hands and the worst she did was peck kiss my hands or we side hugged, although it was my first relationship and i vowed to myself not to have sex before marriage.
Same thing now have dating another girl since last year February, at worst we side hug or hold hands while working, funny part she makes sure i don't even go as far as having any other girls contact on my phone, she goes through my contact every time we meet, and because of me she stopped to chat with the boys in her class, best part is we have this telepathic feelings for each other right now..
Ahhh, i swear the girls dey cheat on you!
Wake up!
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Larryslim(m): 9:33am On Mar 02, 2019
badadvice:
I will advise you dont end the relationship.
Instead, shower her with enough gifts, expensive gifts like a phone, large sum of money, car, land, etc, and wait patiently till she finally sees how much you love her and agrees to give you the cookie.
Patience while providing for all or almost all her financial needs is the key!!
grin
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Billyanger(m): 9:42am On Mar 02, 2019
nabegibeg:


This is a new month dont stress us with useless question

All this long script on top a pathetic encounter of an idiot with another she idiot who thinks she makes the rules for the idiot to abide with, since she knows the idiot is a jellyfish and will do exactly what the she idiot wants...and its all baseless
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by HEFAIROHLUWA(m): 10:03am On Mar 02, 2019
Quinolone:
Listen brother, she is using you for the attention you give her. Right now, she holds the power in the relationship, and you can't have that now can you

What to do -

1: Don't get angry at her, its not worth it

2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them

3: If she threatens to leave or is angry or jealous, let her leave, this is a power move, and its extremely manipulative

4: When she sees that you don't care less, she would come back, this time, you have the power and can set the rules

Note: Don't rub it in her face that you are seeing other girls, it will only make you look childish

Remember a relationship is a two way thing, if you want to be intimate with her and she doesn't want that, you're free to go, and so is she, you guys simply don't fufuil each other's needs


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He stopped talking to her because she refused him? What a selfish guy..He should leave if he wants to leave if he sees sex as the thing he cant do without. Na their type dey beat woman that refuse them sex after marriage even if its one night.
He too is manipulative grin
grin He should leave her if thats what he sees as the most paramount and he cant do without.
Talking about girls being manipulative what about guys? The probability of leaving a lady increases after being intimate with them cheesy
Seeing and talking to other girls is okay to be on the safe side if he thinks she doesnt trust him enough to still be with her after sex. But meeting other girls to force/manipulate her against her will and being reckless with life is stupidity, recklessness /selfishness.
The guy is young mentally. I agree with everything you say except one. (I'm talking about no 2 ) tell them to use protection sad So we have less people to be likely infected or any unwanted child to be a nuisance to the society. We have enough already in this country angry Let try to balance things up smiley
I see you are really an expert on these things but some children can be super stupid in reality after reading this.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by knifer(m): 10:05am On Mar 02, 2019
Quinolone:
Listen brother, she is using you for the attention you give her. Right now, she holds the power in the relationship, and you can't have that now can you

What to do -

1: Don't get angry at her, its not worth it

2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them

3: If she threatens to leave or is angry or jealous, let her leave, this is a power move, and its extremely manipulative

4: When she sees that you don't care less, she would come back, this time, you have the power and can set the rules

Note: Don't rub it in her face that you are seeing other girls, it will only make you look childish

Remember a relationship is a two way thing, if you want to be intimate with her and she doesn't want that, you're free to go, and so is she, you guys simply don't fufuil each other's needs
Baba Aristotle, you too wise joor, abeg I wan follow you as a disciple

if you want more advice, follow me smiley
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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by olatechnician(m): 10:14am On Mar 02, 2019
Quinolone:

You're welcome FAM, follow me to get more advice on situations involving women smiley

follow u 2 where exactly? undecided
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Xbursta(m): 10:16am On Mar 02, 2019
MiddleDimension:

just an innocent question please, are you a christian?
that my real name
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Xbursta(m): 10:18am On Mar 02, 2019
MrAnele:
steady straping you say.... But i sure say if we check now we go see say the last time you had sex this year was with your hand



See my signature

confirm from your sister grin
MrAnele:
steady straping you say.... But i sure say if we check now we go see say the last time you had sex this year was with your hand



See my signature

confirm from your sister
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Idoko619(m): 10:27am On Mar 02, 2019
Quinolone:
Listen brother, she is using you for the attention you give her. Right now, she holds the power in the relationship, and you can't have that now can you

What to do -

1: Don't get angry at her, its not worth it

2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them

3: If she threatens to leave or is angry or jealous, let her leave, this is a power move, and its extremely manipulative

4: When she sees that you don't care less, she would come back, this time, you have the power and can set the rules

Note: Don't rub it in her face that you are seeing other girls, it will only make you look childish

Remember a relationship is a two way thing, if you want to be intimate with her and she doesn't want that, you're free to go, and so is she, you guys simply don't fufuil each other's needs


if you want more advice, follow me smiley

Chaiii hw can u be ds wise
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Xbursta(m): 10:29am On Mar 02, 2019
MiddleDimension:


just an innocent question please, are you a christian?

that my name but i don't tink, i am qualified 2 be called a christian 4 now, CHRISTIAN means Followers Of Christ who follow him in truth and in spirit.. Thank You
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Edoziesmart(m): 10:46am On Mar 02, 2019
Senseless post from a teenager.

#smh
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Billionsmith: 10:56am On Mar 02, 2019
It is quite impressive if you she don't have sex. Your intent in the relationship should be made known.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by greatnaija01: 11:02am On Mar 02, 2019
will u keep kwayet.... people like u MISLEAD others.... you did it and it worked for u does not mean EVERY OTHER PERSON IS LIKE THAT.... have some sense to know that I was talking specifically to the OP and not a general case.


Basher8583:


Nonsense. I smashed my girlfriend 1001 times and still married her. We were just sexually compatible. marriage is over 10 years now and Counting
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Rozaytee: 11:05am On Mar 02, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?
ehn it's simple if u aren't cool with it free her
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Cutefergieee: 11:09am On Mar 02, 2019
Quinolone:
Listen brother, she is using you for the attention you give her. Right now, she holds the power in the relationship, and you can't have that now can you

What to do -

1: Don't get angry at her, its not worth it

2: Talk to other girls and have sex with them, if she gets angry, don't say anything,other than you have needs and you need to do something about them

3: If she threatens to leave or is angry or jealous, let her leave, this is a power move, and its extremely manipulative

4: When she sees that you don't care less, she would come back, this time, you have the power and can set the rules

Note: Don't rub it in her face that you are seeing other girls, it will only make you look childish

Remember a relationship is a two way thing, if you want to be intimate with her and she doesn't want that, you're free to go, and so is she, you guys simply don't fufuil each other's needs


if you want more advice, follow me smiley

Oyel wey dey ur head na olive oil direct from Israel.. Dis formula has worked many generation.. Ayam a living witness.. Na me b d boss now

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Alexogrin(m): 11:19am On Mar 02, 2019
I have similar issues with this guy too. don't know how go about it
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Rozaytee: 11:30am On Mar 02, 2019
Boxer007:



Brother forget her. Females are useless.
Let me put your great lip into great use. Bring it sir
including your mother
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by bluefilm: 11:54am On Mar 02, 2019
Bia Bobbyjayams, nwoke m so if they call people wey get girlfriend to come out, you go follow comot?

Nonsense. sad
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by aalangel(f): 12:14pm On Mar 02, 2019
BobbyJayAms:
My girlfriend said no kissing, hugging talk more of sex only communication. But she will one day since six months now but anytime I stop talking to her and she sees me with other girls she gets angry and jealous. Am thinking of ending d relationship. Will it be cool?


Hold on to her.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by skywalker240(m): 12:28pm On Mar 02, 2019
Kingwizzy16:
Guys I need advice

A female friend of mine broke up with her boyfriend last week, she just found out that she's pregnant and she wants to abort it
She don't have money I want to give her the money


Please is it advisable I gave her Money to abort another man baby

Help
Read my lips, NEVER,

Don't make such mistake
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Basher8583: 12:56pm On Mar 02, 2019
greatnaija01:
will u keep kwayet.... people like u MISLEAD others.... you did it and it worked for u does not mean EVERY OTHER PERSON IS LIKE THAT.... have some sense to know that I was talking specifically to the OP and not a general case.


And why is this Paining you now?
so going by your analogy:
you abstained and it worked for you too does not mean everybody too is like that.
the boy is not married and is at liberty to make whatever choices he wants. Let him have all the advice he can get. I believe he is mature enough to make his final decision.
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by johnad3(m): 12:58pm On Mar 02, 2019
no giving of money also? if yes, no wahala nah
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Boxer007(m): 1:00pm On Mar 02, 2019
Timijo:
Do you remember you have mother and sisters
at all?


All women are useless except them. This is why being gay is the new deal sir. Preach
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Boxer007(m): 1:05pm On Mar 02, 2019
Rozaytee:
including your mother


My mother is different but all women are generally use less. Women should not swaer but u swaer. This is why gay men are the best. Preach
Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by castro(m): 1:23pm On Mar 02, 2019
Is she a virgin? One thing i know is that virtuous or no virtuous, once a woman has not received your dickson into her well, she will never respect you. All this celibacy thing can only work when you are both sure you will marry because the day you will see her with another guy getting married or in another relationship, this move of not having sex with her will hunt you for years to come.

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Re: She Said No Kissing, Hugging, Talk More Of Sex, Just Communication Only by Iykesmooth: 1:45pm On Mar 02, 2019
obembet:
How many guys can hold their joystick for 1yr

I can

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