I mean when a woman approach first (either by sayin she fancies you,or make her friend say it or through touching or sitting near you) ,generally she wants something to happen between the both of you but the guy doesn't really like the girl. He accepts at the end due to peer pressure or he doesn't want break the girl's heart or the guy might think he might as well chance this.

It happened to a close friend of mine once a few years back and It drove him nuts cause he knew what he was doing was wrong and the more serious it got, the more depressed he got. Until he drove the girl to break up with him.

The sad thing is that i feel like i would have done the same,i mean accept esp. given his situation. Also given the fact these days Every Woman who fancies me i don't fancy back while the women i fancy, don't fancy me.

I just wanted to ask, have any other guys on here found themselves in the same situation?

Also, to the ladies, do you generally accept a guy even though you don't REALLY fancy them?, ,(i have heard that the expression "attraction grows as you get the to know each other", do people really believe in this?)

I really don't see any reason why you can't tell a chic that you don't wanna be more than just friends!

there is no written rule somewhere that i must go out with every thing in skirt with a pair of bóobs that fancies me!

I totally agree with violent.

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Also, to the ladies, do you generally accept a guy even though you don't REALLY fancy them?, ,(i have heard that the expression "attraction grows as you get the to know each other", do people really believe in this?)

Yes ONCE. It didn't grow for me but what did grow was the respect I had for him.

I personally don't venture in sure.If am not attraction 2 u @ first,then 4get it.