virago:


It's actually the other way round , it's Brown Sugar who is finding it hard to comprehend

vingeophysicist:
Whether brown sugar like it or not , their will always be magas.And she(nneka)is Igbo oo. Igbo ladies are known gold diggers and very promiscuous.

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

TimiRume:
I kind of agree with Nneka even though she is a bit extreme with her views, but then those are not really her views, they are a natural order of relationship between men and women. Men are wired to impress women with proceeds from their labouring, while women try to win men with their looks.

Brown Sugar's views are problematic. First, if the man is willing to spend then you can't fault the woman. Second, women are also put under pressure to look good, neat and cheerful all the time even when there are factors that could make them not keep up. Third, men also feel entitled to pretty or classy girlfriends so for women who fall short in this area, they face same problems broke men face...lack of choice. Fourth, the world would be a mess if her approach to relationships is adopted.

Masculinity and femininity are two fragile and precious qualities we cannot afford to lose in this so called modern world.

Judybash93:
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Festiko:
. No let me say god punish u there. Na ur tribe wey dey get krawkraw for backside still carry am dey pursue another man... Try get sense boy

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

sindan:


In as much as I like your views on this matter, I will say don't forget that our economy does not favor women much it's even difficult for some men to survive,

Nanatrendy:
This mentality will only push your guy into being a criminal, until a man marries you it's not his responsibility to spend on you same way you are not obliged to give him sex

RTSC:
If all man be like me, people like Nneka go die of konji and lack of attention.

Onyi22:
She is right ooo...
Any man that is not ready to bring down heaven on earth for me should not come close to me......
U don't even need to tell me u love me before owing me money, once u request for my number, o boy! Ur bills don start be that oooo.....

mightyhaze:
Both of them have good points.. But id tilt more towards nnekas views. No girl will ever force u at gunpoint to spend a dime on her. It behoves u as a man to give a lady u love/respect reasons to chose u above others. For instance how many of you guys will support a broke lazy unambitious or gravely stingy guy seeking ur sisters/daughters hand in a serious rel/marriage ? Be truthful guyz

marvin906:



you need better knock for your head... all you chicks and your upside down ideology

MhizzAJ:


Will you keep quiet, you hypocrite.

Timisamd:

Woman !
The measure of your variation on this topic is of high magnitude ...
It just a awful thing to even think from low cc and conclude that no babe of a certain level will marry a broke man... Is that the point ? Is being broke the matter ? .. So you expect every rich dude should spend heavily (even or little) on you because of your what ?? ....
Am disappointed u quote you sef ....
Ladies I've known are all smart and reasonable ..

Dumb piece of crappy hominid like you ...
Oma seo

mightyhaze:
Both of them have good points.. But id tilt more towards nnekas views. No girl will ever force u at gunpoint to spend a dime on her. It behoves u as a man to give a lady u love/respect reasons to chose u above others. For instance how many of you guys will support a broke lazy unambitious or gravely stingy guy seeking ur sisters/daughters hand in a serious rel/marriage ? Be truthful guyz

Mypeople2:
Well, I have many pretty female friends that are almost 40years old yet they are not married .They are praying for husbands now whether rich or poor .Most of them did what you ladies are doing now. Most ladies that get married now are not too attractive. While the pretty ones are busying looking for money rich men, wasting their lives and having intimacy up and down .

Saffi:
And so? Your friends are just unfortunate. Marriage is not about Love. They’re many women that married men with something to offer and they’re thankful for their decision today, so what is the issue? It’s not about being stinking rich, it’s about a man providing a comfortable life for his family and being the ultimate provider. What Is so difficult about that? You men are so pathetic I swear to God.

Lovelyn451:
All these men advocate sef, I'm sure their mothers intercedes on their behalf before their fathers give them money especially for the males...imagine the mother doesn't have the tactic and skill to collect money from their husbands some of them won't smell school...a guy providing for his girlfriend prepares him on what it means to be a man and catering for the family, it makes him the man and head over the woman... God made it DAT way

This is why there are irresponsible men everywhere, women working and becoming too arrogant and disrespectful to their lazy husbands

Mypeople2:
My dear so if you are blessed financially you won't assist the man? Why are you ladies filled with this mentality of always collecting without giving? Please what do you ladies provide in a relationship or marriage without sex these days?Wait, if there is no money or sex in a relationship, the relationship won't the relationship work?

Nanatrendy:
This mentality will only push your guy into being a criminal, until a man marries you it's not his responsibility to spend on you same way you are not obliged to give him sex

BluntTheApostle:


You have got everything totally wrong.

It is not a bad thing for a man to spend on a woman. And there is nothing bad if a woman hopes for good things in life.

But this sense of entitlement where you feel like a man must spend on you is backward and not fit for this modern world where women are beginning to fight for more recognition and respect.

I believe only kids are entitled and as soon as they can stand on their feet, they should not feel entitled anylonger. If they want money, they should ask and have enough reason.

Chiiamaka:
All this unnecessary noise y’all making is not needed.. As a guy if you love & care for your woman you wouldn’t mind spending on her...

Saffi:
It is not my duty to assist you, that’s why you are a man. Why should you even be asking your wife to assist you, the average wife in a home has a lot to deal with. The only job that a man is required to do is provide financially for the family and protect, and you people still want assistance with that? Can you confidently open your mouth and call yourself a man? Jesus