ubunja:
you just a frustrated woman with nothing to offer but bitterness. and it's gonna get worse as you get older. I pity the fool of a man who will marry you. better you stay unmarried with your bitterness and spare another Human hell on earth.

Ryan03:
I have no issue with that, you just Dont demand for things like that, its Nobodys right, you earn it. Hence some men should stop demanding for respect like its their right, they have to earn it and to earn it, you have to give it.

bigpriik:
The society has brainwashed us the men into treating women like queens and babies while they treat us men like trash even though they depend on us for survival.I usually shake my head when I hear people say respect women,respect women my foot! you respect people who do not mind embarrassing you in public,people who add to your depression by calling you broke when you refuse to give in to their financial demands,people who cannot assist you financially in general people who do not care about your emotions people who do not mind disgracing or embarrassing you in public wat the f*****

I was really ashamed of my self yesterday when my friend ask me how much my babe has contributed to my life men absolutely nothing just sex time wasting.

In summary we men deserve whatever women throw to us while they deserve to the pampered
I keep saying women should be treated like adult human beings not like babies ...Ask yourself this question and be truthful do women respect men?why are you afraid of approaching a girl down the street?its because you fear being embarrassed by her which is very likely to human I have seen a guy being slapped just because he said hello to a lady,imagine if it was vice versa will the guy slap the lady answer that ,when a woman dumps a man nobody will question her rather they will blame the man but if a man dumps a lady they will call him playboy,they say he he used her to satisfy his sexual urge..bla bla bla...,if you embarrass a lady in public for stalking you,everybody will come for your throat both male and female but if its a lady they will all laugh inside life

sometimes I just think women are more of a punishment from nature than a helper I wish the world was all male with no penizz,I wish we could just reproduce like amoeva without sex
call me a misogynist I don't give a hoot.

swallows the red pill......

ImaIma1:


It's useless to a man? How so?

Are you saying Nigerian men prefer unintelligent women?

On this same forum, guys complained about ladies not being intelligent enough to have a good conversation. And now, a woman's intelligent is useless to a man...

A man that is threatened by an intelligent woman is not a real man.

Korllami007:


Bro, Women believe they deserve respect because they are women not because they need to earn it. That's why a woman will slap a man and people will expect him to walk away. I could remember a scenario, where a woman slap a man in a bank and retaliated by slapping her back, people were bashing the man for retaliating. Did she earn it? No. But she's a woman so the man shouldn't slap her back according to some people. If the man walked away, they will be hailing him and calling a real man. Did she earn that respect? No. If 10 men are on the queue to withdraw from the atm and 11th person is a lady, according to the society "women first" so they should let her withdraw before the 10 men in the queue. Did she earn it? No. Although, it happens when the guys will let the only lady withdraw before them. If reverse was the case, no one will give a damn about the only guy among the ladies.

Korllami007:


Bro, Women believe they deserve respect because they are women not because they need to earn it. That's why a woman will slap a man and people will expect him to walk away. I could remember a scenario, where a woman slap a man in a bank and retaliated by slapping her back, people were bashing the man for retaliating. Did she earn it? No. But she's a woman so the man shouldn't slap her back according to some people. If the man walked away, they will be hailing him and calling him a real man. Did she earn that respect? No. If 10 men are on the queue to withdraw from the atm and 11th person is a lady, according to the society "women first" so they should let her withdraw before the 10 men in the queue. Did she earn it? No. Although, it happens when the guys will let the only lady withdraw before them. If reverse was the case, no one will give a damn about the only guy among the ladies.

Korllami007:


Bro, Women believe they deserve respect because they are women not because they need to earn it. That's why a woman will slap a man and people will expect him to walk away. I could remember a scenario, where a woman slap a man in a bank and retaliated by slapping her back, people were bashing the man for retaliating. Did she earn it? No. But she's a woman so the man shouldn't slap her back according to some people. If the man walked away, they will be hailing him and calling him a real man. Did she earn that respect? No. If 10 men are on the queue to withdraw from the atm and 11th person is a lady, according to the society "women first" so they should let her withdraw before the 10 men in the queue. Did she earn it? No. Although, it happens when the guys will let the only lady withdraw before them. If revers was the case, no one will give a damn about the only guy among the ladies.

princfred:

Somewhere along the line they started mistaking the respect men willing give, out of chivalry and good social sense, to be an unconditional entitlement. Without bringing them to light every now and then, they will live in delusion without true understanding of men.

princfred:

Somewhere along the line they started mistaking the respect men willing give, out of chivalry and good social sense, to be an unconditional entitlement. Without bringing them to light every now and then, they will live in delusion without true understanding of men.

princfred:

Stop cutting my statements in half and or using it out of contest.
A womans intelligence is almost useless to a man with the stated condition of "if she disrespectful and unsubmissive"

Primarily a man looks for a woman for emotional and psychological companiionship and cohension. The rest attributes are ad-ons(if this were not so, uneducated semi broke women wonthave husbands as noticed with highly educated rich ladies). This basic quest is defeated where/if she is relcaciltrant and disrespectful. Hence making her distasteful to the man but that doesn't mean the man cant just br passing time with such a woman wile deep down he feels no allegiance from (courtesy of the disrespect) or to her.
No one stops you from being intelligent and respectful.

Actually, the glaring point you should learn from that post is importance of respect to a man just like you know the importance of love from a man to a woman whatever warped interpretation you may deduce is of your own making.

Korllami007:


Oil de your head. That's why some of them won't appreciate what you do for them even if you buy sub marine for them because they think is your right for you to do it for them.

Last week, a girl commented on nairaland that she can't buy a toothbrush for her boyfriend but the same girl will be expecting her boyfriend to take her out on an expensive trip or buy a car for her if he has the money. Did she earn it? No. But she believes she will deserve that kind of treatment because she's a woman.

ImaIma1:


So the conclusion of this your lengthy post is that only "dumb" women respect men?

You think I am responding out of context because it doesn't align with your own idea. I don't have to agree with you.

It's a good thing that these set of men that like dumb women are a minority.

delishpot:


When men spill hate for women it is coool and logical but when a woman says her own she is bitter

Somebody tell me..... How does this logic work?

Ryan03:
I have no issue with that, you just Dont demand for things like that, its Nobodys right, you earn it. Hence some men should stop demanding for respect like its their right, they have to earn it and to earn it, you have to give it.

princfred:

I never asked you to align with my idea. Only telling you to stop misquoting, half quoting, miscontrueing and making deflecting and wrongly skewed deductions from my post.

What intligience does a lady have if she doesnt know how important it is to respect her man? The problem is most of you gals mistake acedmic and carrer intelligince for marital, emotional or romantic intelligence of which respect is a bedrock required to propel a relationship.

I'm academically intelligent enough to be threatened by mere academic inteigice of any lady.
Repaect is the major way a woman can show her love to a man otherwise by what else sex? Money ? Rent.
What that he cant easily afford outside and why many me eventually go outside if respect is not forthcoming from so called educated girlfriend or wife.
No man marries when the woman is bent on questioning his authority or place on every turn. Unless he just doing it for money.
We love our women intelligent and respectful if that is beyond you sorry you are not intelligent atleast emotionally.

lefulefu:
hehe she go wait for the expensive trip and the expensive car till thy kingdom come. only ladies who stood for their men deserve to be spoiled .

Ryan03:
Yes, bad women exist doesnt mean all women are bad or that majority are bad, according to the op 'women' or Disrespectful and bad. We have good and bad women, just like we have good and bad men

princfred:

Not agree with the most ugly part, bro. Relcaciltrant? Yes. Maybe most educated, cant say.

ImaIma1:


Is that what you and your fellow South African men are saying...that Nigerian women are the most disrespectful and the ugliest?

Coming from you, I will take it with a pinch of salt.

ImaIma1:


WRONG

These set of guys you mentioned would rather date an unintelligent lady who they can control rather than be threatened by one who will question their authority.

Reeks of insecurity and low self esteem

ubunja:
isn't it the problem though?

Telling men what they should want?

If men want unintelligent ladies how is that a problem?

Let men love whatever they wanna love without shaming them for it.

ubunja:
doesn't matter how you take it.

You're a woman you've never dated a woman.

ImaIma1:




I am not telling you who to love. But don't commit fallacies by saying "men" prefer unintelligent women

ImaIma1:


Validating a false conclusion.

Whatever rocks your boat. Face your South African women

ubunja:
see you're now becoming unreasonable.

I told you most single women are intelligent. Why are we still discussing this?

ImaIma1:


A woman's intelligence should not be a problem to a man. You as a man can advance intellectually and keep upgrading yourself and you don't think it would affect your love for your woman.

But a woman has to remain redundant and not get upgraded intellectually in order to make sure that her submission and respect for her husband is not tampered with. Wow! Interesting.

A man who wants a woman that would just nod to his every word and instruction without having any contrary opinion, addition, subtraction is shaky in his own self confidence. He probably needs a slave not a wife

ImaIma1:


A woman's intelligence should not be a problem to a man. You as a man can advance intellectually and keep upgrading yourself and you don't think it would affect your love for your woman.

But a woman has to remain redundant and not get upgraded intellectually in order to make sure that her submission and respect for her husband is not tampered with. Wow! Interesting.

A man who wants a woman that would just nod to his every word and instruction without having any contrary opinion, addition, subtraction is shaky in his own self confidence. He probably needs a slave not a wife

ImaIma1:


And most married women are unintelligent?

ubunja:

Your words. Not mine.

biz2get:


No Worry.

I know your type.

YOU GO SOON GET SENSE.

CONTINUE TYPING/TWISTING OUT OF CONTEXT.