The naija society is a pretencious society.most men cannot accept the concept of an open rship yet they practice it without remorse.
Many of the women practice it but they are good pretenders.
there are alot of complexities to this issue

when a naija man is dating a woman he believes he can have other benefits and she should understand and never cheat on him once she does that she becomes A slut.he does not notice that the time and effort he is spending with other benefits is draining his so called rship and he consistently lies to her that she is the only one in most cases she knows better so when someone comes along and makes her feel happy about herself again she will most likely cheat but he may never know cos if he knws we all knw the usual result.

Alot of naija gals are cheats too they have sugar daddies and knw how to cover their track so they somehow do not mind if the guy is cheating.
In a lot of instances everybody is playing the game.so many issues here wish i could write more but duty calls