Ayotemide:


Had she been the dead one, you would probably be the one looking for another wife for him in 6months, but Here you are questioning 'loyalty'.

You are only loyal to a living partner, leave this ideals of toxic patriarchy behind and stop with the damned double standards, heck!

nuelyoyo:
Nigerians are really sentimental, they are castigating the lady for wanting to move on, some are saying maybe she didn't love her late husband. Nobody knows how the lady fared in the marriage with her late husband to have prompted this decision of hers. People shouldn't be judging what they don't have full information about.

AwkaetitiBabe:
The way you killed your girlfriend? Not everyone is a psycho like you.

Oyindidi:
After all Pastor Kumuyi re-marry after a year. Amother Pastor married his member 10 months after the wife passed on

kazyhm:


I never said or support her in-law dictating how she live her life after what.........


However, you're covering up some very vital info.....how many kids has she with her late husband ?

She is a working class........what the hurry for dicck just few months after her husband demise ?

The husband died as a result of an accident........instantly or he made it to the hospital ?

What's her relationship with the new man when her husband was alive...?

For how long was she married to the late husband ?...etc


Nevertheless, a virtuous women as we're all made to believed are attached to their spouse even when he is no more......examples everywhere.

Ryan03:
She have a son for her late husband, yes he died at the spot. I Dont know how you want me to have answers to the remaining questions. A virtuous woman you say, truely, we are victims of our belief (your signature)

Davash222:
Just 18 months after the death of her 'beloved' husband, she wants another dicck..



Women summarised!!

Ryan03:
There is on fixed time to mourn for someone you love, every one griefs differently. I Dont see anything wrong in it, marriage vows says till death do them part, why then do you think you have a say over the woman after the death of your kinsman? Do you realise you have no formal relationship with her after the death of your brother? Was there any signed contract as to how many years one party is to mourn incase one dies? Put sentiments aside, open your mind, you will find the truth

Oyindidi:
Marriage is till death do us part. If a partner is gone the other partner is free to re-marry. It all depends on the individual that is involved.

Men even sleep with their girlfriends on the day their wives pass on.... I went to a burial in Okrika some years ago and I couldn't stop crying as the husband was with his girlfriends, he doesn't look like a widower and he didn't allow her children to mourn. [s]I was heartbroken but no one condemned his act.[/s] If it were to be a woman the earth will stand still.

Op please stand by this woman, she is going through a lot right now

Ryan03:
I just want to write this short post hoping it will change someone's mentality base on the issue i'm about to discuss. A lady at my place of work lost her husband almost 1yr 6months ago, now, she is about 3months pregnant and wants to get married but the backlash she is receiving eh? Her late husband's people have been frustrating her saying it is too early to get married (i thought marriage is till death do us part?), why are they trying to control her life simply because she was once married to their brother? I want to believe the family members of this man have moved on with their lives since the death of their son, why then do you want to lock her up in mourning? The surprising part of it is that even women at the office are against her, some who have also lost their husbands are citing instances of how they watied 7years before re-marrying and so on. I felt bad for her, all she do now is to cry, and mind her business. This is so wrong, free that young lady, she didnt do wrong in marrying your kinsman

Logobenz1:
Look there is an undertone to everything bro.
Do you know what love is?if you love a person,moving on won't be that easy!
That's why the dead man's family is protesting because it kind of tells them the woman did not love their brother enough.
I remember 2008 when the first woman I ever loved left for France for studies.God I cried,did not date any other person till 2014 or so...


Love is not that easy to move on from.

I hate to break this to you bro....

You just gave yourself unnecessary KONGI for 6 good years ,

as soon as your back was turned, she started banging another guy.

I have learnt to not sacrifice myself in romantic relationships. Most partners are super selfish.

Who said she wasn't even cheating while she was around?

PS - @ the topic.... approx 2 years is reasonable, for BOTH SEXES.

Anything less, sorry you had no emotional connection to your spouse

kazyhm:



What are you reversing for.........
This is a peculiar case......... You said she is three months pregnant............18 - 3 - the number of months she has known the impregnator =.......is that how easy it is to found love again ?


Does she appear as a loyal wife to her late husband to you ?...... Besides, you didn't tell us how many kids she had with the late husband

Davash222:

Let the woman die first, then you can bring this question.

We now see why most husbands don’t Will their properties to their wives. The wife will now come and bring a wretched, broke man to come and be enjoying the man’s wealth while his family got nothing.

Men, wise up. These hoes ain’t loyal!!

Ryan03:
The said husband died in a car crash. Let me put this question to you, how long should it take for one (man/ woman) to get over a loved one? kindly state if this rule is for women only. PS she's my colleague and way older than me, her husband to be works at board of I.revenue

Davash222:

Let the woman die first, then you can bring this question.

We now see why most husbands don’t Will their properties to their wives. The wife will now come and bring a wretched, broke man to come and be enjoying the man’s wealth while his family got nothing.

Men, wise up. These hoes ain’t loyal!!