Bachwezi:
Na them!! SEE YOUR TYPE OP

Sandra8:


You said it already in your previous post dear I have to give dear but don't waste it. Love you

chinchum:
There can't be equal captain in a ship, same as no equal pilot in a plane, one has to be a co-pilot to assist the other.Your Husband is like a team leader, the wife is an important team member.
The husband is the de-facto head of the home. Nature bestows that on him.

As a lady, marry a sensible man who respects you, who can listen to you and also delegate some roles to you based on your strengths. There are no team with two team leaders. If you as a lady can not view your husband as your head, there is no point getting married. It is not a crime to not be married

blueAgent:


I anticipated that you will not be able to answer me
Let me help you, most feminists are ladies who have been abused or cheated upon by men and they lash out their anger on all men, most assume that feminism would be a solution to the problem, at the end the results do not meet expectations neither will it change who men are.

chinchum:
There can't be equal captain in a ship, same as no equal pilot in a plane, one has to be a co-pilot to assist the other.Your Husband is like a team leader, the wife is an important team member.
The husband is the de-facto head of the home. Nature bestows that on him.

As a lady, marry a sensible man who respects you, who can listen to you and also delegate some roles to you based on your strengths. There are no team with two team leaders. If you as a lady can not view your husband as your head, there is no point getting married. It is not a crime to not be married

Sandra8:


Any man who doesn't see you as the human you are but something lesser isn't worthy of any woman dear. Kisses

Korllami007:


If it can record success like polygamous marriage, it's a welcome development.

eni4real:
You can try to pay groom price too.. If it works for you!!

But Men should Hustle so that they can marry at least 2 wives and enjoy their own empire..

It pays to get the best out of 2 wives under your roof.. No self entitlement from any particular wife..

Polygamy is our ways as Africans..

Never give up!!!

Crazyblue:


You should ask first if every one thinks bride price makes any sense before you spill shii

eni4real:
How much is bride price in your village??
You can't defeat Elders...
They will collect...
Any man should avoid a woman that want to break that tradition.. .

She is a time bomb.. ..
Very very explosive temperament and self entitlement loading...

Sandra8:
After all has been said and done, men take pride in telling a woman, "you won't marry like this"- if you support feminism or women's right.
Truth be told that is a last resort by men to bend you to do their bidding against your common sense.
This is a cheap form of bullying, tactics kids employ on each other and not for adults. If you are old enough to date as a man, and you still use this tactics to silence your fellow woman you should be ashamed. Bullying is a crime under United Nations, in fact “Being protected from bullying is a fundamental human right,” said Marta Santos Pais , Special Representative of the Secretary-General on Violence against Children UN. That been said sensible guys will toll accordingly.

Times change and we must change with the times, women's movement, feminism etc will not seize but grow from strength to strength daily, weekly, monthly and yearly. As hard a pill as this is for men to swallow, they must certainly still swallow it. Many men here will eventually marry feminists in one form or the other with time. You can't stop the TIMES, you can only DENY it.

The power dynamics in relationships have long swayed to the females side than to mens side. Some ladies may not yet realize this but it's true.
Men make it look as if it's easy to get into a new relationship or even find a bride these days unlike women. Men spends weeks, months even years wooing their crush to agree to their love proposal. Time is even more valuable than money because once spent cannot be recovered unlike money. Men not only spend time in this pursuit they also spend loads of money(they tag this as investment in hopes it will pay off later on)

Now ladies imagine the dissapointment he must feel when you still turn him down despite all these. It's very painful to fathom.

You must also realize that men see ladies as trophies to be won and displayed to the admiration of others, that is their fellow guys.
Of cause we are more than trophies, we are human beings but just to buttress my point a man who finds a woman he desires that agrees to marry him feels blessed cause many men tried but failed to win you (their treasured trophy).

The point is men are as vulnerable in relationships as women but they never like to highlight that point (but majority of romance post on nairaland will confirm my view) , truth be told even more vulnerable because they do most of the hard work in relationships, women are mostly the beneficiaries of relationship.

Lastly relationship status of either male or female should never be a yard stick to judge or discriminate against anyone. Marriage just like any personal pursuit (higher education etc) in life is a personal matter and everyone should be entitled to their choice.

Cc
Funmmyastic
Blackivy29
Guest007
Fountainofyouth
Seun

healthserve:




You're fvcking good

I'm standing up on the table right now clapping.

Sandra8:


Thank you dear. Muah

healthserve:



More neutral energy write-ups. We need y'all as you'll def love our company. Damn smoosh energy

Sandra8:


...we all need each other

healthserve:



You feel the smoosh vibe eh Run over here

Sandra8:


Don't die yet dear, not on my trend o

Sandra8:

I'll prefer to catwalk

Goldensword:

Ubunja Ubunja Ubunja, Y nah do you want to take us back to egypt, please don't make this our soft work to turn hard work.

Sandra8:


I'm already on it dear. Hope you cry not in the end babe

Sandra8:


I'm already on it dear. Hope you cry not in the end babe

Goldensword:

Please on behave of all dedicated red pill followers, We appeal to you, Ubunja the god of relationship to sink this ship now before it sail away with all our beautiful women

ubunja:
tell people that you're not ubunja.

healthserve:



Relax Ubunja the energy is different. Everyone knows its not you. Those guys are just whiners. They simply imply a female Ubunja, that's all

ubunja:
someone is enjoying being mistaken for Ubunja.

I'm surprised guys can be this confused

healthserve:



I've been wondering where you were all day. Relax. On the way to becoming a brand, you'll attract imitators. Its the norm. The good news is what it reflects, your emergence as a brand that has been embraced and has morphed into new identities. So, yes, they'll enjoy the ride on your fame and would hlater finds theirs. You just need to be calm and maintain your originality.