LordPherule:


My mom do tell me this most times.

Pettyprincess:

Geez!!! I am 21!!!
Hw is 21 years old lady a small girl?

donstan18:
You are still a small girl in her Hoe-Phase.

Ask the nearest unmarried aged ladies around you, with time, reality and body go start to dey tell you, after the non-Nigerian guy is done with you.

He might even be the person behind the white guy's account.

Pettyprincess:
There is this guy i met on 2go long time ago when i was fourteen years old, we exchanged contact and since then we have been talking and he did usually call me everyday just to hear my voice,he is way older than i am.

After sometime we lost contact, and we reconnected back on facebook and we started talking since then, he has always told me he likes me blah blah but still waiting till i am mature enough.

So when i clocked 18, he told us to meet which i agreed and we actually met at a bar and he finally told me about his feelings physically and said he would love us to date but i declined because i actually had no feelings whatsoever for him but i said we can be friends.

So since then he has been calling me every single day, everyone in my family knows him because of his constant call and one day he told me he is at our area that he would love to see me i actually agreed even if i never wanted because people at my area will think i am dating this guy and i know he is not my type moreover after my first (unserious) bf that cheated on me because i didn't give him chochie i decided never to date Nigerian guy no more, but this guy that is crushing on me will not let me go.

After that first visit he now wants to turn to it to routine to always visit me whenever he is in Lagos which i am not comfortable with but i dont know how to tell him because he is really nice caring and has been there for me financially when i needed him but still it doesn't change my feelings.

Nw i gat a serious bf, although he is not Nigerian but he is also caring, honest, nice, very handsome and very tall and those are the features i like a guy to possess, especially I love when a guy is very tall because i am petite AKA portable
ND this non Nigerian guy has already talked to my mum and my mum seems to like him a lot although they couldn't speak well because my mum not so fluent in English.

So this guy crushing on me still wants to be visiting me again after i told him i have gotten a boyfriend but he insisted that he will still visit me which i told him okay.

So later he called me that he is almost at my area but b4 he could call me later i quickly blocked his number, he has probably called me many times with his number but later he called me with another number but the moment i had his voice i pretended as if the connection was really bad and we actually didn't see that day.

I know what i did was bad which i have been feeling quilty of bt i dnt wanna give him false hope that we can still date.

So later he sent me a message on whatsapp asking if i blocked his number which i deny because he would be really hurt if i had told him the truth.

Even after denying i blocked his number he has been calling me with another number and my boyfriend got to know this guy nd told me to tell him the truth bt i can't because i know it will very hurtful for him.

Nw i need advice on how i can let this guy to know my bf doesn't want him to be disturbing me with calls or try to visit me no more without his feelings getting hurt.

I only need mature advice!!!

Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

SAVEDBABA:
she said she has seen him before

Pettyprincess:

We see once in a blue moon because he is not living in Africa
He is also helping me me in every possible way
Nd he doesn't pressure me for sex because he want me as partner nd mould me fully.
Moreover why the rush?not every guy has Nigerian mentality!!

themonk:
He is fvcking someone else, small girl like you.

lilmax:
I don't understand, the man you chat with dey type "k"?

"Your second number z not going"?


BLOCK HIM IMMEDIATELY

Preshy561:
I had to log in to comment on this topic.
So many pained frustrated e-rats on this idiotic section.
Babe, even if he dumps you tomorrow, At Least, you've gotten something from him and please, make use of your teenage age and don't ever spare it. Drain any drainable and don't look back.
These scums on this forum will never cease to creat senseless and degrading topics on how to hate and degrade Nigerian women, [/b]now, the women are leaving them and they are complaining.
Lol. Stupid idiots. [b]Remember to even add another guy if you wish.
Love you girl.

Pettyprincess:

Geez!!! I am 21!!!
Hw is 21 years old lady a small girl?

Pettyprincess:

Thanks i know!!!
Most girls that are victims of sex trafficking are usually deceived by Nigerians promising to get them job in Europe
If i dont trust him nd he doesn't t trust me our relationship would never exist!!
He knows my mum dad nd sister,he is even friends on facebook with my sister nd do talk about Nigerian culture with my sister nd why i dnt wear Yoruba native wear
He even plans on visiting here soon!
So he's not a human trafficker or whatsoever.

Hoephase:
I doubt if you will read this but if you here are my note:

1. Don't be with someone out of pity. Cut the naija guy loose. It seems difficult but it is the best thing to do.

2. You have every right to be with anyone whether Polish or not. That is your decision.

3. Some people left you harsh comments, as harsh as some of them are they contain information you should take seriously.

4. I live in Western Europe and I can tell you what some people are trying to point out happen here more often than you could imagine. Just few days ago a Bulgarian lady was rescued from trafficking.

5. Like someone pointed out early, make sure you are in contact with his relative on Facebook at least not just his friends.

6. Before you leave for Europe make sure he visits Nigeria first at least with a family member that you have known before hand.

7. Him coming to Nigeria means he gets a visa and biometric passport. At least that will put up his record on an international database. Should anything happen at least your folks will know where to start and whom exactly they are looking for.

8. I repeat do not let him sweet talk you into coming over without him showing in Nigeria first. These guys ( I am not saying your guy is one of them) are sweet talker and they are good at what they do.

9. All the best and I pray it all work well for you.

pharrell8:
Telll him ur getting married soon... Hope u did not collect any money from him

Pettyprincess:

Thanks i know!!!
Most girls that are victims of sex trafficking are usually deceived by Nigerians promising to get them job in Europe
If i dont trust him nd he doesn't t trust me our relationship would never exist!!
He knows my mum dad nd sister,he is even friends on facebook with my sister nd do talk about Nigerian culture with my sister nd why i dnt wear Yoruba native wear
He even plans on visiting here soon!
So he's not a human trafficker or whatsoever.