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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by raphy(m): 2:29am On Oct 11, 2019
this post is fill up with Vaseline crew. I hail Una. ..as pastor Chris once said

to masturbates is not a crime...even when you are married but to be caught pant down with another girl when u are married is a crime.

all the girls given him advice here are still single n has Love Machine in there room.

bro if your wife keep starving u like that go buy female doll n drill her hole in ur wife presence she will be hornet n want it badly
don't hide any more body no be wood.
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Bridget95(f): 2:40am On Oct 11, 2019
GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"
Do you know what masturbation does to you spiritually?
Masturbation brings you to a point of spirit darkness i.e a spiritual state where you are like a playing ground for demons must especially succubus spirits.Having sex in the mind via masturbation or actual sex with a person who isn't your wife does the same thing (spiritual weakness)
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Jwonder(m): 2:44am On Oct 11, 2019
MrCuteking:
My advice for you is exactly what worked for me.

You will cancel the old addiction with a new addiction.

The new addiction is the inability to masturbate.
Using the word "I can't masturbate" as a new lifestyle
And if the thought comes, remind it that you've heard but not today, instead let it be next year.

Another thing is to remember that sex and masturbation is overrated. We were so engrossed with it because then we were kids. Apostle Paul said

"When I was a child, I thought like a child but now that I am old I put away with my childish behaviour"

Not clearly quoted but if you view it from my angle. Those who masturbate are in the class of those who think like kids but now that you have grown up to be wise that you need to stop, you have to start putting away the childish behaviour including every other things you did that can spring up the thought.

Don't forget,
DON'T FIGHT IT,
JUST BE ADDICTED TO A NEW LIFE WITHOUT MASTURBATION

Remember you once learnt it, you can as well unlearn it with this new lifestyle.
I wish you well as you digest my comment.

I'm so glad People with sense are still on Nairaland, my God's grace on your life never run dry, may God continue to bless you

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by witworth(m): 3:09am On Oct 11, 2019
go and sin no more with your bullshits story

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Donbabaj: 3:17am On Oct 11, 2019
Masturbation won't make you enjoy your wife again. It could lead to Low sperm count too.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by handsomeyinka(m): 3:24am On Oct 11, 2019
dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.
Pastor sef they masturbate .
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by gemwindowsdoors: 3:30am On Oct 11, 2019
wow
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by olaodun: 3:35am On Oct 11, 2019
ON YOUR ISSUE PLEASE HEAR THIS

1. Know the act is a sin and it is a disobedient to God's law and there will be a negative consequence and damage to your health and physical body
2 . God loves you and He does not want you to be a slave and there is power in Christ to break every yoke
3. Repent and forsake the old ways stop watching any evil films
4 Resist the devil, and all its activities Pray for deliverance and invite Holy Spirit to come into your heart and take control of your body and life
5 Read the Bible Roman 6 , and others and read many christian novels written by Holiness preachers
6 By always busy to pursue your goals and how to serve your generation in higher capacity like Bill Gate and others use your energy on real things
TRY THESE IT WILL WORK FOR YOU

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 3:37am On Oct 11, 2019
LOMBARDY:
The question should be..Why did your wife refuse you sex?? I mean for that long
Go and read his post again and check out what u wrote.
U and the idiats that liked your post.

If it's hard for u to comprehend, let me help you out.

It took his wife 10 months to conceive and people thought she had a problem(typical naija mentality) but he knows she isn't at fault.
Meaning that he stopped having sex with her for so long that she was not able to conceive because he was constantly masturbating in the restroom!
Will she give herself belle?

The so-quick-to-crucify a woman juveniles that litter nairaland space looking for families to set on fire.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by kriss27(m): 3:41am On Oct 11, 2019
GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"
God forbid
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Studyinchina200(m): 3:45am On Oct 11, 2019
Bible ?

Must everything be about religion,wetin concern reading bible with masturbating,what if the guy is a Muslim ,smh for some of you Nigerians.


Mutemenot:
Your wife is your helper here . She should be able to satisfy you anytime anyday you have urge. Gradually you will keep away... if you are a Christian, reading your bible and hearing God's word 'll also help you... You can even look for a good preacher online who's audio tape you can listen to often
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by usex(m): 4:03am On Oct 11, 2019
Let her read this:
Why ban your husband from purchase sex doll?
In long-term marriages, more and more couples have no sex. Sex dolls are a good gift to maintain their long-term relationship, and they have prevented many couples from breaking their marriage. Although sex doll can stimulate, they are still different from sex robots designed for much more complex sexual acts or interactions. Sex dolls are just toys that your husband can use to masturbate while you’re away.
Sex dolls are artificial products that can not trigger emotions. Although these lifelike sex dolls, they are obviously not real and can not give your husband compassion or affection. And although they are love doll, they can not sleep with their husband. They only act as intimacy gadgets, so your husband would never be emotionally associated with these dolls. Her husband will only use the love doll to satisfy his sexual desires and nothing else. Despite the recent developments in these dolls, they have no human mind and no ability to think.
First tell him that the sex doll may only be used at certain times. These times include; if you are ill or pregnant, are not at home and if you basically do not feel like having sex. Excessive use of the sex doll can lead to loss of interest in the woman. Also tell your husband that the doll may only be used for the sole purpose of sexual gratification. Discourage things like carrying the sex doll around in restaurants, nature parks or shops. The doll should only be used at home and at certain times. Given the immense benefits and compliance of sex dolls, there is no reason to ban your husband from purchase the doll.

Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by tianshie(m): 4:15am On Oct 11, 2019
Introduce your wife to po.rn.
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by KosiGee(m): 4:20am On Oct 11, 2019
Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing.

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

The op’s head is filled with images of porn. That’s not very good and he doesn’t even need to watch porn to start the act...the images are alive in his memory and ready to be retrieved. His hard drive has been overwhelm with that and he only need little motivation to get into it:

He needs to reflect and do something. I can’t tell him to stop as it’s similar to telling a drug addict to clean himself up and stop.

As much as you might doubt it, masturbation isn’t the way to go. This man is MARRIED. He has been caught several times by the wife and he is feeling embarrassed. Who knows who else might ‘catch’ him in the act??

He has a problem and need to act fast and sort it out before it ruins his marriage. His porn watching and getting caught by the wife signifies great danger...HE IS A CARELESS MAN. A very careless man who gets frustrated, rush to the office to relieve himself... does that tell you anything??

He is a danger waiting to happen at the office. Someone might see him one day! I have a feeling that his phone memory is filled with all sorts. He might be using the computers at the office to watch porn. Somebody tell me that I’m wrong.

Oga op, you need to sort your problems with your wife. Nothing like a good woman. Porn and masturbation do not go well with marriage. It has already affected your wife taking long as you put it to conceive...

Finally you need to grow up, if your woman don’t ‘feel like it’ leave her alone and stop resorting to porn. Grow up and act mature. Waiting for it till she’s ready is fun and healing. Porn and masturbation are bad substitute to good sex in a marriage.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 4:21am On Oct 11, 2019
Funny write up
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by WeRblessed(f): 4:25am On Oct 11, 2019
I don't advise children
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by menonfire: 4:30am On Oct 11, 2019
lol omg
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by KosiGee(m): 4:34am On Oct 11, 2019
ikennaiteogu:
Funny write up, truth is you don't need to stop pleasing yourself just combine it well with your wife. Most men masturbate, it's not a major problem. It's better than cheating

If your wife isn’t enough for you, there is a problem. Most people won’t admit it but it’s an issue that messes with lots of people.

It doesn’t stop at masturbation. Such men can’t lend you their phone when you have an emergency and there are possibilities that their lack of discipline might push them to use companies computers.

If you are married or have a serious girl friend, you shouldn’t be wasting your energy unless you married the wrong woman or have the wrong girl friend.

When you feel Hot, your first thought should be your wife/gf not some porn actress. If you start thinking of porn actresses and the rest room when you feel hot instead of your woman, there is a problem.

If you are in a serious relationship, porn and masturbation shouldn’t be getting in the way.

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by sholey4love: 4:34am On Oct 11, 2019
Xirmuhel:
Please when someone masturbate Is it counted as a sin?
YES
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Octopusssy(f): 4:40am On Oct 11, 2019
GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"
What kind of brain dead comment is this?
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 4:44am On Oct 11, 2019
Bridget95:
Do you know what masturbation does to you spiritually?
Masturbation brings you to a point of spirit darkness i.e a spiritual state where you are like a playing ground for demons must especially succubus spirits.Having sex in the mind via masturbation or actual sex with a person who isn't your wife does the same thing (spiritual weakness)

Does this thread look like thread of people who care about spiritual things.??...u better carry ur advice elsewhere....the christains of today are just too much on the carnal side.....the problem is we begin to ask if it is a sin to justify our actions, we ask where is it written in the Bible....
We forget to serve God means serving him in spirit... that means being more spiritual and that can’t go together with gratifying the extra cravings of the flesh.....drinking, smoking, gluttony, multiple wives.etc 100% of people who masturbate do so with mental guide. either with pornographyy or an imagination with a woman they want....sincerely I don’t know how a so called Christian can say there’s nothing wrong with this part..it’s a package that always go together....
no body holy pass oooo...:but I like to classify wrong doin as wrong and not pretend just to justify my actions or even make others join me..

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Nobody: 4:47am On Oct 11, 2019
Octopusssy:

What kind of brain dead comment is this?

That’s the comment of veteran masturbator... those whose mind has separated the pleasure of masturbationn from the pleasure with a woman...masturbationn for them is like a side chick.....see the way he analysed it like a scientific methodology...

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Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by rugcleaners: 4:50am On Oct 11, 2019
wow you are in a pickle
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by JYKZ: 4:54am On Oct 11, 2019
if u determine to stop it u must device device a means tru which u wil stop it.it's up 2 u bro.
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by Octopusssy(f): 4:54am On Oct 11, 2019
1StopRudeness:


That’s the comment of veteran masturbator... those whose mind has separated the pleasure of masturbationn from the pleasure with a woman...masturbationn for them is like a side chick.....see the way he analysed it like a scientific methodology...
95% of those giving 'advice' aren't even married, which is why one should never bring their issues to the internet like this because people like that guy will dabaru your life for you. Misery loves company
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by DNSPro: 4:58am On Oct 11, 2019
Amarabae:
Untamed premarital sexual habits.
Go to mountain of fire for deliverance
wrong. The wife is the problem. They are not sexually compatible. One likes sex and the other does not. This is something they should have discussed extensively.
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by MiddleDimension: 5:05am On Oct 11, 2019
Godtschild:
Op, there is nothing wrong in masturbating or watching porn. It depends on how you use the above. I am married, and in marriage it’s not all the time couples are in sync to have sex. I would never force or make my partner feel bad she is not ready to have sex when I am, that’s selfishness. When only one one of us is in the mood, the other helps by MouthAction or aid in masturbation. Sometimes we watch soft porn together to get both of us in the mood. If you have much higher libido than she does, then you don’t have to masturbate alone, she can help you jerk off.

only when the world begins to see masturbation and porn as ab acceptable alternative life choice will we solve this problem
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by cosmy45: 5:06am On Oct 11, 2019
You need jesus in your life
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by MiddleDimension: 5:06am On Oct 11, 2019
chigoziri2403:
You have already made up your mind to continue the act
When you are ready to stop, you will stop.

there is no need for him to stop.
Re: I Still Masturbate Even After I Got Married by MiddleDimension: 5:08am On Oct 11, 2019
Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing.

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

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