SenecaTheYonger:


What you don't know is taht a lot of Nigerians marry because they were told not to self-service instead to get married. So they rush into such an important thing like marriage. And when they've had all the sex they need, they find that they're not even compatible, they just married because of sex. Now, their marriages start developing problems, and before you know it, they're singing that everyone should avoid marriage, this and that. Person wey marry for sex oh?

wawu that's really dumb esp. when all it costs to fvck one of 'em elebi gehs is a plate of rice and 500 credit

Joystark:
If masturbation is a sin eh, many people will end up in hell.

Will you be among?

Cutehector:
There is no solution to your problem

I see no problem here.

blackpanthar:


The major problem is NOT porn... though PORN is an addiction you have to stop

THE MAJOR PROBLEM IS LACK OF TRANSPARENCY BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR WIFE

You seem to have married a sexual misfit... guys who have ever been victims of masturbation are meant to marry women with very HIGH LIBIDO so that they can be distracted from the act...

She was supposed to always look for new ways to seduce you and try new things in BED... she is supposed to be kinky and open to sex any day and any time...

I am NOT saying you married wrong... am saying you didnt tell her about your addictions and your HIGH sexual drive.
You both need to see a counselor and a sex therapist.

If this is not checked early, you wont desire your wife sexually anymore... and that is where CHEATING STARTS...

your wife cheated on you by refusing you sex... MARRIAGE MEANS, HER BODY IS YOURS... and your BODY is hers...

lemme stop here

All these ones na when money dey and people don't chop belleful

Masturbation at first is like any other habit but over time it has the ability of becoming a strong hold. At this point it becomes difficult to stop because even your self will becomes helpless. I will advise you do the following if you want to overcome it
1. Avoid been alone most times
2.Speak to someone about it. Someone you can be accountable to and who will not judge you. e g a pastor or counsellor
3.Renew your mind by listening to good preaching or reading your bible
4.Avoid soft and hard core pornography.
5.Expose your life to God's presence by attending church and prayer sessions. After a while you won't even know how the habit will disappear. Grace is always available to help. shalom

when i see a woman i like,no need wasting time to woo her,i just get my vaseline,and bang her in my head.

You took 10 months to get her pregnant and people thought there was a problem? This shows what's wrong with Nigerian mentality. Why have a baby right away? Nigeria is already overpopulated. Why not wait a few years, earn enough and get to know each other better then have a baby?

Deliverance case,There are SLAVES that LOVE their CHAINS

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

XavierD:
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I don't think you and your wife are very close yet.

I mean, if I masturbate, my partner should be the first to know about it, maybe when my partner travelled or something. We will talk about it, make jokes about it. And later do it together sef.

At 27, you should be very sexually active. Your wife should know that too and your limits.

Partners masturbate in front of each other all the time. Nothing to be ashamed of ...

..

Is that really possible? Especially on the side of women.

There are some anti porn apps on playstore that can help u just search for em

Realdeals:
Your mental set is the key, what you consider as sin is a sin to you other may not view it same way.
Is your wife rejection of your sexual advances when you needed her not a sin? Is she not breaking the marital vow?
See, some religious rules and regulations which are man made but ascribed to God has condition us to self torture.

You should be prepared to defend your actions and ensure their is justification, don't be arm twisted to believe that masturbation, side chicks are outright sin. Be ready to stand by your action.

Even side chicks?

LOMBARDY:
The question should be..Why did your wife refuse you sex?? I mean for that long

Typical naija man, always finding a way to blame the woman!

Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

It is when you try to stop it that you will discover the truth, THE DEMON has taken over you. If you doubt me, try to stop it for the next 3 days

My brother I share in your experience. I wanted to ignore but my spirit commended me to reply. What you are passing through is similar experience with me. I started masturbation at 15, but even after I gave my life to Christ, the struggle was still on. I married and I still prefered mastubation until I cried out to God to break this yoke and evil habit.
Jesus is still available in the business of setting the captives free. Cry out to God for help. Give your life to Christ if you still living in sin without Christ. Study the word of God because it is the surest weapon to sanctify and set you free. The word of God will build a wall around your heart against immoral thoughts. Do away with all forms of pornographic material and website in and around you. It's a fight you have to fight but you will overcome by God's grace and love.
No fear. Jesus paid for sexual immorality on the cross. Receive your victory in Jesus name.
God loves you.

ctleurocollege:



It is when you try to stop it that you will discover the truth, THE DEMON has taken over you. If you doubt me, try to stop it for the next 3 days

If u sin.
Means u also have a demon.

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

... you are in a god level when it comes to masturbation am in you category too. Imergination makes it last ...

dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

No5 crack my ribs. ...still rolling on the floor

donstan18:
You just have to accept the fact that marriage can't stop masturbation.

Exactly, both sensations are way different

Xirmuhel:
Please when someone masturbate Is it counted as a sin?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.
Masturbation is a blessing.
Fornication was condemned by God.
Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
Answer: The Bible does not mention masturbation or state whether or not masturbation is a sin. The passage most frequently associated with masturbation is the story of Onan in Genesis 38:9–10. Some interpret this passage to say that “spilling your seed” is a sin. However, that is not what the passage is saying. God condemned Onan not for “spilling his seed” but because Onan was rebellious. Onan refused to fulfill his duty to provide an heir for his deceased brother. The passage is not about masturbation but about fulfilling a family obligation.

Comedian2019:

No5 crack my ribs. ...still rolling on the floor

Lol...

franchasng:
Which men don't masturbate


95% or more of men masturbate, the remaining 5% are those that lie that they don't masturbate to feel holy or different.

So in summary, masturbation is part of life of all men, some can luckily outgrow it not by their power but natural trait, while some will not until maybe old age or a certain age when their sexual libido has fired down down.


Don't let anybody fool you, all men masturbate and if at all there is any guy that does not masturbate at all, he will be a chronic sex addict always hustling for any available pussy to swim

still on still not all men bro...

MiddleDimension:


the same thing happens when you have sex too often. but the solution is to stop doing it for a while, and then watch it come back full strength.

sex and masturbation are entirely different bro,,
masturbation can last a minute u release and ,it takes so much energy from your system thereby making u weak after the wanking
,
but sex you can last up to 30,,or 40 minutes some last up to 1 hour before they release sperm you will still have energy to go for round 2
,,if u masturbate ,you body system starts getting used to releasing sperm in 1 minutes this will make you to have quick ejaculations and erectile disfunction,,
when you see a woman your body system starts getting ready for sex by producing the necessary fluids and vitalities to guide u through,,
but the same is not applied to masturbation,
***
our body doesnt belongs to us, we have to respect and learn to train our body to give us what we actually want from it

dalongjnr:
Meet ur wife and tell her that you are a mastubator.
Be open minded about it.
2.meet you pastor and tell him so that he should pray for you.
3.Meet a counselor or psychotherapist and discussed the issue.
4.Don't stay alone in an enclosed place.
5.Meet the eldest man in your village to allow you be or else u will be 60yrs and be doing the same thing.

Meet pastor so that he can be the next example in the next Sunday service?

This issue of masturbation will always be discussed just like Ronaldo and Messi. The matter strong oh.

Godtschild:
Why do Nigerians always expect the wife to give it to the husband anytime he wants it!!! What about her? Does he give the wife anytime she wants it? Anytime my partner is not in the mood, I get MouthAction. Nobody should be forced to have sex if they are not feeling it. Marriage should be sweet not endured.

she is nt on d mood bt d mouth action s on mood..LOLZ BAD GUY

BananaTree:


Meet pastor so that he can be the next example in the next Sunday service?

Ah,not all pastors are basket mouth.

Justsmile and mzabby please comment for once. I know both of you are viewing this thread.

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

I see alot of people here telling you to be calm and dats it's not a bad thing. Well there is one thing I know and it's conscience. God gave us to know the difference between good and evil. If it was good, you won't be ashamed when your wife caught. If it was good no one will cower.. We will all do it in public. So think bro.. U gotta stop this.. That is not you. You're mature to know what's wrong and right. Follow the advise of people who asked you to stop. For example don't stay in a room alone.. Don't ever watch porn ever again. Talk with your wife.. What happened to your sex life. I wish you the very best, as you embark on quest to stop this addiction. Cheers to you.. If you will

Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing.

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

Oga stop talking like a Goat.
Masturbation and Fornication are both ADULTEROUS acts that was condemned by God.
We limit Adultery to “wrong ACTS of sexual intercourse” but Christ made us understand it is a thing of the “EYES” not acts alone, as you can bear me witness that B/4 every act of Masturbation or Fornication something has happened in your mind/imagination already.
That covetous force that leads you to make sexual advances to that lady(object of fantasy) or masturbate yourself secretly is what God counts as Adultery and Condemned it to the core.
Now why Masturbation is more dangerous is because of it's impact on your MENTAL HEALTH(as it is basically an imaginary activity) Persistence in this activity for long will make your brain cells get used to WEIRD/Excessive sexual stimulations and you face the danger of
*Unproductive Life
*Abnormal sex cravings and thoughts
*Depression(as guilt always follows it)
*Poor self image.
Simply put, with Fornication the enemy is outside and your sexual activity is only as long as that person( the babe) is around of which when she is gone, you
are able to concentrate on other things. But with Masturbation, you will plant the enemy deep within, If you dey with babe, you go jus dey look, dey fantasize, might not even have the guts to talk to girls and then in your most private moment you are still struggling with your thoughts and imagination.
I an not a pioneer of both as they are completely adulterous, but truth is Masturbation destroys your self control as a man and kills you more than fornication would.

CalvinGaye:



Oga stop talking like a Goat.
Masturbation and Fornication are both ADULTEROUS acts that was condemned by God.
We limit Adultery to “wrong ACTS of sexual intercourse” but Christ made us understand it is a thing of the “EYES” not acts alone, as you can bear me witness that B/4 every act of Masturbation or Fornication something has happened in your mind/imagination already.
That covetous force that leads you to make sexual advances to that lady(object of fantasy) or masturbate yourself secretly is what God counts as Adultery and Condemned it to the core.
Now why Masturbation is more dangerous is because of it's impact on your MENTAL HEALTH(as it is basically an imaginary activity) Persistence in this activity for long will make your brain cells get used to WEIRD/Excessive sexual stimulations and you face the danger of
*Unproductive Life
*Abnormal sex cravings and thoughts
*Depression(as guilt always follows it)
*Poor self image.
Simply put, with Fornication the enemy is outside and your sexual activity is only as long as that person( the babe) is around of which when she is gone, you
are able to concentrate on other things. But with Masturbation, you will plant the enemy deep within, If you dey with babe, you go jus dey look, dey fantasize, might not even have the guts to talk to girls and then in your most private moment you are still struggling with your thoughts and imagination.
I an not a pioneer of both as they are completely adulterous, but truth is Masturbation destroys your self control as a man and kills you more than fornication would.

Stop abusing people when trying to preach.
U called me a goat an expect me to listen to your Bible quotations...

If a pastor stopped u on the road by shouting "hey goat" come here.... I have a message for u... Would u take the pastor serious?

CalvinGaye:



Oga stop talking like a Goat.
Masturbation and Fornication are both ADULTEROUS acts that was condemned by God.
We limit Adultery to “wrong ACTS of sexual intercourse” but Christ made us understand it is a thing of the “EYES” not acts alone, as you can bear me witness that B/4 every act of Masturbation or Fornication something has happened in your mind/imagination already.
That covetous force that leads you to make sexual advances to that lady(object of fantasy) or masturbate yourself secretly is what God counts as Adultery and Condemned it to the core.
Now why Masturbation is more dangerous is because of it's impact on your MENTAL HEALTH(as it is basically an imaginary activity) Persistence in this activity for long will make your brain cells get used to WEIRD/Excessive sexual stimulations and you face the danger of
*Unproductive Life
*Abnormal sex cravings and thoughts
*Depression(as guilt always follows it)
*Poor self image.
Simply put, with Fornication the enemy is outside and your sexual activity is only as long as that person( the babe) is around of which when she is gone, you
are able to concentrate on other things. But with Masturbation, you will plant the enemy deep within, If you dey with babe, you go jus dey look, dey fantasize, might not even have the guts to talk to girls and then in your most private moment you are still struggling with your thoughts and imagination.
I an not a pioneer of both as they are completely adulterous, but truth is Masturbation destroys your self control as a man and kills you more than fornication would.

If only u knew masturbation has nothing to do with you being able to talk to girls.
So u mean all those who don't masturbate have the confidence to talk to girls and those who masturbate are introverts and recluses.
You still reason like a kid...
U said masturbation has impact on your mental health.... I'm what ways?
That you chat online often doesn't mean u still can't talk to people u meet offline.
It's all in your head.

Also u should know.... Too much of anything is a disease....not just masturbation