1. Marriage cannot stop masturbation.
2. You have issues to resolve with your wife; sit down and resolve it.

Holding sex as a punishment is not good for either of you.

For those advising him to continue masturbating, here's the catch. Masturbating and Porn watching can lead to erectile dysfunction. Google PIED (Porn Induced Erectile Dysfunction) and you will understand better. My honest advice is, if she constantly denies you sex, find a lady and Bleep. Heaven knows she caused it and not you

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

This is rather shameful, you shouldn't have talked since you don't have good advice to give. It's ruining your life and you don't know.

My advice to the young man is to stop watching porn. Also you should let your wife know that she should not refuse you anytime you are pressed because that may push you back into the act. Thirdly, there is a cure from Christ, it's a matter of giving him a chance and pray for help. God be with you

My dear friend, you are actually playing with fire. Please stop this nonsense now before it ruin your life that you ever regret both here and in the hereafter

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)
I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

It is only the power of salvation through Jesus Christ that can break the hold of this bondage. U need to be set free from the shame of this habit and this is possible if u can accept Jesus as your Lord and saviour. He loves you bro.

GuyWise:
Your wife is the problem here because she knowing fully well about your condition and still refuse you entering her honey well is an act of wickedness.


You guys going upto weeks without sexual intercourse speaks volume of the fact that your wife is seeing someone else or she too is a MASTURBATOR (just that she's being to careful for you not too see her doing it)


I LOVE MASTURBATION AND I DON'T THINK I AM QUITTING ANYTIME SOON NOT EVEN WHEN I AM MARRIED..... I love to masturbate.


Secondly "If you want to enjoy masturbation don't do it with porn, just use your imagination, you will last longer and enjoy the beautiful act"

Were re oh.

Bonatheripper:

Keep shut.

I'm a man an I own a dick.
My penis have bin the same for years now.
So if I fornicate once everyday I'll also get erectile dysfunction?
Go and sleep....it's just like saying a girl who gets hard nipples everyday will also get nipples dysfunction.
They're many causes of erectile dysfunction... It is never masturbation.
Masturbation itself makes u last longer on bed cause u already release too often and your sperm bank isn't always filled to the brim which causes delay in ejaculation.


Sugar, excessive beer, drugs like tramadol, old age and some other diet are the root causes of penile dysfunction.
Not masturbation.
I know because I masturbate and fornicate actively

thumbs up for schooling that illiterate

1StopRudeness:


Does this thread look like thread of people who care about spiritual things.??...u better carry ur advice elsewhere....the christains of today are just too much on the carnal side.....the problem is we begin to ask if it is a sin to justify our actions, we ask where is it written in the Bible....
We forget to serve God means serving him in spirit... that means being more spiritual and that can’t go together with gratifying the extra cravings of the flesh.....drinking, smoking, gluttony, multiple wives.etc 100% of people who masturbate do so with mental guide. either with pornographyy or an imagination with a woman they want....sincerely I don’t know how a so called Christian can say there’s nothing wrong with this part..it’s a package that always go together....
no body holy pass oooo...:but I like to classify wrong doin as wrong and not pretend just to justify my actions or even make others join me..

Not all Christians are on the carnal side."God is a spirit and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth" KJV. Masturbation is a sin .

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I will just advise you to try as much as possible to do away with the thought of doing it and you also need to implement self discipline. And also talk to your wife about it. Masturbation is a bad addiction.

oluwaniyi66:



Instruction on how to cure masturbation!

Delete all nude pictures and porn videos from your phone.



You will read Bible for 1 hour everyday and pray 30 mins between the hours of 9pm to 10:30pm.

You will summarize whatever you have read and submit to me every night.

You are reading the book of Roman first, then move to, 1st and 2nd Peter, Ephesians and Phillipian, then to 1 and 2nd Corinthians, then 1,2nd and 3rd John and finally Hebrew before you start all over again.

One chapter per day. You can also read it with different version of Bible.

You can use multiversion Bible or devotional Bible from Google playstore.

Pick your jotter and write down whatever you gain from the Bible reading.

You will pray with whatever you wrote down from the bible verses you read with respect to healing from masturbation and lust..

You will write down what you gained in your hotter before 11pm.

You will sleep immediately after the prayer and jotting.

No more night browsing.

If you follow this strictly, your victory is sure.

Hallelujah!

Note : On no account should you miss the Bible reading and prayer any day.

It's like a drug, once you miss a day before you are totally healed, you will start again.

©Sexual Puritan Oluwaniyi Aderopo Hezekiah

LOL who get time for all these?

as I dey read comment self I feel like masturbating

am coming

MiddleDimension:


first of all, god did not create anyone and that's why his laws don't work!

secondly, paul said ''the things i would like to do, i find myself not doing them; it is those things i do not like to do, that i find myself doing. who can save me from this flesh! he probably was talking about masturbation

Must everything be about cumming for u.?? what’s God’s law that’s not working...God Gave us just one law....love...violating that law is why the world is where it is today...anyways let’s not get into the atheist-theist argument ....
God ddnt tell anyone not to masturbate, or not to drink or not to smoke tobacco or marijuana, people have just over the years operated at a better level of spirituality when these extra flesh cravings are avoided or reduced to the nearest minimum....the entire length and breath of religion is discipline....what kinda discipline are we practicing if we have a partner and yet drag the pen!s like it committed an offense....we humans are too addicted to sex...it’s too overrated and we attach so much importance to it it has ruined many lives and disgraced many great men.

seanwilliam:
well 80% of guys ive come across said they masturbate. stop it if it is affecting ur sexual life.

what about u? u dey do am?
mr researcher.

Bridget95:
Not all Christians are on the carnal side."God is a spirit and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in truth" KJV. Masturbation is a sin .

..I’m sure I ddnt say all Christians are carnal...please what point are u trying to pas across to me??

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Bro listen, don't force it, it would stop by itself, you'd wake up one day and not just want to do it again.... honestly, I'm talking from experience... stop giving it much thoughts

Ubdavis:

what about u? u dey do am? mr researcher.

yep

LordPsalm:
Plenty people won't make heaven 4 this Nairaland so

To go n do what...

Even those claiming righteous on earth don't want to die

clarkmos15:
We started d same age bro i'm 19 now

Na im be say you never start because am way older than you

Aurielfinizu:


See your name na... Okorohausa..
Rochas still de masturbate? Lol

Lol

Forreellinc:

you go marry because you no wan dey w@nk? Ya dumb

What you don't know is taht a lot of Nigerians marry because they were told not to self-service instead to get married. So they rush into such an important thing like marriage. And when they've had all the sex they need, they find that they're not even compatible, they just married because of sex. Now, their marriages start developing problems, and before you know it, they're singing that everyone should avoid marriage, this and that. Person wey marry for sex oh?

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

porn is the cause of your problem... Stop it

Bridget95:
Do you know what masturbation does to you spiritually?
Masturbation brings you to a point of spirit darkness i.e a spiritual state where you are like a playing ground for demons must especially succubus spirits.Having sex in the mind via masturbation or actual sex with a person who isn't your wife does the same thing (spiritual weakness)

Look at the display picture yuo're using and you're talking about how masturbation is a sin. So what about nocturnal emission then? Those that don't don't masturbate or fornicate, but still ejaculate while sleeping, constantly. What will you call that? How did the succubus come to play with them?

Masturbation damages the brain, desist from it now.

nextnear:
No, na rope, idiot na man no be woman. even if u no fit write sensibly, bt at least read reasonably

I'm lost.

Are you for me or against me rn?

Bonatheripper:
I started when I was 13.
I'm about 3times that now and I stil enjoy masturbation.
Seriously why do people even think masturbation is a much bigger sin than fornication?
Is not the same semem u release?

Why do people think constant masturbation makes u ejaculate faster while constant fornication makes u learn how to last longer?

People are seriously crazy.
Masturbation helps u save money, saves u from STD, saves u from unwanted pregnancies and babbies, saves u from breaking girls hearts.

Masturbation is a blessing.

Fornication was condemned by God.

Anyone who thinks fornication is better than masturbation is an idiot who wants to feel less guilty with what he or she is doing.
People sha are weird

Where is this world heading to, you are proud that you masturbate. Go for deliverance that's my advise.

awwfar:
huh, you mean my head would fit into your holes ...must be very wide already due to large traffic going through the route

That's the highest bash imps can come up with.

donstan18:
You just have to accept the fact that marriage can't stop masturbation.

Yes, it can and yes it does stops masturbation. The major problem here is that the man yet truly ready to quit, and because the wife isn't so interested in helping him quit or she doesn't frown at the idea.

Marriage is an amplifier. It makes loud whatever you take into it. Marriage does not cure immorality. It can only cover it for a period of time. Inordinate sexual desire is a thing of the mind. Deal with it and you'll be free. Guard you heart with diligence for out of it flows the issue of life.

Octopusssy:

95% of those giving 'advice' aren't even married, which is why one should never bring their issues to the internet like this because people like that guy will dabaru your life for you. Misery loves company

Yeah, only people that have been president in the past can advice a sitting president. If I ever hear you say anything negative about this current president again, you'll tell me whether you were once a president.

2blockus:
Hello friends although this may sound strange to some person but it's the truth.

I started masturbating when I was 15 and I did it until I grew up and I feel is better than having girls that will take all my time and money.

fast forward I got a job and I pray to God to help stop this practice, another thought came to me that I should marry @ 27 so I can stop this act which I did and got married to a lovely wife.

At the first month I feel it will work not until one day my wife refuse me sex that made me to get angry I just pray to get to the office on time so I can help my self.

this was how it started and now I can't remember the last I had sex with her. infact it took us 10 month before she could conceive and people thought she had problem but I know the cause.

please I need a matured advice as she have caught me severally doing it in the restroom and I was just ashamed of myself.

note i still watch porn but not much shaaa.

Ur basically struggling with a bad habit, marrying a brandnew wife doesn’t make u conquer or change ur mindset about the habit it only distracts u from it. If u want to stop start my having the will and following steps to break strong habits. It will take focused discipline both mental and physical bt once u get a hang of it Ure good to go. Cheers