Hello Nairalanders, I need matured advice!
I just created this account to enable me anonymously share my story and say what's bothering me.

It's going to be a bit lengthy read but please be patient, you will complete it in less time than you imagined.........

In 2016 I turned 32 years of age and had sex for The first time after 14 long years of no sex.
Very pretty pitit Ebony babe in her 20s, intelligent too. She wanted sex, I wanted love (Don't blame me, I loved her) . She once asked me if I was gay because she probably expected me to initiate sex and I got the message. So one day, I took her to the movies and we spent the night in a hotel together afterward. I was scared somehow, couldn't sleep. "What if" questions started popping up in my head. What if she did not want sex, what if I she wanted to try me?
I summoned courage and placed my hand round her while laying on the bed and turned her to face me and that was it. She wanted it. In no time, she asked if I had condoms and I quickly rushed out the hotel room to get one. I did not know when I asked a female receptionist where I could get a pack of condom and she looked excited for me as she gave me directions. In a jiffy, I was already in my hotel room door with a pack of condoms.

We continued from where we stopped.
In less than 2 mins of penetrating, I already cum. I felt so ashamed of myself. Worst part was that I wanted to continue but for some weird reason, I couldn't.

I wanted a rematch but it never happened. We broke up few weeks after the incident. She was very nice to me and supported my project . She gave me #100k for my startup project which I am yet to launch. Something I am forever grateful for. Despite my ef ups.

She eventually got married, and I am so happy for her. Although, I wasn't at first because I really loved her to be in my life as my wife and partner. But It was obviously not meant to be. God already designed something better for us.

Now here is my problem, after we moved on, I easily get girls and they easily give sex but the problem is that I last longer than normal. I have had sex that lasted over 4 hours and once I cum, it's game over. In other words, I cum very late.

I know some guys will think it is a good thing but trust me, it is not. Not every woman likes it.

I have made a lady have intense multiple orgasms and she hailed me. The last time we had sex she begged and cried for me to cum. At first I taught the tears was out of ecstasy but I was wrong. She was tired.
"You will kill me if u continue" and she will want to give me head instead.

Anybody experiencing same challenge?

How do I overcome this challenge, I intend to get married soon and I fear it will affect my marriage negatively.

I need help!

You are not okay.
Not one bit if your cum is little.
Your impaired and retrograded ejaculation is because you've wasted all the sperm God gave you and now there is none left to shoot out.

I'd advice you to go for a hormonal essay or better still check your blood sugar for diabetes.

Considering you'd be getting married soon, I'd also advice you become acquainted with a Motherless Home so you won't have difficulties adopting a baby from them because you may have difficulties having yours.

But if your cum is plenty, there's nothing to worry about.
You are just suffering from sufferhead.

Tough one... Let's wait for the experts.


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NwaAmaikpe:




You are not okay.
Not one bit.
You've wasted all the sperm God gave you and now there is none left to shoot out.

When I cum, the sperm is always much. I don't always have sex.

Thread created to swell your ego.

If you cum it lasts long
You stay long
Yen yen yen

That thing wey you dey find go soon catch you. Ogbolor

Werey plenty for nairaland I swear.

Na man you be

There's a cream you can rob on your penis to make the cap very very sensitive. I forget the name. It also makes your dick skin spot-free and smooth.

Our problems in Nigeria is too much, see don't go and kill yourself because of sex

Opioromango:
Hello Nairalanders, I need matured advice!
I just created this account to enable me anonymously share my story and say what's bothering me.

It's going to be a bit lengthy read but please be patient, you will complete it in less time than you imagined.........

In 2016 I turned 32 years of age and had sex for The first time after 14 long years of no sex.
Very pretty pitit Ebony babe in her 20s, intelligent too. She wanted sex, I wanted love (Don't blame me, I loved her) . She once asked me if I was gay because she probably expected me to initiate sex and I got the message. So one day, I took her to the movies and we spent the night in a hotel together afterward. I was scared somehow, couldn't sleep. "What if" questions started popping up in my head. What if she did not want sex, what if I she wanted to try me?
I summoned courage and placed my hand round her while laying on the bed and turned her to face me and that was it. She wanted it. In no time, she asked if I had condoms and I quickly rushed out the hotel room to get one. I did not know when I asked a female receptionist where I could get a pack of condom and she looked excited for me as she gave me directions. In a jiffy, I was already in my hotel room door with a pack of condoms.

We continued from where we stopped.
In less than 2 mins of penetrating, I already cum. I felt so ashamed of myself. Worst part was that I wanted to continue but for some weird reason, I couldn't.

I wanted a rematch but it never happened. We broke up few weeks after the incident. She was very nice to me and supported my project . She gave me #100k for my startup project which I am yet to launch. Something I am forever grateful for. Despite my ef ups.

She eventually got married, and I am so happy for her. Although, I wasn't at first because I really loved her to be in my life as my wife and partner. But It was obviously not meant to be. God already designed something better for us.

Now here is my problem, after we moved on, I easily get girls and they easily give sex but the problem is that I last longer than normal. I have had sex that lasted over 4 hours and once I cum, it's game over. In other words, I cum very late.

I know some guys will think it is a good thing but trust me, it is not. Not every woman likes it.

I have made a lady have intense multiple orgasms and she hailed me. The last time we had sex she begged and cried for me to cum. At first I taught the tears was out of ecstasy but I was wrong. She was tired.
"You will kill me if u continue" and she will want to give me head instead.

Anybody experiencing same challenge?

How do I overcome this challenge, I intend to get married soon and I fear it will affect my marriage negatively.

I need help!

werey

NwaAmaikpe:




You are not okay.
Not one bit if your cum is little.
Your impaired and retrograded ejaculation is because you've wasted all the sperm God gave you and now there is none left to shoot out.

I'd advice you to go for a hormonal essay or better still check your blood sugar for diabetes.

Considering you'd be getting married soon, I'd also advice you become acquainted with a Motherless Home so you won't have difficulties adopting a baby from them because you may have difficulties having yours.

But if your cum is plenty, there's nothing to worry about.
You are just suffering from sufferhead.

Me suffer head?
So, You u finally enter me for this nairaland? It is well! Okpo!

Na dis kine man I dey like not all these 40 seconds men them with small prick.

Op you are blessed

You masturbate alot that is why you are fucking for 4 hours.

You lost sensitivity.

But it seems you have now taken sex as your full time job instead of focusing on your project, you are 35 years in 5years you will be 40, how come you are spending almost quarter of your time fucking instead of working.

Anyway, stop masturbating for a while to get sensation back and enjoy sex.

Shibaraba:
Thread created to swell your ego.

If you cum it lasts long
You stay long
Yen yen yen

That thing wey you dey find go soon catch you. Ogbolor

Werey plenty for nairaland I swear.

Swell my ego? May you experience the same challenge. 30 mins is okay but anything this close is a disaster. Don't let anyone fool you.

lilwetdick:
You masturbate alot that is why you are fucking for 4 hours.

You lost sensitivity.

But it seems you have now taken sex as your full time job instead of focusing on your project, you are 35 years in 5years you will be 40, how come you are spending almost quarter of your time fucking instead of working.

Anyway, stop masturbating for a while to get sensation back and enjoy sex.

I quit masturbation long time ago.
I dont always have sex. The last time i had sex was almost 2 months now. I am thinking its a physiological problem or a kind of emotional/nervous disorder.

Ardar:
Na dis kine man I dey like not all these 40 seconds men them with small prick.

Op you are blessed

Op, please your story is settled. Do the needful ASAP.

Ardar:
Na dis kine man I dey like not all these 40 seconds men them with small prick.

Op you are blessed

I pity you sha. May God grant you ur heart desire. After a month having such a man, na only you go still complain. I know u just joking though.

Kaycee54321:



Op, please your story is settled. Do the needful ASAP.

Don't mind her.

Shibaraba:
Thread created to swell your ego.

If you cum it lasts long
You stay long
Yen yen yen

That thing wey you dey find go soon catch you. Ogbolor

Werey plenty for nairaland I swear.

Human beings can be funny some times.

you need to stop masturbating,. your dvck is now getting used to your palm and not a woman's vagina and that pretty much fvcked up

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solmusdesigns:
you need to stop masturbating,. your dvck is now getting use to your palm and not a woman's vagina

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Stop wanking outrightly.
Stop watching porn.
Buy and use Now Dopa Mucuna capsules.
Eat Beans regularly.
Exercise regularly especially squats.
Spend more time with your girlfriend.
Have regular sex and focus more on cumming.
Banish all fears of getting her pregnant, eff like you wanna put a baby there.
Finally identify what makes you reach your orgasmic plateau be it imaginary visual, audio, audio visual or sex style like doggy style.

You go dey alright last last.

Go your nearby COZA branch to give thanksgiving when you well.

Mr ego booster, you should be happy that you're a 2minute man what about those that are just 40 seconds？.
4 hours ko, 4 days ni

4 hours? why not a whole day?.... me sitting down at work for 4 straight hours is even tiring.

futurerex:
Mr ego booster, you should be happy that you're a 2minute man what about those that are just 40 seconds？.
4 hours ko, 4 days ni

No exaggerations... 7pm till 11pm is 4 hours. I was not time conscious, she was.

4 hours? nah Not possible without drugs op this a lie and you know it stop it

makeherscream:
4 hours? nah Not possible without drugs op this a lie and you know it stop it

No drugs Bro. There is nothing to Lie about here. What do i stand to gain by lying? I dont want to say its spiritual cos i believe there is scientific explanation to the problem and not the only one in it.

Opioromango:

No exaggerations... 7pm till 11pm is 4 hours. I was not time conscious, she was.

Straight nacking for 4hours or with fore.play and romance？

Opioromango:

No drugs Bro. There is nothing to Lie about here. What do i stand to again by lying? I dont want to say its spiritual cos i believe there is scientific explanation to the problem and not the only one in it.

ok i don talk my own

futurerex:



Straight nacking for 4hours or with pre-intimacy and romance？

pre-intimacy inbetween.

What's App me 08152905051

Opioromango:
pre-intimacy inbetween.

Very possible, now I understand

At OP if this story of yours is true then listen up, I have learnt with experience the secret to lasting long in bed and also cumming whenever you want, for lasting long in bed naturally it takes alot of things exercise, skills and some techniques, however for cumming in bed when u want OT when you're tired its just one simple trick,

BREATH CONTROL
whenever you're tired and want to cum and your just not there yet just hold your breath or seize your breath and pound or thurst continuously in no time you would have ejaculated

This is the same thing that makes other men to cum quickly in bed but in your own case this technique is perfect for you

Goodluck