Naija will never tell u the truth ....u don't need to lied that its d cause of alcohol that made u do it...u too like banana too much

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Tomorrow make sure you report the case at your school security. Don't wait till next tomorrow. Do you know why? This is how murder cases start. He may be part of plan to get you drunk and thereafter, the sex tape, he may be a nairander( or have a friend on nairander who is in the know of everything)and at this point he wouldn't want to go down just like that hence he may plan to shot you up forever, I hope you know what that means?

AfroKnight:


Thank you for your answer. The context is strictly heterosexual relationships though.

I think it is unfair to charge that guy with rape. If he was deemed unfit to drive, how then was he fit to give his consent, as he had also suffered impaired judgment? What if he had charged them with rape first, would the judgement go the same way?

We all handle intoxication differently. 3 bottles of beer may be too much for you and 5 straight bottles may be my warm up. The amount of drinks taken will be an unreliable factor, because some people are more susceptible than others.

Anyway, I’m glad you responded. Thanks again.

you're welcome it's true people handle intoxication differently like I don't even dare drink at all the least is usually too much for me but the idea is if you were able to drive home and then get them in the room and then take turns with both of them it doesn't really help his case , remember the drink and drive rule :

impaired judgement is usually the most cause of drink n drive and not just even causing an accident, you also remember that their speed limits which on a normal day anyone can easily get a ticket talk less of Been drunk and am not so sure a 3some helps him.either way can we say he got so drunk he was able to scale home two ladies, get them in his room , uncloth them and had his way with them while heavily intoxicated?

I think even i myself would lean on a guilty verdict on this one too and thanks for the sound and meaningful reply.

I don't know. But I won't pity for you. All these excuse are all lies. The story is not adding up.
Well. Ur boyfriend should end the relationship. I don't support him releasing the sex tape. He should just end the relationship and go on his own.
The damages has be done.
Some Women. Hummm. Na wah. Hisssss.






You see thats why y'all should have elders like us.

I won't talk again. This na small matter. I once used to like buying trouble but have vowed not to make positive contributions to aid any Nairalander again


Good luck with this. [/quote]

You even know a dreaded cult guy. Foolish people everywhere. Pornhub is waiting to accept you.

I won't even take any move to help you.

the guy don't even need to share the Video, he supposed move on with his life because truly u no deserve his love.

imagine waiting you jus explain now

CyberWolf:
Why are you guys not talking about arresting the rapist?

the girl doesn't have money to file charges plus i don't think you will call it rape.

AuwalYusuf812:
I won't even take any move to help you.

the guy don't even need to share the Video, he supposed move on with his life because truly u no deserve his love.

imagine waiting you jus explain now

thunder fire you...
sadist.

CyberWolf:
Don’t mind her. She don’t know what she is getting herself into. The best thing to do is get the rapist arrested and punished. If she and her boyfriends(lawyers) eventually frustrates the innocent guys life, she will dearly pay for it not now but much later.

ha ha ha.

cultist dont do anything for you free, unless theres a price. And our op here got a price and what is that, your guess is as good as mine.

Inteltower:

thunder fire you... sadist.

thank you!!


& Na person Picken go still come pay money for ur head far

pamelaayomide:
You re right.

You don't have anything to fear , Just go to the senate building tomorrow morning and ask to see the CSO , narrate everything to him truthfully. I promise you the guy will be fished out and even the other guy will get arrested. I'm a funaab alumnus and I've seen the CSO take up cases that were not even serious cases with the help of FSARS sef. Don't involve any cult guys, just go to the senate tomorrow and I can guarantee you it'll be sorted.

...and please I beg you , make sure there's no next time. Know the kind of parties you'll attend and the kind of guys you roll with once this is sorted

WriterX:


you're welcome it's true people handle intoxication differently like I don't even dare drink at all the least is usually too much for me but the idea is if you were able to drive home and then get them in the room and then take turns with both of them it doesn't really help his case , remember the drink and drive rule :

impaired judgement is usually the most cause of drink n drive and not just even causing an accident, you also remember that their speed limits which on a normal day anyone can easily get a ticket talk less of Been drunk and am not so sure a 3some helps him.either way can we say he got so drunk he was able to scale home two ladies, get them in his room , uncloth them and had his way with them while heavily intoxicated?

I think even i myself would lean on a guilty verdict on this one too and thanks for the sound and meaningful reply.

Now I understand better. Thank you.

I think I should study law after I retire. Would be good to see things from a more informed perspective.

1.You are a liar, you knowingly cheated.
2.He is scum for threatening you with revenge porn.He is scum.You are scum too.
3.Just break up and move on.
4.Report him to the appropriate authorities.

Don't lie to me please just say the truth and I will help you out.

Inteltower:


the girl doesn't have money to file charges plus i don't think you will call it rape.

but the girl called it rape and you don’t need money to get a rapist arrested because there are many people that will gladly take the case up for free. She is yet to tell the full story. You guys should ask pertinent questions first before jumping into conclusion. The truth is that is a cheat and she should be ready to face the consequence.

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

i support him to let NtA;ABs and Channels air the Porn to your Parents....Women and Bleep eeeeeee....You are tooooo loose and a cheat who doesnt deserve any man...

skywalker240:

ha ha ha.

cultist dont do anything for you free, unless theres a price. And our op here got a price and what is that, your guess is as good as mine.

Of course she knows very well, forget all these her crocodile tears here seeking public sympathy.

AfroKnight:


Now I understand better. Thank you.

I think I should study law after I retire. Would be good to see things from a more informed perspective.

hahaha if you got the passion you will find it interesting and I see no problem in it , I myself enjoy writing about crimes the most, understanding the psychological behind crimes and criminals lol good luck and good night.

All those shouting rape upandan, have you guys seen the video?


How did y'all know its actually a rape case....

pamelaayomide:
It is not too late to help me pls.
I don't have money to hire a lawyer, I am still a student.

DM @segalink on twitter. He will take it up for you ASAP

pamelaayomide:
He said so that is why we always had sex.
I gave him my body but he decided to toy with the same body.
I regret ever knowing him,he is a scum and a misogynist.

This guy you a freaking troll. Admit it.

pamelaayomide:
I want to say thank you to those good people that DM me via email to help.
I need it and will be willing to give out info on how best to stop this misogynist.
He is involved in this blackmail and now is threatening me.
I thank you guys.

And pls I need love and support not the blame game I am reading here.

And stop calling me a slut,I am not one.
I was raped and been blackmail, this is too much for me pls.
To you guys don't see we ladies as cheap gold diggers.
We are humans too.
Is just that the society see us as sex object which we are not.
I am not a slut nor a drunkard.
Reason with me on my travail and trial

just read the absolute nonsense you vomited here

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

Go and report him a Police station FAST...

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DEHVEHLOP:



Get a human right lawyer.


They don't charge. Moreover, report the matter at the police station preferably at the Area Command, which is close to your school there (Eleweran)

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pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

get a lawyer. If you don't have money, go to lekki. Oniru precisely and ask for a law firm called perchstone and graeys. Let them hear you out and counsel you on what procedures to follow. It is a punishable offence to blackmail. It is also a crime to upload your video online without your consent. It is a crime to come nude before any video recording though.

pamelaayomide:
You re right.

Are you aware that I'm a professional blogger? That's why we Need to talk

Xavi2019:
So, let's get this straight....
1. You went out with a guy to a party, of which I'm sure your boyfriend wasn't aware of, and the guy took you home/hotel where you two had sex (because it's obvious it wasn't in the car).
2. You didn't take any actions against the guy that supposedly raped you, or inform anyone.
3. Your boyfriend finds out and rightly gets mad and confronts you, and you DENIED IT outrightly claiming no such thing happened.
4. Your boyfriend provides you with evidence and you suddenly backtracked and called it rape.
5. Now you're playing the victim...

My take on the issue.....
1. I don't think your boyfriend is actually trying to blackmail you per se, if it was a blackmail, he would be requesting for something in return, rather, the correct word to use is EXPOSE!
He wants to expose you.
2. You still have never made mention of confronting the guy that allegedly raped you to help talk to your boyfriend, or threaten to take action against him for raping you, so I strongly feel it's not rape.
3. I don't think he actually threatened to leak the tape, rather it's what your guilty conscience working up overtime.
4. Lastly, you truly don't deserve his love.

But if he truly threatened to leak it.....
1. You can actually threaten to get the school authorities and police involved. That's just the best course of action to take, not by using cultists or voodoo...
Or...
2. Dialogue with him, you know him better, I am just sure he's badly hurt, beg him, apologise, come clean with him, or ask what he wants, go with a recorder (incase he wants to really blackmail you so you have proof).

On the last note, I don't support the guy's actions, and I also don't feel pity for your plight.
Good morning.

Well said...

CyberWolf:
but the girl called it rape and you don’t need money to get a rapist arrested because there are many people that will gladly take the case up for free. She is yet to tell the full story. You guys should ask pertinent questions first before jumping into conclusion. The truth is that is a cheat and she should be ready to face the consequence.

and see see you jumping into conclusions as well.
Mr know all.
give the lady a break. and try to see the story clearly

pamelaayomide:
Nairalanders I am actually typing this with fear of what to come.

I am an active member of this forum but change moniker by registering and creating a new one here to hide my identity.

Origin...

I met my boyfriend in school actually we were in the same department at funnab. We did things together. We were in love and had sex when we feel like it. We planned to get married after school.

Mistake...

I went to a birthday party of one of my close friends, I had three friends and we are like clique.
During the party I got drunk and the guy that took us to the party in his car took advantage of my drunken state and had sex with me and make it look like it is consensual. During the act I know what was happening but was too weak and blurred. I didn't know there was a video recording of the act. When I woke up the guy was no where to be found so I kept it to myself.

Blackmail...

When my guy found out that I cheated on him, he was furious. I denied it initially but when he showed me the sex clip I admitted it but defended myself on the ground that it was rape and not consensual. I summon courage and asked him how did he come up with the sex tape but that he would not answer to. He left that moment and I start feeling that he knows something about the tape and wants to blackmail.

Threat...

He showed up one day at my hostel and threaten to leak the tape online. I begged him profusely not to do that but he said my plea and tears are waste of time. That he will let everyone know the kind of loose lady I am for betraying and cheating on him. That I will regret the day I met him. That I doesn't deserve his love.

Currently...

He is yet to release the clip but may actually do that with what is happening to the Babcock ex student.

What should I do to stop him before he destroys me.

If truly, you didn't consent, the video will vindicate you. Because no matter how drunk, weak and blurred you are, you will show some act of resistance no matter how little it can be. If you are very sure your post is all the whole truth, you have higher chances of support if the video is eventually leaked.

On a serious note, I doubt the sincerity of the "no consent" thing in your story. Even if you consented to the act, I am sure you may not have been aware of the videoing. So, you still have valid case against whosoever that recorded the video and against the guy who is threatening you to release it online.

In whole scenario, the video and the fall might be a setup by your boyfriend and his friend. Or your boyfriend incidentally saw both of you that very day and took a secret recording of the act. No matter what happens, NEVER SUCCUM to threat, fight it legally and teach those guy a lesson of their life by involving the school authorities and police.

AuwalYusuf812:
thank you!!


& Na person Picken go still come pay money for ur head far

Mr I too know I hear u. plus am a guy olodo

healthserve:


Not interested. ODAs can help. Since people have resorted to foolishness, ive promised to make innocent others pay for their foolishness. Shikena

Bro why nao