They just want s3x & money from the working class who they think are desperate looking for hubby.

swiftycool:

A lady who has something more solid to offer besides her looks n body,
an intelligent lady who has her own true personality which wont get lost becos she met me.
A lady with real good sense of humour can laff wit me and mek me laff
a lady who has real career goals and is focused on gettin em
a lady who doesnt see u as her or her family's meal ticket or route 2 fortune
A self reliant and sexually confident lady dat wont belittle her standards n beliefs due to traditions
A lady whose idea of an ideal date is not food, shopping, lavish/silly spending in exchange 4 sex (as common in many Naija girls) but is excited just at d chance of spending time together n doing some fun activity, learning and catching lots of laffs.
A lady who accepts a guy 4 who he is, NOT WHAT HE HAS
they are out dere somewhere.  .  .   

Very true!

A self reliant and sexually confident lady dat wont belittle her standards n beliefs due to traditions
A lady whose idea of an ideal date is not food, shopping, lavish/silly spending in exchange 4 sex (as common in many Naija girls) but is excited just at d chance of spending time together n doing some fun activity, learning and catching lots of laffs.
A lady who accepts a guy 4 who he is, NOT WHAT HE HAS
they are out dere somewhere. . .

true talk, i agree wiv u o,

opribo:

We want real down to earth women not all this psychedelic ladies, synthetic and fake ladies that act as if they dont sh.t.
You we want the woman that will go under the car with you if need be not the type that will leave you in the rain when your car broke down. We dont want girls loving one man and many others at the same time. Men dont like women who control their men simply becos the rod outside is bigger than the one in the house.

True talk broda.

marychi18:

@ Zim or Zimbabwe drill, i know it is a hard pill 4 u 2 swallow but its d truth. most of u guys are D.O.G.S.S  Even d married ones chase after single girls 4 d same reason intimacy like they dont have wives 2 go home to. men are simply insatiable and they have a H.S.A (Huge sexual appetite) well, its natural. hate me or love me. dats d truth,guys

Ya, true indeed !!!

And the truest was also quoted by a she-male like you, read it below:

ladyF:

Its actually a 50-50 thing. Men want the sex, we want the XxxxX   And every one's happy

Marychi, you got it? . . .Now focus!

ZIM DRILL:
Quote from: marychi18 on
Today at 01:25:26 PM
typo errors on d 1st.
@ 190 i totally agree wit u
100%. men love sex more than
their lives and when u r not
giving,they move on to d next.
speaking from experience.
say your man loved sex dont
paint all men with the same
brush
if you are a b.itch does it mean
your mum,sister aunt is a
naughty woman too? GOOD POINT

Men dont need relationship from a woman for sex because they can get sex from any other woman out there, instead its just one of the packages that comes with being in a relationship. Infact men that want a woman because of sex, does not want her on a long run but just for sexual satisfaction on the short run, after which he changes her when he's tired.
So for a man to agree to go into a marriage bound relationship with a woman, she has to have more than the physical and sexual gadget other women have and its not in anyway defined because different men have different preference, but certainly not sex.
For me,
1. Top on my list is respect for me. The more a woman respect me, the more I feel like being a slave to her because I dont want to do anything to hurt her but most women dont understand that.
2. Some level of financial dependence. I dont want an absolute liability.
3. Naturality to a reasonable extent and we should be able to open up like common friends.
4. Understand that I can be busy sometimes with work and manage the situation with me rather than quarelling with me all the time for not giving you so much attention, when most times the relationship is severed when the job stops as money also stops.
5. Least on my list is RELIGION and I spell it out from the start that you should not bore my with your religious believe.

marychi18:

@ Zim or Zimbabwe drill, i know it is a hard pill 4 u 2 swallow but its d truth. most of u guys are D.O.G.S.S  Even d married ones chase after single girls 4 d same reason intimacy like they dont have wives 2 go home to. men are simply insatiable and they have a H.S.A (Huge sexual appetite) well, its natural. hate me or love me. dats d truth,guys

there is nothing to swallow here dear you need to take off your blinkers

if men only wanted sex they would only go into a club or bar pick up a LovePeddler

and the rest is history

like someone said we want the package that comes with a relationship

do you know that to hire a LovePeddler is cheaper than a relationship ?

For the girl/woman to be holy to him only

i hate pretense in my life, they will come here to preach as if they've never seen man in their life but they are s.x machine indoor.

@ zim drill, then keep picking up d whores and stop disturbing d girls with false pretences and fake professions of love just 2 take them 2 bed.
u guys should learn 2 put ur d**ks in check 4 posterity sake. thanks.

What Men Really Want In Modern Relationships is all about
Tips on what's really on men's minds when it comes to love.
I have heard some people say,
What do men want in a woman?is not the question but
"what men really want in modern relationships"


I will give you a few key points as I said is the question of understanding what the modern man is looking for.
Okay so what is a man seeking?
First of all a man is seeking a love-interest.
Men are seeking a woman who is attractive to them.
Men are looking for a trustworthy girl, someone they can have faith in and someone who will be there for them.
Men want to make a home eventually and are looking for a woman who will be a willing sharer in home life
Men want women with a great sense of humor.
Men love a challenging woman, someone who keeps them on their toes.

Thanks for the trash!

marychi18:

@ zim drill, then keep picking up d whores and stop disturbing d girls with false pretences and fake professions of love just 2 take them 2 bed.
u guys should learn 2 put your d**ks in check 4 posterity sake. thanks.

finally made you see the other angle

well stop thinking that a relationship will lead to marriage just ride it and it will sort itself out

once you move into a relationship thinking of marriage and if  it fails you will always think that you were used for sex

but if you had gone with open mind you wouldnt think that men are after sex only

swiftycool:

A lady who has something more solid to offer besides her looks n body,
an intelligent lady who has her own true personality which wont get lost becos she met me.
A lady with real good sense of humour can laff wit me and mek me laff
a lady who has real career goals and is focused on gettin em
a lady who doesnt see u as her or her family's meal ticket or route 2 fortune
A self reliant and sexually confident lady dat wont belittle her standards n beliefs due to traditions
A lady whose idea of an ideal date is not food, shopping, lavish/silly spending in exchange 4 sex (as common in many Naija girls) but is excited just at d chance of spending time together n doing some fun activity, learning and catching lots of laffs.
A lady who accepts a guy 4 who he is, NOT WHAT HE HAS
they are out dere somewhere. . .

@swiftycool
Strictly on point , God Bless you!

SEX has been the most frequent word on this thread, almost all the every post has it.
somebody please help.
What is sex

beer and cloths !!


Men dont need relationship from a woman for sex because they can get sex from any other woman out there, instead its just one of the packages that comes with being in a relationship. Infact men that want a woman because of sex, does not want her on a long run but just for sexual satisfaction on the short run, after which he changes her when he's tired.
So for a man to agree to go into a marriage bound relationship with a woman, she has to have more than the physical and sexual gadget other women have and its not in anyway defined because different men have different preference, but certainly not sex.
For me,
1. Top on my list is respect for me. The more a woman respect me, the more I feel like being a slave to her because I dont want to do anything to hurt her but most women dont understand that.
2. Some level of financial dependence. I dont want an absolute liability.
3. Naturality to a reasonable extent and we should be able to open up like common friends.
4. Understand that I can be busy sometimes with work and manage the situation with me rather than quarelling with me all the time for not giving you so much

true talk.

MEN DON'T WANT TO BUY RECHARGE CARD BEFORE A LADY CAN CALL THEM.

MEN WANT A LADY WHO HAS HER OWN HOUSE. SO THEY CAN COME AND SLEEP THERE WHEN THEY WANT NOT ALWAYS THE LADY COMING OVER TO SPEND WEEKEND.

MEN WANT A LADY WHO CAN TURN A SCATTERED HOUSE AROUND IN SECONDS.

MEN WANT A LADY WHO CAN COOK .

FINALLY MEN DON'T WANT A LADY WHO WILL ALWAYS ASK "   WHEN ARE U MEETING MY PEOPLE?"

MOST IMPORTANTLY, MEN WANT A SEXY LADY. WHEN I MEAN SEXY, NOT JUST DRESSING AND LOOKING SEXY, BUT ACTUALLY SEXY IN THE ART AND ACT OF SEX. A LADY THAT U WILL REMEMBER WHAT HAPPENED LAST NIGHT IN THE OFFICE AND U WILL WANT TO GO AND HAVE ONE ROUND DURING LUNCH TIME. LOL ,

^^^ tru talk

Why can't most 9ja gals try to be independent financially to an extent rather than throw all their burdens on a dude just because he's interested in having a relationship with her as if he came to replace her father WTF

Men want women who are independent, can stand on their own any day anytime.

sex, food, companionship, girl who dresses slutty

The thing men want is TWO THINGS, SEX AND BABIES, especially the traditional african men!

Everything else is a bonus! They want that nyansh, breasts, mouth, and great legs! They don't care about other things! It funny the poster said they want a woman that challenges them, UHMM from I see on this thread, THAT EXACTLY THE OPPOSITE, no man want to feel like he is challenged by a woman! That is real talk!

Gentlebabs:

Please, someone educate me, WHAT IS SEX?

modern men like muah , need women who experiment in bed, not just missionary champions

you need to be very seductive and extra erotic

good using your mouth and hands or both at the same time

Dress freaky .wear some fishnets/schoolteacher outfit.

Be innovative in the bedroom, use handcuffs/chains


stay wet all the time

I think I am about to vomit!

The post is very individualistic in nature, different men with different needs and wants.
The only thing that almost all men want in a relationship, SEX, I did not see on your list.

Use some imagination for once,ladies, or we will leave your behinds for women who can do the job.

Be assertive and aggressive in the sack

Show us what you like,seductively

Reveal your inner tiger

, and remember to eat bananas,they have lots of potassium

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kabukabu50:

and remember to  eat bananas,they have lots of potassium

lmfao

mekaboy:

MEN WANT A LADY WHO CAN COOK .

this

men generally need anything soft and easy to access. I n the sense that they do not anything stress from any one most especially that stress from their so called wife when they return from work. It make them to go out their to look for a woman who we welcome them and take care of them as if they are newly born baby who give them all they want at all time. these things include real sex. if u want to know more on how to take good care of ur man contact me on this lordetarules@yahoo.com

Men want Y2K11 compliant women.

Men wants your money You gotta be kidding me! I wonder what sorta men y'all dating, A real man simply wants a progressive relationship filled with happiness and availability of whatever is needed to be comfortable and be of good health. This sex and money thing is no reality, unless NL is filled with inexperienced teenagers or old gizzards with no brains.

@topic all they seem to want is no strings sex!!

The biggest problem we all have,i.e men and women is that we generalize.Because alice cheats,nkechi and everyother woman out there is a cheat right?Or because ken bed hops,so everyother guy does.The truth if it must be told is that most people enter into relationships for the wrong reasons,and end up hurting others.My advice to everyone out there is that we all need to take things slowly with issues of the heart, if not, the consequences are very dire.