WARUM:


Smoke some weed and fvck some pussy bra.... u go dey alright

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck

2dice01:
Welcome to the Single life brahh

Well when next you are in a relationship dont let her know everything about you

Women love Mystery

You already handed her your balls when she threaten to breakup the first time am sure you begged her

All those are Tests and you were failing gradually till she rusticate you outta her school(life)


Enjoy your single life
Delete her number/pics/contacts
Go on a casual date with friends and Crushes

Chop the Head of your life this December

She will come back maybe nextyear

i hope you wont give any fùck

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we

always planned the future together, gisted about aot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading

and sorry for the lengthy right up.

OgaBuhari:
leave women alone and go and find a way and make money.
broke bastard

Omar09:


What happened to her sitting him down and asking him where this relationship is headed?
You see we keep expecting men to do all the things in a relationship as if he knows or he's supposed to know what to do. Why didn't she come over and had a deep talk with her man. Why are they even in a relationship? Isn't relationship meant for compliment? Don't you compliment your partner in a relationship where he/she is ailing?
She had something troubling her, and instead of voicing out to her man she expected him to somehow know what's up with her like he's some robot or god. She has nursing that breakup six months before it occurred. Him going to ask her why the sudden change is to make a fool of himself. He should just off for where that bitch n deh his deh.

Ubunja
Martinez39
CAPSLOCK
iLegend

pocohantas:




No time o. Abroad guys do not insult us like homebased miscreants

That said, I read through the messages and OP's babe seems to love him, she is just doubting if they can work. It happens. I wouldn't know their ages, but this isn't what a little talk can't fix.

pocohantas:


Lol. I have never claimed to fall in "love" with a man, all that nonsense ended in 200L. Now, if you don't have certain things, nothing fit happen between us.

But for people like OP that found a girl that supported him to buy car, he is indeed lucky. I don't build men. I don't fix them either. Arrange your life and I will come in to enjoy

maya007:
Sorry dude....am a girl but it pains me wen a girl is trying to play s victim,just forget the girl she has found somone better and is trying to use ur situation as an excuse instead of encouraging you to do better she wants to frustrate you the more....it wont b easy but just block her and move on....God never neglects somone who works hard...doors will open for you soon....cheer up!

Enwhen:



Bro don't be too harsh on girls , God created them in different ways.... Like u have said , some will not allow u to rest until u tell them where the relationship is going to.., why some will not want to bother u , expecting you to say it from your heart to see the seriousness because they may think that bothering u might just end up with a yes whereas deep in your earth it's no... Most times when girls gathered and start hyping their bf , you that doesn't know how to lie may think your own bf is not doing enough and not ready to take it to the next level and these set of girls become insecure in the relationship and want a quit... I have studied various girls with different characters and environmental influence on them. As such , I never seen a girls character that I can't predict .... But not guys because they are very difficult to understand, reason I don't blames girls who find it difficult to truely understand their bfs, but for the smart once , it not a big deal for them .

989900:
vowsng, you no get sense if those screenshots are accurate.

You are not yet matured enough to hold a woman.

She needed reassurance and fingering her brain to make her believe it would work, probably, because you were stressed and was in traffic, or just totally immature, you handled the situation totally fxcking wrong.

And you ran to Nairaland to ask toddlers like you for advice . . . you don't deserve her.

Unless, you were kinda of wanting a break too, you no get sense to handle a woman at all.



Where is that "you sure say this pikin get sense so" meme?

Lamanii22:



You're so right... She met somebody else...

Cladez:
She wanted you hurt after the breakup but your unintentional lackadaisical reply backfired at her.From her reply,she felt the heat instead.

Just move on.....no need for the long epistle.

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.

She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

mechanics:
But he's hustling and not lazy, does she expects him to make millions over night?

Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .

Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .

Offpoint:
Are you from Akwa Ibom or you live there?

Enwhen:



Bro don't be too harsh on girls , God created them in different ways.... Like u have said , some will not allow u to rest until u tell them where the relationship is going to.., why some will not want to bother u , expecting you to say it from your heart to see the seriousness because they may think that bothering u might just end up with a yes whereas deep in your earth it's no... Most times when girls gathered and start hyping their bf , you that doesn't know how to lie may think your own bf is not doing enough and not ready to take it to the next level and these set of girls become insecure in the relationship and want a quit... I have studied various girls with different characters and environmental influence on them. As such , I never seen a girls character that I can't predict .... But not guys because they are very difficult to understand, reason I don't blames girls who find it difficult to truely understand their bfs, but for the smart once , it not a big deal for them .

Riele:

Live there .

vowsng:
Met this beautiful angel sometime 2017 in school, we became friends but officially started dating last year December.

Things have not been Rosy cause I'm not the regular rich kid, although, she is understanding, mature and supportive.

I graduated last year, though have not been to service, with her support and that of friends, I got a 2.4 Camry I have been using for bolt.
Abeg , I Must say oooo , Instead of Reading Latest Nigeria News i prefer listening to Good Top Naija Songs Biko ooooo


She just graduated last week, and went home on Tuesday but before she left for home, I proposed we hang out to have some fun as her going home entails we would not see each other soonest, she accepted.

But on the other hand, my immediate elder sister had her wedding last month 23rd and as the first son, I know I became bankrupt, not forgetting that where I stay, (with a distant relative) I was given December to vamoose even though I know I'm of age to have a place of my own without being told.

So I thought about all this and decided I won't miss work that Monday, raising 200k working with bolt and my car is not too sound too, that means I have to work every single day, but on a second thought, it would be selfish of me so I skipped work on Monday and we were together that whole day.

She left for home on Tuesday, I was already out working, I saw a "stressed out" status on WhatsApp, I asked and she said she didn't leave in the morning that she was called to make urgent corrections by her supervisor.

On Wednesday we said the normal hello and good morning, most times I will be driving and a little stop or traffic I will have to reply her message or send a voice note.

But just today, no good morning or anything from the both of us, this evening, she sent in a message that she is tired, first thing that came to my mind was, "yes, i said it she would be bored at home" but I was still driving then, so I quickly replied, "I'm tired too" next thing is let's just end it and stop wasting each others time.

This is not the first time she is threatening me with breakup, she went on to call me heartless, i don't know, but I thought I found the right one, we always planned the future together, gisted about alot of things and the name we would give our kids, only for her to tell me she sees no future.

If this was a joke, then it was taken too far, I have accommodation issue, my younger brother is my responsibility for now, she knows everything about me, we weren't lacking in communication, now I believe a struggling guy shouldn't be in a relationship.

This is actually going to be a long journey to singleness. I was sad that I had to bruise some cars in traffic this evening, thanks for reading and sorry for the lengthy right up.

Offpoint:
Aight... which part and how long?

Riele:
I'm here wondering how it feels to be heartbroken .

Take heart sha atleast no distractions and time wasting ventures .

Mariangeles:

Let me put it this way; it will give you enough inspiration to write as much books as you want

Beyoncé best album yet was inspired by a terrible heartbreak

Riele:


Nahh . I'll pass

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes he is but got complaints at d tip of his tongue.. That shii be stressful. A man should know how to keep his shii together

safarigirl:
this is the first reasonable comment I have seen on this thread.

Some ignorant and emotionally unintelligent people are talking about another man and other such nonsense, but the missing ingredient here is emotional availability.

The bland replies were awful. There is no girl that would be okay with a man giving such a drab reply to her, after expressing doubts about the relationship and I won't be surprised if OP regularly displays such lack of emotional intelligence and that is why the babe is tired.

A lot of men don't realise that money is not always top priority for women, some women's love language is attention and assurance and OP obviously lacks those things. Except his next woman is a gold digging, cold-hearted person, his next relationship will still not work, if this is the attitude he displays.