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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Abfinest007(m): 1:57pm On Jan 04, 2020
wait
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Nobody: 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2020
angry
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by stevenson007: 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2020
Eee
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Funmmyastic: 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2020
Apt!
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Babaheekmat: 1:58pm On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:


But I think you should speak with your girl often... Maybe it's just me.. I like it when we speak everyday... It makes me feel like we are connected ...

He's probably your boyfriend... You just don't know each other moniker on NL.

Laughing
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Mkmoney(m): 1:59pm On Jan 04, 2020
She wants us to talk on the phone 24/7 the talk self don tire me ...monitoring spirits everywhere

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Avedonn: 1:59pm On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:


But I think you should speak with your girl often... Maybe it's just me.. I like it when we speak everyday... It makes me feel like we are connected ...
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Taywon: 2:00pm On Jan 04, 2020
Op ur head get oil
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by airminem(f): 2:01pm On Jan 04, 2020
They may be going through changes wink
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Avedonn: 2:01pm On Jan 04, 2020
justnock:
You nailed it bigman. I don't see, speak or spend time with my girl often...she thinks I am cheating. Me that don't like women sef grin

Since you you're gay why waste your so called girlfriend's time.

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Sonnobax15(m): 2:03pm On Jan 04, 2020
This is 2020,if you can't create at least 2minutes out of the 24hours of everyday to get in touch with me,then you ain't fit to stay in my life....

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by sammysmiles(m): 2:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
Mtcheeew
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Odunolumide(m): 2:09pm On Jan 04, 2020
Egobe:



How do you claim to date someone you don't talk often with,I can't go a day without talking to my woman.

w'll swap Voice Notes on extremely busy days

Single tho grin.... Just saying the right thing to do


which one be "single tho" . You wan form sharp shooter

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by jnoz23(m): 2:10pm On Jan 04, 2020
Mad people thread
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by alimaxion: 2:14pm On Jan 04, 2020
justnock:
You nailed it bigman. I don't see, speak or spend time with my girl often...she thinks I am cheating. Me that don't like women sef grin

Free her if you don't have time to spend with her, women need attention. Stop giving her emotional stress.

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by SctDonald(m): 2:17pm On Jan 04, 2020
Brendaniel:
I have made a decision to not force any relationship to work, I have worked so much on self love that I plan telling whoever i marry in future that anyday She feels She is tired of the union She should let me know and I will let her be and would never hold anything against her because life to me shouldn't be full of problems, same reason i would let her pursue all her dreams She had before She married me as long as it doesn't affect our union negatively, At the end of the day we are all different human with different purposes in life and will meet our creator differently just as we came differently.
...You are correct.
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Phenomenal16(f): 2:19pm On Jan 04, 2020
binarymachine:
You have been dating for some time now, everything was going fine, you had all the love, care, affection and attention of your bae/boo and life seems good. Suddenly it seems they are just too busy these days and no longer have time for you. You have complained and brought this sudden change to thier notice but they keep brushing it off with the, “I am busy” excuse. You are crushing on someone, you admire them so much and want a chance to prove it. You have expressed your feelings to them and all you need now is their time, to show them you are not just talking the talk but walking it. However, they seem to be always busy and hardly ever have time for you.

The truth is, they may actually be very busy. Work may be hectic, life may be hard and they are struggling to keep up. There could actually be a lot going on in thier life currently and everything is taking a toll on them. However, no one is ever too busy for what they want or desire. No one is ever busy for twenty four hours in a day. There may be a day or two where things choke up too much that they may not even have time for themselves, but not every day and everytime. Even at that, they can always have a minute or two to get in touch with you and let you know, keep you updated on things so you don’t expect much.

Where one’s treasure is, lies one’s heart. If you are the treasure or they like you and see you as a possible treasure, they will always make time for you no matter how busy they are. Except you are not a priority in thier life or they do not see you as someone who can be. They should always find time to call you, text you and spend time with you, even if it is for a short while. People are busy, but they find time to eat, because it is a priority. People are busy but they find time to bath, brush, wear cloth and make up. Why? Because it is a priority. If you where important to them, they would have found time to “do” you.

If you have found yourself struggling for someone’s attention and affection, then you are probably not as important as you think. If you used to have it, find out why things suddenly changed and try fixing it. If you are trying to get it for the first time, you should try more if you love them. If you have done all you can but they would still not look your way, then you need to swallow the bitter truth and look elsewhere. There is always enough love in the world to go round. What you are struggling to get a little of here, you could have plenty of it elsewhere. Get busy too!

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/11/03/they-have-time-they-dont-just-have-time-for-you/
.....am currently experiencing it.....though am no longer bothered.... Anytime he calls I will pick ....I was really heart broken initially but then I av moved on........I was actually a good gal......being too nice is bad...........

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by ajericho(m): 2:20pm On Jan 04, 2020
uncleck:
When your partner begin to form busy, know that you've become a history; just move on.

If he/she isn't yet your partner, know that someone more important than you is there.

Should you add more effort to snatch...? Unless he/she worth it, if not, just bounce.

could this actually be a problem?

cause someone like me, may just be indoor doing nothing and don't want to talk,

like its fine sometimes if we talk once a day, or may not at all, I feel comfortable with that.
but when it comes to checking on every hour, saying why haven't I texted since morning, it frustrates me real bad,
and this stuff have made me part ways with Lotta girls,

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by CasNova(m): 2:21pm On Jan 04, 2020
When you love someone you will create time for that person no matter how busy you are.

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by ajericho(m): 2:26pm On Jan 04, 2020
CasNova:
When you love someone you will create time for that person no matter how busy you are.



humans are different

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by uncleck: 2:31pm On Jan 04, 2020
ajericho:


could this actually be a problem?

cause someone like me, may just be indoor doing nothing and don't want to talk,

like its fine sometimes if we talk once a day, or may not at all, I feel comfortable with that.
but when it comes to checking on every hour, saying why haven't I texted since morning, it frustrates me real bad,
and this stuff have made me part ways with Lotta girls,
you're not old enough for relationship. Just stay single

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Nobody: 2:32pm On Jan 04, 2020
I’ve created time for people who have formed busy with me but life does truly go on and joy does come each morning grin

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by ajericho(m): 2:33pm On Jan 04, 2020
uncleck:
you're not old enough for relationship. Just stay single


lol not old enough?


I came across an article like that and I discovered that it's nature not whatever you think
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Nobody: 2:35pm On Jan 04, 2020
ajericho:


humans are different
yes and upbringing too sometimes in an environment some can be raised with genuine expressions of love while in another distaste and ignorance in love. All that matters in life is acceptance and you won’t know the difference till you’ve been offered less in life Go where your celebrated

It can be literal or even figuratively just be all that you can be for love and you.

If you didn’t matter they won’t be struggling for relevance trying to take cheap shots good people take time to love. That way you see all sides. Good and inspiring Communications are everything they can ease the stress of everyday life.

Just having someone rooting for you even when you have the world against you is enough to keep hustling but sadly we choose sides. We insult people who understand stop calling the people we care about ever since I removed the Facebook app I forgot until today the importance of remembrance. If someone calls you they remembered you if the message you your on their mind if the send you a voicenote they miss you.

Just because love was difficult growing up doesn’t mean it can’t be better for the next generation my sister fashi that guy just check before and after you enter their life and see who is who in love

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by ajericho(m): 2:38pm On Jan 04, 2020
solasoulmusic:
yes and upbringing too sometimes in an environment some can be raised with genuine expressions of love while in another distaste and ignorance in love. All that matters in life is acceptance and you won’t know the difference till you’ve been offered less in life

hmm

maybe
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Nobody: 2:40pm On Jan 04, 2020
Lamanii22:


But I think you should speak with your girl often... Maybe it's just me.. I like it when we speak everyday... It makes me feel like we are connected ...

You again... you sha like relationship.

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Adewunmibaba(m): 2:42pm On Jan 04, 2020
Goodgod213:
It’s better to have time for yourself, save your money, buy land somewhere, and invest in yourself. It will give you hope and encouragement. Forget about ladies. Ladies dump a man that has a pencil Camry and 2 lands elsewhere and go for one with Corolla or muscle living in a rented apartment. If you like give them 30 calls everyday saying you want to check up, ad you day call am, she day call another person way get level pass you. Try not to give them pass 10k if she is not spending the night and also lives in the same state with you.

When I wan fuvvk I control them n give them their change. This year has to be different. Make sure you have something to show before half of this year.

LEGIT
Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by massalati(m): 2:43pm On Jan 04, 2020
i just love nairaland, exactly what i'm passing through right now am fade up i dont know what to do any longer, i have talk and talk and complain but it all fell on deaf ears as she dont feel disturb not calling/chatting with me the whole day. i love her and i still find it difficult to call it quit. am tired

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Brightgem(f): 2:44pm On Jan 04, 2020
A305:
Nobody is too busy for the one they love, you just not all that of priority anymore. It wise not not to stick around as you would be easily manipulated by your busy partner. Just leave or don't bother them no more. Just focus more in your life and probably get that cheap 09 corrolla on my page
Woah! This level of salesman skills. Valid points though.

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Innobee99(m): 2:45pm On Jan 04, 2020
SouthNigerian:
Right now, I'm too busy to start or sustain a relationship!

WHY?

Because I have lucid dreams,
Dreams to become Rich & Charitable,
Dreams to promote Love and Peace,
Dreams to live a selfless & tolerant life,
Dreams to leave a lasting legacy affecting lives even after my demise.

A man without DREAMS is Walking Dead.
Do You Have A Dream? You are needed to bring your dreams to Reality, Success is not Automatic.

And if you don't have a Dream,
stop chasing clout,
find your Life Purpose & face your Life Squarely.
TIME WAITS FOR NO MAN!


But do u know u can miss the two while desperately pushing one?

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by Brightgem(f): 2:49pm On Jan 04, 2020
Brendaniel:
I have made a decision to not force any relationship to work, I have worked so much on self love that I plan telling whoever i marry in future that anyday She feels She is tired of the union She should let me know and I will let her be and would never hold anything against her because life to me shouldn't be full of problems, same reason i would let her pursue all her dreams She had before She married me as long as it doesn't affect our union negatively, At the end of the day we are all different human with different purposes in life and will meet our creator differently just as we came differently.
Standing ovation for you Mister. Hope you meet a partner that compliments you and your ideology. An enlightened colleague said 90% of people, don't have sense. Lolz! So imagine what we dealing with out there every day

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Re: When They Don’t Just Have Time For You by massalati(m): 2:54pm On Jan 04, 2020
Phenomenal16:
.....am currently experiencing it.....though am no longer bothered.... Anytime he calls I will pick ....I was really heart broken initially but then I av moved on........I was actually a good gal......being too nice is bad...........

Same here . well all thanks to this thread i will move on

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