Mrs, Eve:

Apparently not. I forgot what site I was on. Who else have their children registered on Nairaland?

I'm not a child,i'm in my late teens. And judging from what ive seen,im a lot more sensible than some Nl users. Besides,i dont go into the x-rated sections of Nl.

Baby girl,just take it cool.I'm not good at giving a sermon but I could only give a piece of advice.Believe me there are more to life than to be talking about boyfriend at this tender age.Being into relationship is really sweet but I swear it is the worst evil that many had wished they never witnessed at their tender age.More harms it could do than good, because it is so hard to have someone as reasonable or sensible of the same age as you are.YOU ARE A PRECIOUS GIFT to your life and apple eye of many who want good for you and they wouldnt want u in the same mess.

Attach your feelings to many other things that could give the pleasure of life, listen to good music,pick up a pen write poems,write novels,or read novels, fall in love with your books, read jokes at joke section.

Give yourself a definition of who you are not what other people are because they might not be right.Tell them always, 'this is me, not you!Me of course who gets my thinking right!''

Atreides:

I'm not a child,i'm in my late teens. And judging from what ive seen,im a lot more sensible than some Nl users. Besides,i dont go into the x-rated sections of Nl.

Early teens and late teens still TEENS You don't go into x-rated section? (moving to the side and looking toward the sky)

Mrs, Eve:

Early teens and late teens still TEENS    You don't go into x-rated section?  (moving to the side and looking toward the sky)

I'm serious. . I really dont go into the x-rated sections. .  . . Did you know that in some cultures in Naija im old enough to get married? Some of my Northern age-mates are already giving birth in their husbands' houses. Being in my late teens isnt that young. @Thiscounts,wooww brutha-you just told me WHAT counts! Thnx much. .

i think i'm in luv, 2 bad u're a bit 2 young 4 me, Atreides, u're officially in the list of the top 10 most sensible Ladies on NL, U sure u're just 16? i mean u seem to know the solution to ur predicament, but i understand that u'ld want a general perspective, dont mind all the guys that ve been posting some nonsense about u falling victim someday whether u like it or not, Livedit has said it all.

Mrs, Eve:

Early teens and late teens still TEENS You don't go into x-rated section? (moving to the side and looking toward the sky)

Have been waiting for you, tel her from experience i'm sure she will get to kn guyz are bad.

Being wiser as nothing to do with guys, no matter how intelligent you are guys will surely bring you down. You myt fink u're wise enough but i pray u don't meet guy like me. Guyz are dangerous that they can do all you want just for their pleasure. Well if you fink u're wise enough then carry your cross and move on. But i pray you found the right one, wish is not written on the 4head, else you will have your same blamed.

Set your priority right. If having BF/relationship is not part of your priority then so be it. You should not have bf because others are having and it should not make you feel weird or 'old fashion'. Make your decision and stick to it no matter what because ,  you are the person that will be the consequences of the outcome.

thiscounts:

Baby girl,just take it cool.I'm not good at giving a sermon but I could only give a piece of advice.Believe me there are more to life than to be talking about boyfriend at this tender age.Being into relationship is really sweet but I swear it is the worst evil that many had wished they never witnessed at their tender age.More harms it could do than good, because it is so hard to have someone as reasonable or sensible of the same age as you are.YOU ARE A PRECIOUS GIFT to your life and apple eye of many who want good for you and they wouldnt want u in the same mess.

Attach your feelings to many other things that could give the pleasure of life, listen to good music,pick up a pen write poems,write novels,or read novels, fall in love with your books, read jokes at joke section.

Give yourself a definition of who you are not what other people are because they might not be right.Tell them always, 'this is me, not you!Me of course who gets my thinking right!''

For a gal at your age, I think this is the BEST advice for you. Good luck!

Atreides:

I'm serious. . I really dont go into the x-rated sections. .  . . Did you know that in some cultures in Naija im old enough to get married? Some of my Northern age-mates are already giving birth in their husbands' houses. Being in my late teens isnt that young. @Thiscounts,wooww brutha-you just told me WHAT counts! Thnx much. .

Do you want to get marry now? Or you want to go to college and be all that you can be?

Mrs, Eve:

Do you want to get marry now? Or you want to go to college and be all that you can be?

MARRRY KE? Hell nah. . I have plans for my future!

@Atreides
kindly give me ur pin number i have all that you need to know.
Jfking2005@gmail

@ Poster

if u want it, go for it
if u dnt want it, den dont go for it
just dnt do it cos evrybody arnd has gt one or in2 it, cos u r nt evrybody, u r u nd u

for instance, am a guy of 26 nd never hd a gf(wateverr its calld)now or b4, cos i aint see anysense in it
wen i tell people, dey look at me like, Guy, u be pastor or were u 4rm, jst dnt make sense of it
esp wen it goes like my ex dis, ex dat, tainted history

so if u dnt want it, dnt go for it and b cool

@ologun01

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jfking2005:

@ologun01

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wat u mean, advertisement

just letting the girl knw, she is nt d only one
so she doesnt hv to cos evrybody is in one thing they r 2day and wld b out tomorow

so aint advertising or looking for,

@@ologun01
only kidding, i understand!!

you can help me tell the girl to send me her BB pin number, i have all she's looking for

*singing Raz Kimono's rubadub*

under pressure we wail unda pressureeee, unda pressure nigerians unda pressureee, unda pressure teenagers unda ;pressureee*(twice)

Rap stanza

Everyday, the people ina di ghetto, ina di city, on Nairaland, some a cry, some are weep, some are bleepn, others are lookn for bleepn, here we go eeehhhheee

Chorus till fade

jfking2005:

@Atreides
kindly give me your pin number i have all that you need to know.
Jfking2005@gmail

my daddy said i shouldnt talk to(and IM,and ping,and buzz) strangers. .

Im 24 and i need a gf
Noffin do u gal, should i help u search?

Alert: be careful wit d advise u get here,trust me

Im 24 and i need a gf
Noffin do u gal, should i help u search?

Alert: be careful wit d advise u get here,trust me

. . Im 16 and seven-twelfths. . The seven-twelths bit is verry important cos it means im almost 17 which means im almost legal!

U're still quite young! I believe you are in school and u have classmates, we normally get close and mutually fall for people without even knowing what we are doing. A 16 year old coming out to say she wants to go into a r/ship according to this post

Being single at my age is abnormal,at least for people in general.

is really weird.

Y this thread? u didn't tell if someone has been bugging your life or not. . .are u falling for some of your age mates/classmates and u want advice? I can't get that u just want go into a r/ship cos u're 16.

Atreides:

MARRRY KE? Hell nah. . I have plans for my future!

and your plans include getting a bf at 16? not a bad idea. . .but don't make it look like it's too late, like u're desperate. . .like u are in your late 30s and wud go toasting some guy just to form a couple.

@Donmeca, "A 16 year old coming out to say she wants to go into a r/ship according to this post  is really weird."
Yes,im young. I NEVER said i wanted to go into a r/ship,i said i was a bit confused as to whether going into one was such a bad idea. And me saying being single at my age is abnormal isnt wierd-its a fact. If you knew teenagers,you'd know a LOT of them are paired up.
" I can't get that u just want go into a r/ship cos u're 16".
I never said i wanted to go into a relationship BECAUSE im 16. That would be beyond dumb.
"and your plans include getting a bf at 16?"
Its NOT a definite plan-im just wondering.

Poster is sounding too articulate and matured for a sixteen year old.
Me is wondering if she is not pulling our legs by starting this thread - just my thoughts

violent:

Bleep you!

@poster, All you should do right now is slow down and work on yourself as you have the time to do so right now. Self development is essential and you attract the right set of people if you have that sorted. A Relationship takes a lot, ask yourself questions before you enter one. Have you got love inside of you that you are willing to share with someone else? You cannot give what you don't have. I'm going to derail a bit. I also believe a relationship should be God-centered. So why don't you let God dictate who you should be with.

her tread is really getting attention

Baby, just relax and be yourself. When the time comes "you will know what you are doing " BUT "you no go know wetin dey do you".

tashanja:

Poster is sounding too articulate and matured for a sixteen year old.
Me is wondering if she is not pulling our legs by starting this thread - just my thoughts

Not every 16+ year old is a brainless  incapable of stringing together two grammatically correct sentences. Some of us love to read. A LOT. And if you truly love to read,then writing's a piece of cake. And if you're a good reader and a good writer,chances are,your spoken english will be pretty good too. You're not the first to say i sound more mature than my age. I think the level of mediocrity in Nigeria,and in the Nigerian education system is what makes it so hard for people to believe that an average(ok who are we kidding? Im not average in any way,shape or form. . Lol) 16+ year old can sound so articulate. I think that's real sad-the fact that we're so used to mediocrity that when something different(better) comes up we find it hard to believe. Real sad. I suppose i could dumb down my posts ,but that seems rather counter-productive,dont ya think?

@OP
All those people looking at you weird when u say u have no bf secretly wish they could be like you. And if they don't, they should. Ask the girls if having a bf has made them smarter or increased their grades, or made them better humans.
You're doing fine honey. Aint nothing strange about not being interested in having a bf. All the nay-sayers in here waiting for ur downfall are just miserable. And u know what they say - misery loves company. Don't give em the satisfaction.

@ atreides nice come back. And u're a lot more mature than some of the NL peeps here (I like that u answered the post without insulting him/her). I like u already

Deep Soul:

Atreides,

For a 16 7/12 yr old, you speak really well. I'm impressed and must commend your excellent use of English. Minus the English sef, you sound quite balanced.
Please darling, do not in anyway bothered by the so-called pressure to be a "pair". If you succumb, it'll only get worse. The next thing they'll be wondering is why you'd have a boyfriend and not have segz. And after you give in to that, something else will come up.

Even when you become an adult, it doesn't stop. There'll always be people wondering why you re single, why you arent married, why you arent having segz bla bla (personally and currently being xperienced by me).

I know this may sound cliche and "old-maidish" but concentrate on your books and save yourself for marriage.
If you do meet a boy you like, nothng stops you from being friends. Just ensure that appropriate lines are drawn. Good luck darl 

[s]_{By d way, I have a 17 7/12 brother. . .you might even be birthday mates. . .}[/s] 

Awwww. . Thanks! As for the english bit,na too much novel cause am. As for the being balanced bit,i have great parents. Sure,they irritate me on a regular basis,but they're doing their job,and God bless them for that. And you dont sound old maidish-you sound like me. Im the classic 'good girl'. I'm a straight 'A' student. I'm the class captain,debate queen student.I dont drink(except occasionally),i dont smoke pot,i dont sneak out and go clubbing(not only is that dangerous,the fact that i cant dance even to save my life kinda defeats the purpose). I read my books and pass my exams and get along with my parents. Im the quintessential good girl,and sometimes it just feels like my life could do with a little more excitement. P.s-Is your bro a May baby?

iceblue:

@ atreides nice come back. And u're a lot more mature than some of the NL peeps here (I like that u answered the post without insulting him/her). I like u already

thanks! I can be real sarcastic at times but im working on that so i resisted the temptation to be insultive in that reply. .

iceblue:

@OP
All those people looking at you weird when u say u have no bf secretly wish they could be like you. And if they don't, they should. Ask the girls if having a bf has made them smarter or increased their grades, or made them better humans.
You're doing fine honey. Aint nothing strange about not being interested in having a bf. All the nay-sayers in here waiting for your downfall are just miserable. And u know what they say - misery loves company. Don't give em the satisfaction.

Yeah i noticed that-a lot of people were sounding really negative,like it would be impossible for me to go on without meeting some guy that would de-virginize(gawd i always wanted to say that. . Lol) me. Youre verra right-misery does love company. And the part about them secretly wishing they were me was apt-nd i didnt really look at it that way until you mentioned it. Thanks. . .

OP, you are the kind of girl I've always wanted to have as friend!(Intelligent, Looking for SURE rltnshp, Matured et al) Can we be ? Even if it means only text or pen or call mate~ I'm a May boy- 17 7/12. Hoping to get words from you soon!