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Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by AbyDee: 8:23am On Jun 24, 2013 |
Funny this thread came up again. I didn't come to nl for a long time, and here I am reading this. well, to give some news : hubby and I are still together, he got a full time job about 6 months after my first post. I passed my degree, quit my 2 jobs and got another one, better paid with better schedule. we moved to a new place and we both contribute about 50/50 to the family expenses. He is saving money to start a business on top of his job. We also had another baby. I could say that many of our problems are behind now. His personality hasn't changed much, though. I'm still alone most of the time to handle the day-today- life and running of the house. Reading through my old posts, I realize we are just very different people. My personality hasn't changed much either. I am a bit of a perfectionist and tend to feel that nothing is ever good enough. My husband is not very talkative and doesn't really know how to calm me down. But well, I guess since we lived together til now, we can still do the next 50 years or so. I thought I would feel depressed reading old posts about us and realizing that we didn't change... but on the contrary, it makes me feel more peaceful. Now I can tell it's a personality/communication thing, and we just have to make do with it. Altogether, our marriage is not perfect, we had some really good ups, and a few downs too... but it's still standing, and I don't think it will ever break up. Thank God for his presence and patience in our lives. Thank you all for your replies and sound advices. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by degurl(f): 8:53am On Jun 24, 2013 |
AbyDee: Funny this thread came up again. I didn't come to nl for a long time, and here I am reading this. well, to give some news : hubby and I are still together, he got a full time job about 6 months after my first post. I passed my degree, quit my 2 jobs and got another one, better paid with better schedule. we moved to a new place and we both contribute about 50/50 to the family expenses. He is saving money to start a business on top of his job. We also had another baby. Thank God you were able to manage your situation. I am inspired, really. The Lord will continue to bless your marriage in Jesus name, Amen. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Tired Of My Marriage by yum01: 7:04pm On Jun 14, 2021 |
No judgement please.i know I am a scum but please dont add to it. Myself and my wife were friends in school , I had what we call my spec in my heart then and she jsnt it ( she is beautiful please). She is a good wife and mother not perfect cos no one is but she is good. The issue is I have never found her attractive but then in school fellowship and preaching said looks do not matter, that the true beauty is internal. So I silenced the voice of my spec and married her. Let me say again, she is a good woman and doesn't deserve this. 9 years after marriage with 2 kids, the problem is since 2019 the attraction has got worse. I dont find her attractive at all again , we hardly gist , the way I express love I struggle to . To have sex seff , I have to use enhancers to get erections . I started cheating last year and I dont like it but I am.doing it. I love the girl in question and i know its unfair to my wife. I have sought help , spoken with elderly people in marriage, prayed but its getting worse. She doesn't deserve this to be candid , and I am boring so much inside. No woman deserves to be treated like this. |
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