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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 8:59am On May 04, 2020
izzou:


grin grin grin
Small small abeg.. make dem no nack you ban
Lol... That rubbish just vex me. grin grin grin

Imagine the nonsense he typed, nah them type dey blackmail ladies they maltreated into dating them.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Iolo(m): 9:05am On May 04, 2020
OP, sorry about your experience.

If you’d like to take this up you may report your case here: https://www.dsvrtlagos.org/

They have two hotlines you can call.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by izzou(m): 9:05am On May 04, 2020
Ariza:
Lol... That rubbish just vex me. grin grin grin

Imagine the nonsense he typed, nah them type dey blackmail ladies they maltreated into dating them.

Lol

Different different characters na im dey here grin
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by earthsync(f): 9:07am On May 04, 2020
This is extremely sad. I feel for you.
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 9:16am On May 04, 2020
illicit:
please find somewhere in your heart to forgive the poor guy.

I can see that he was aggravated.
You have a low sex drive but he has an high one. He gets turn on easily when u guys play so It is even better that he did that with u instead of going for a minor.
He could have ended the relationship or could have gotten it elsewhere with her knowledge if the sex is so important . Its as simple as, "you don't want to give me I will get it elsewhere". Guys have been that plain with me, and I had to let them go because I wasn't ready.
Iz a very simple sturv! cheesy

Why anyone would force a lady is something I may never understand. Now he is on the verge of jail terms because of few minutes ejaculation. That's madness.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 9:18am On May 04, 2020
jujunaty:
so is your father.. and his father.. and grand father.. your mothers father, and her grandfather.. if you have brothers, cool.. all pigs too.. if you ever have a son, oh well.. what a pig you've named him smiley

He don vex

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 9:18am On May 04, 2020
izzou:


Lol

Different different characters na im dey here grin
True that!

grin
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Dupalmer: 9:32am On May 04, 2020
Ariza:
You are Mad! Very Mad!
Yeah but saner than you and all your family members including your unborn generations.
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by bukatyne(f): 9:37am On May 04, 2020
How does a girl who doesn't want sex camp in the house of a sexually active young man and make out with him regularly?

Some things will never make sense to me.

Who did this to this generation of women?

Women ran no-sex courtship successfully with sexually active men by creating boundaries.

What you will not eat, you don't smell it.

Simple as ABC. undecided

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Graxie(f): 9:45am On May 04, 2020
Where were your parents when you were camping with a man in this lock down season? You went to stay with a man that is not your brother and because you are a virgin, you can arouse him and then seal it up with its painful. You enabled the rape, you people should have regards for your bodies. Meanwhile go to the hospital to treat yourself and prevent pregnancy, don't come here with I was raped and pregnant and I don't know what to do story.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by soulbroken761: 9:54am On May 04, 2020
I should have used the diary section instead of here, to serve the purpose. I just wanted to get it off my chest, my fault or not, not to gather sympathy or for the guy to be attacked. I know my mistake but some people here actually think I should I shouldn't talk at all because I was at his house. That's insensitive and messed up.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Graxie(f): 10:05am On May 04, 2020
soulbroken761:
I should have used the diary section instead of here, to serve the purpose. I just wanted to get it off my chest, my fault or not, not to gather sympathy or for the guy to be attacked. I know my mistake but some people here actually think I should I shouldn't talk at all because I was at his house. That's insensitive and messed up.
I don't think you are ready to learn from your mistakes, you didn't just go to his house, you were staying for days. Will you advise your daughter to do same?

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 10:06am On May 04, 2020
heniford2:
i was surprise seeing her cry that early morning with police i never knew i was going to be arrested because we loved each other thank God my Nabor was around so my nabor even called her by name my Girlfriend the police said i should choice one settle out of court or charge to court i asked the teams of out of court i was to pay 250k i ask for court
wow, how did the matter end?
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by heniford2: 10:07am On May 04, 2020
soulbroken761:
I should have used the diary section instead of here, to serve the purpose. I just wanted to get it off my chest, my fault or not, not to gather sympathy or for the guy to be attacked. I know my mistake but some people here actually think I should I shouldn't talk at all because I was at his house. That's insensitive and messed up.
this is stupid talk or typo from a lady like you your not ashamed you wanted to paint the young dude evil guy you mastermind the whole game you made him touch you lust over you for days, month's, weeks and you come here to say u want to offload what its here dustbin like you think,
Stop playing emotional games with people's mind here go fix your mess you needed sex you had one you still feel depressed do you want to kill us too with swan tales like you twist this shit that he raped you. If care its not taking ur still staying with the same dude u claim raped u, even eat his food bath his soup brush his toothpaste and sleep with him in the same room nonsense ladies with low mentality mostly nigeria girls or women
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by peacefulhome(f): 10:09am On May 04, 2020
We all knew she went there, yes we do. But do we need to keep remaining her that she went to the guy place ? I think it better we all keep our opinion to ourselves , rather than hurting the lady the more.
Will you have said same if it were to be your blood sister ?
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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Dupalmer: 10:19am On May 04, 2020
Chacski:


You are a sick animal, You are advising her to continue with a rapist? would you honestly tell your sister, cousin or any female member of your family to continue with their rapist? Love others as you love yourself.
See this amoeba. Where in my writeup did you see me supporting him. Why don't you advise her to stab him to death so that it will be empathy enough. Slimy amoeba.
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by soulbroken761: 10:20am On May 04, 2020
Graxie:
Where were your parents when you were camping with a man in this lock down season? You went to stay with a man that is not your brother and because you are a virgin, you can arouse him and then seal it up with its painful. You enabled the rape, you people should have regards for your bodies. Meanwhile go to the hospital to treat yourself and prevent pregnancy, don't come here with I was raped and pregnant and I don't know what to do story.
I don't live in my parents house. I live close to the school where I'm doing my masters and working. My parents know who I'm dating. I don't think I was wrong to trust my "lover" not to rapè me under any circumstances. I only trusted the wrong person. I'm 24 and educated. I'm not a baby. I know how to not get pregnant. I didn't ask for advice. I will not be blamed more than necessary.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by dayleke: 10:21am On May 04, 2020
donpata:


Oga, the major reason this guy succeeded was cos she let him. He slapped her and that was it. A part of her was still telling her, "he's your bf after all." I still insist that it ain't easy to rape a woman. Even two men will have to struggle to do that. I have seen a video where 3 guys couldn't succeed cos the lady simply didn't let them. I understand she was naive but the earliest attempt is sufficient to force her to leave the house. Even with gagging, she could still scream. Abi he taped her mouth?
I believe less of the story tough.

She said she didn't scream because she didn't want the neighbors to hear/know.
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Dupalmer: 10:22am On May 04, 2020
Vyolet:

Imagine the thrash you wrote there, what good is in such animal?
I hope you are sane.
It's you that needs your head examined with with a torch light. Why don't you advise her to kill him so that it will show you are empathic.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Mystic969: 10:24am On May 04, 2020
cryYou don't go around fire expecting not to sweat.
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Sofistcatdmoron: 10:26am On May 04, 2020
U should be happy that ur husband to be has disvirgined u,
But he shouldn't have used force
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by heniford2: 10:34am On May 04, 2020
Please Note RAPE its bad don't promote it don't support it but...........don't try to frame a innocent soul or use Rape to get back on someone don't let the devil use you be safe,

Don't seduce a sexiest or man like madam did and claim he raped you its the biggest betrayal of trust and love infant you will never feel alright with yourself

Note also hear from the other persons mouth before you judge them women are witch in nature, if your a guy ask her twice if possible record it the audio and keep so to avoid her crying to the world you Raped her when she mourned your name during sex. If you can't handle it visit a bethol or a prostitution be smart becareful
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 10:36am On May 04, 2020
soulbroken761:
I should have used the diary section instead of here, to serve the purpose. I just wanted to get it off my chest, my fault or not, not to gather sympathy or for the guy to be attacked. I know my mistake but some people here actually think I should I shouldn't talk at all because I was at his house. That's insensitive and messed up.
Dear, I feel for you. I really do. Your fault isn't going to his house, some guys don't even need a roof to force a lady. Your fault is submitting to desperation, your unhealthy hunger for a relationship pushed you into what you are going through right now. You didn't take your time to know your man, you didn't take your time to understand what relationship is, what you want and how ready you are for it. You only said yes to the next available person because you feel left out. Now where has this led you? Do you have a relationship now? Can your virginity be restored? If at all you still feel you can patch things up not to lose at both ends, the sane question remains: Is he the right person? Can't you get anyone better who will respect your body and opinions.?

My Advise : learn to love and value yourself, @24 you should be more focused on YOU and your FUTURE. You should never be at the mercy of anyone to feel complete. Another error you made.When he tried his act in the afternoon, you should have stood your ground and left. That way you would have shown you aren't cheap and you should be respected. Thing is guy had he thought planned out and he knew he would get away with it because you came cheap, docile and with no value. He knows how desperate you are to please him, how much the relationship means to you and he used it against you. He knows you aren't a threat and only apologies from him will melt your heart. He isn't scared to lose you either.

Deed has been done already, but guess what it is never too late to turn the tides. Open up to your parents, you will be blamed, but opening up will help release the pains, you will get words of comfort from those who truly care and if you are lucky your case is taken up that will show the guy didn't fall from heaven and you are valuable. Accept your fair share of the faults, shake off the dusts and move on. Never make the error of going back to him, he will never respect you. Even if you both end up in marriage, he will never take a NO from you. A person who doesn't respect you when he has no right over you will never respect you when he has rights. My dear, cut all ties with him, focus on yourself and don't forget to smile.

I wish you success and speedy recovery.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by dayleke: 10:40am On May 04, 2020
soulbroken761:
I don't know if you read in my post that the first thing he did was gag me with a cloth while I was sleeping, holding my hands to the back with just one of his own. He is big. Once I was gagged he tied the hands to the back. Indont know if I mentioned this in my post but I don't want to check that that post again. Of course I resisted what was about to happen but only so much, with no hands to use while struggling to breathe at the same time. I was mouthing "please" with cloth firmly secured in my mouth. He not only slapped me but held a pillow on my face to make me stop. I'm very slim. I'm tall at about 5'11 or 6feet but he is much taller and weighs far more. I'm the one that knows what the experience was and I insist that I couldn't fight him off. You cant blame me for not fighting him off. You can only blame for not running away in the afternoon, or for being there in the first place.

This energy that you have here to be responding and defending your actions, why don't you use it and take it to the right authorities?
What are you hoping to achieve here if I may ask?

Please just be honest.

We don't know you nor "him".

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by dayleke: 10:42am On May 04, 2020
Some comments here get as e be sef.
lipsrsealed
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 10:45am On May 04, 2020
I'm sorry you had to go through this.
i'm just putting myself in your shoes. I would have felt betrayed if he ever raped me. Because the both of you are making out should not make him think that he can rape you. I'm so sorry.

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by heniford2: 10:49am On May 04, 2020
AnonymousRebec:
I'm sorry you had to go through this. I can totally relate with this your story because I have made out with a guy so much that he got very excited and begged me for sex. But I didn't allow him to penetrate me because I have never been penetrated. I don't want to say I'm a 'virgin' because technically, I'm not.

The guy would be so hard, and he is way stronger than me and can rape me if he wanted to. But he never raped me. We just did what both of us were ok with. Until we split up peacefully.

So, I'm just putting myself in your shoes. I would have felt betrayed if he ever raped me. Because the both of you are making out should not make him think that he can rape you. I'm so sorry.
how can someone not a virgin yet has not been penetrated before so fuss in this please explain

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by manmade(m): 10:54am On May 04, 2020
oluwadabira111:
Chai don't even know what to type!just that God will heal you! angry
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Nobody: 10:56am On May 04, 2020
heniford2:
how can someone not a virgin yet has not been penetrated before so fuss in this please explain

I think a virgin is one that knows no man

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Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Rexymania(m): 11:00am On May 04, 2020
Well, what moved you to his house? You tempted him. He's not stone
Re: I Was Raped Tonight by Lawly: 11:01am On May 04, 2020
DeeMain:
So that's it? You don't want the idiot to pay? You want to unleash the animal to prey on other victims?

This story is making me angry.

It will be your choice if you choose to prosecute him or not though. There are Anti Rape advocacy groups that could help you fight this if you choose to thread this path. You can call them right away to direct you on what to do.

Secondly, do not blame yourself. You didn't rape yourself. Somebody did. He is responsible for the atrocity. Resist the urge to take up his guilt and responsibility as yours. Refuse to take the blame and shame. You were only naive and trusting, you didn't kill anybody. You didn't commit any crime. I repeat, refuse to accept responsibility for this rape. Place it squarely on the horrible animal you once called a boyfriend.

You are scarred physically now. You will likely be scarred emotionally and psychologically in the coming days and months and years. Pre-empt that. Get a therapist to help you break that cycle or go to those NGOs, they can provide professional help for free.

Lastly, get closer to God. Get more spiritual, you will need the support, strength and comfort therein in the coming days.

Don't leave this to chance. Take care of yourself. Then bounce back.

Life experiences are lessons. Learn your lessons. Let this make you stronger not weaker. Be the victor not the victim.



someone else's rape victim spotted wink

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