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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Aurelius1(m): 4:07am On May 13, 2020
consultancy:
I would say 41 unmarried is already late, for a female. For a man, still late, but not as bad as that of female. U should get married ASAP and start a family (if you are financially capable). Its best to train kids with the vigorous strength and agility of a youth. No be say u dey 55 years now ur children will still be in nursery or primary school crying daddy daddy buy me biscuit each morning
I have a cousin who is 56 and is not married. He always claim that he'll get married "soon" but soon don turn am to old man finish.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by azpekuliar: 4:36am On May 13, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

Dr. Anthony Fauci the US infectious diseases expert currently in the spotlight because of COVID19 got married at 44 and is blessed with 3 children.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by bigl: 5:17am On May 13, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

My dear brother, you are doing just fine!

Our timelines are very different!

Seen people marry very early and yet are single today!

I"ve also seen people marry late and they are still married and doing fine!

Learn to run your own race without comparing your life to that of others!

You are unique!

As soon as u get married, make it all count sharply o!

As in give birth to not more than 2 to avoid sending kids to school when you are in your late 60s!
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by gowonmaharajah(m): 5:36am On May 13, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please
hmmmmm,bloooda emanu.goan marry ooo.
from your posts here on nairaland, someone like me would never know ya that old oooo
it's OK
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by frozen70(f): 5:45am On May 13, 2020
stormborn28:
good advice

Thanks
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by bluefilm: 6:22am On May 13, 2020
consultancy:
what is the sole purpose of marriage??

First and foremost, companionship!

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Triplerg: 7:17am On May 13, 2020
Eulalia:




I'm telling you. A man needs to be financially stable to a large extent before thinking of settling down. even the woman you're getting married to should have something doing. Marriage comes with a whole lot of responsibilities and eventualities which you cannot shy away from. And even if youre financially stable, it gets to a point where you'll need to double your hustle as your family enlarges, expenses increase and lifestyle changes. All these must take place whether you like it or not.

It is well.
Exactly. Most problems in marriage today stem from this fact

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by JaffyJoe(m): 7:35am On May 13, 2020
Liposure:
dem de abuse u 4 street

Lol no ooo. I'm the only son. Gotta keep the name going.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by olajizz01(m): 7:51am On May 13, 2020
austine4real:
God's time is the best



Are u male or female .



If u are male starts eating foods that will boost ur sperms till u finds the right woman




If female starts eating foods that will boost ur eggs cos u nearing menopause and reduce stress .


God will guide u



Those of u qouting and insulting me ,it's because u have not seen life .



Jobs can make someone to marry late.

Spiritual attacks.

Economy

War


Health challenges

And many more ...

Because u were lucky to marry early others might not ....
The reasons you listed below shows that you are a man that have seen life,that of spiritual attacks is the most dangerous one,it can cause joblessness which leads to economic war,can cause health challenges and many more as well.
Some were even attack not to meet a good spouses to date/marry.



But some few people were so lucky in life,they have both parents good and caring when they were still with them,have nice extended family,such person will be during everything with ease because family spiritual attacks is the most difficult one to break because they know a lot about such person.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by austine4real(m): 7:53am On May 13, 2020
olajizz01:
The reasons you listed below shows that you are a man that have seen life,that of spiritual attacks is the most dangerous one,it can cause joblessness which leads to economic war,can cause health challenges and many more as well.
Some were even attack not to meet a good spouses to date/marry.



But some few people were so lucky in life,they have both parents good and caring when they were still with them,have nice extended family,such person will be during everything with ease because family spiritual attacks is the most difficult one to break because they know a lot about such person.


My daddy I'm a small child lol



grin grin
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by lokho(m): 7:56am On May 13, 2020
Liposure:
i go dash u 1M

When?

Make I send my account number?
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by olajizz01(m): 8:16am On May 13, 2020
austine4real:

My daddy I'm a small child lol


grin grin
Lol,small child with wise head,good.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Theicecode(m): 8:22am On May 13, 2020
Sixfeetbelle:


41 and unmarried? Yeee! Bia, is this not a typical example of midnight newspaper that is popular on this forum? Op, you're too old already and should have been married at least five years earlier. What were you doing all this time? Sampling? Hustling? Being an introvert? Chai! This one is Shiloh things ooh.

Sha, you're fortunate you're a male so I expect men to compare your case with a woman's as being better, and tell you to marry when you're ready and all that crap that really helps no one in the long run. I also expect they might be tempted to bash me for giving you a title. In my defense, you wanted an advice, so suck it up, buttercup.



We move cheesy cool

Shut up!
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by sterlingD(m): 8:29am On May 13, 2020
gabicon:

First of all it's never too late to be right, the best time to make a good decision is yesterday, the next best time is now. However life is programmed to run on a schedule meaning there is time for everything. Let's create an hypothetical situation, let's say you get married today and have kids today, you will be in your mid sixties training a child or children in higher institutions of learning. Mid sixties is the retirement age, so while many of your friends are traveling the world and enjoying their grandchildren you will be training yours. Raising children takes energy and time, the older you are the more difficult it can be because you don't have that youthful energy of a 27 year old at 41. Lastly, most of your plans will have to be on fast track because of you really don't have time.

As I said earlier it's never too late to be right, have a robust plan of how you intend to build your family based on your current state and future projections.

I see wisdom in the above in Bold
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by austine4real(m): 8:33am On May 13, 2020
olajizz01:
Lol,small child with wise head,good.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by CCC2(m): 8:48am On May 13, 2020
People should stop deceiving the guy, Its actually late but not too late. Part of what your children need is a young dad.
Just do it ASAP and may God help your wife with immediate conception.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Unrated900(m): 9:30am On May 13, 2020
Alaye stop this stories here and make money
I repeat don’t get married when you have no dime
Cos your wife might someone’s side chick.
I repeat Make money before getting married.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Fabuloski(m): 10:09am On May 13, 2020
Ariza:
You are wicked sha. grin grin grin


I find it funny when guys think only women get worried when they cross a specific age unmarried. Guys get just as desperate as women.
You are not totally correct. You have to know that while women ages like milk, men age like wine.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by 1Bishop(m): 10:19am On May 13, 2020
NO
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Koko1119: 10:29am On May 13, 2020
go ask don jazzy.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by CeCeEkol(f): 10:36am On May 13, 2020
NOPE! Oga/Madam, nothing in life is ever too late... u hear? its better, i repeat better to marry late than to marry early to the wrong person. do you understand? many of us are reaping that fruit of wrong marriages. I always tell people, you cant know more than God or be wiser. menopause, low sperm does not count, cos God does not work with our own biological time, he works with his own time period.. he makes everything perfect in his own time.
I will advice you that you use this time to be better, so that you will attract better.
Love yourself more, don't listen to what people/families/friends say before you or behind you.
know who you are, what you want and go for them
Have standards and values, know them, work with them.
Take care of you

Las las you ll be fine.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Yahksbiz(m): 10:37am On May 13, 2020
Life is hard so hard that we make some decisions that may not be right. This should not be medicine after dead. It is good to start up early, but when life come knocking hard a lot do happen.

Whatever plan you have now do it in your marriage, whatever you are wetin to achieve go do it in the marriage, to have children is good. From your statement u considered children before your wife but if otherwise is the case, why dont you go and give some girls belly and have them care for the children so you can chase your plan peaceful. You wont have much to spend so when you are done, you chose the one to spend the remain life with.

Note: this is at Your own risk i wont be held responsible

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Topgags: 11:09am On May 13, 2020
It's not too late.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Goddonsky247: 12:09pm On May 13, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please

if 41 is too late, would you go back to when you were 31 and get married?
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Goddonsky247: 12:14pm On May 13, 2020
Calapar:
I only say this: it's not late to marry at 40 as a man but make sure you've become rich and don't bring your wife into poverty.

my parents gave birth to me when my dad was 86 and mom at her early 70
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by emmyfizzy12(m): 12:23pm On May 13, 2020
manuelreports:
I just clocked 41 and I am yet to settle down.

Please house i want to know if I married too Late if i decide to settle down today.

I never expected to marry this late but you know one thing leads to another son of man is still trying to put somethings in order before marriage, in order to give my children the best life can offer.

Please fam
Your suggestions please
Which suggestions do you need�, are you going to reverse your life and get married earlier? I think you should concentrate on the way forward... and in another news you don’t need to get it all before you can get married... cut you coat according to your material find you a person that can build with your income and stop giving silly excuses cool angry grin
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Faithful23(f): 1:30pm On May 13, 2020
They no dey hold latecomers for marriage.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by maasoap(m): 2:01pm On May 13, 2020
Donald3d:
Its never too late to succeed at anything. What matters is getting it right.

Follow me on Twitter- : www.twitter.com/NaijaSteveJobs

Continue deceiving him and yourself with never too late. Even before he created the thread, he himself knew that it is getting late. Will you now start having kid or kids when you are already 50 or 60, or you will forget having kids?
And when he's finally ready, he will realise that he has bigger problem because single women won't be interested in marrying him. All of them will be telling him that he's too old, that's a sure thing. Last last, he will just settle down for whatever he is able to get.

Copy: manuelreports

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by maasoap(m): 2:13pm On May 13, 2020
itsRhamzy:
Hollywood actor Arnold shwarzenegger married at 40 despite not broke and fathered children. he's in his 70 now and his first child is 30+ already. we run our races differently so it's not late.

Arnold had everything at 40. Imagine this dude delaying marriage and having kids all in the names of making enough money but at the end of the day, he couldn't make enough. He gets married anyway at 45 or 50, why would he get energy, power or morale to work hard again to provide for the family with small children?
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by maasoap(m): 2:18pm On May 13, 2020
itsRhamzy:
men can never be newspapers so enough with the shaming cos unlike women, he can still father children till he get to 80.

Have you listened to men who are above 40 and not rich trying to get a woman to marry before? If haven't witnessed any before, try and observe one. Only then you will understand the problem they are facing now that they are ready to settle down with no millions of Naira in their pockets.

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Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Donald3d(m): 2:30pm On May 13, 2020
maasoap:


Continue deceiving him and yourself with never too late. Even before he created the thread, he himself knew that it is getting late. Will you now start having kid or kids when you are already 50 or 60, or you will forget having kids?
And when he's finally ready, he will realise that he has bigger problem because single women won't be interested in marrying him. All of them will be telling that he's old, that's a sure thing. Last last, he will just settle down for whatever he is able to get.

Copy: manuelreports
So should he marry the wrong person, just because he wants to get married ?
I urge you to understand my post very well, I never told him to wait.
I only encouraged him, that at his current age, its not too late, but its more important to marry the right person.
Re: At 41, Am I Getting Married Too Late? by Fabulously001(f): 4:35pm On May 13, 2020
Age is just a number...maturity is the koko.

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