Awww . . . .  Now I feel sorry for her. See how peeps are cursing her!     

tEsLim:

No need for crititizm just little instructions

1. Move back to your parents house or to a friends house. But I suggest a male friend because if you go to a female friends house you will start sleeping with her boyfriend to. ANd I will advice you keep this bleeping secret for life else you will be skinned alive. And hated forever
2. Get a real boyfriend around your age with a d.i.c.k that can Zap you real good and make you forget your sista husbands. Get a real boyfriend i your life.
3. Do not confide this story with anyone I repeat do not!. Call both husabnds and tell them you are out. Even tell them and let them know you are sleeping with both husbands. It could disgust them a little ,  Because it could be that you are actually cheating with both men still lol
4. Move on

@Bolded,co-signed.
You don't need to confess to any mortal before u receive forgiveness and redemption.
@OP,seems u have decided to get up and do the right thing.Im happy for you!
. . .u hump the dude by day while his wife,ur sister rides him by night.wow,those men sef .

thank u 4 pouring out ur heart. it's just the 1st step in escaping devil's enslavement. that is his own purpose and mission on earth.  he want to enslave God's children for destruction. i plead with u not to continue to fall victim of his craftiness.

there are so many people in this forum facing similar situations that are begging for help.

u have already created a fun script that plays in your mind whenever the need  arises. in your explanations, the script is so fun and hard to delete but it's deadly. know that whatever u perceive and internalize that u will conceive in life.

u can proudly do away with those ''shameless maggot'' (sorry to say) that have no single regard for their wife and in-laws at home. i will not really blame u but those predators using u 2 gratify their sexual desire. it happened to Joseph in the bible but he stood his ground and turn down his boss wife ''yansh'' that could have been fun for some split seconds, thereby ruin his God given destiny.

in summary, i will like to inform you that u're digging ur grave fast if you refuse to quit right now. Don't loose ur God given purpose and potentials in life because of worldly pleasure. try as much as possible to act fast on all the good advise suggested in this forum . since u said u are a student, get busy every now and then with ur studies and aim high in life to avoid every distractions.




4all forumite

Beautiful but deadly – ‘The lap of Delilah



Prov. 14: 12, ‘There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.’

Judges 16:4, 19, ‘And it came to pass afterward, that he loved a woman in the valley of Sorek, whose name was Delilah….And she made him sleep upon her knees; and she called for a man, and she caused him to shave off the seven locks of his head; and she began to afflict him, and his strength went from him.’



It takes the mind that has a personal communion with the Holy Spirit to understand the devil’s plot and flee from the enemy’s bate.



The lap of Delilah was an altar where the anointing of a Nazarite was drained. What a terrible mistake! A man that was a Nazarite unto God from the womb; a man sent to deliver the children of Israel out of the hand of the Philistines. Lo, he ended his ministry on the beautiful, attractive but destiny-destroying lap of a strange woman.



Another lesson from the passage above is that the lap/knees of a strange woman is a place of affliction. Though beautiful and attractive but it’s very deadly.



Prov. 5:3-5, ‘For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.’



In the present days, there are different scenarios that symbolise the lap of Delilah. It could be that girl friend or boy friend you are having unholy relationship/affair with. Yours may be sugar daddy or sugar mummy to maintain your position or secure a promotion in your office. It could even be a business deal with a friend that seems to have a bountiful profit. My friend, if God does not approve it or it is contrary to His law, what you are doing is lying on the ‘lap of Delilah’ and will soon destroy your destiny if you don’t flee.



I implore you to learn from the lifestyle of Joseph in Potiphar’s house Gen. 39:12. Flee from all forms of ungodliness and all shall be well with you this year and beyond.

seriously you need help.

Page 7 of bullshit stil counting,

3triangle:

Those that felt my situation is a make-believe for the simple fact they felt I've given out so much information either never went to school or are privileged to attend a special school for the blind,  Abeg make them free me jore. I no come here because I dey find person wey go believe my story. I just saw it as an avenue to pour my heart out to someone and it is working for me. Thanks all. I didnt say my sister's husband is in love with me. NO! Even though I have told him how I felt about him in the heat of passion. I regret it all and is ashamed of my actions. I love my sisters and I wish I could tell them their husbands' are cheating on them, but that will set off a hell of reactions.

Good step forward. Tell him and keep your distance from him when your sister is not at home. Stay back at school until your sis is back home. Get a boyfriend and introduce the guy to him.

my dear u are causing future problems for urself

i think the number 1 thing people should remember is 'ty shall not judge'. ITS NOT FOR US TO JUDGE, BUT THE ALMIGHTY GOD. It is a really bad act and should have never done such a thing to your own sisters. But you have to remember that nothing in this life goes unknown, either way, your sisters will find out. i suggest that you confess to them and bare the consequences that may follow with it. the longer you leave it, the worse it will get. Your still quite young and i don't think you know the meaning of love - i think you've got the wrong way round, its lust you are feeling. As a woman, we have to control ourselves and know right from wrong even if it gives us pleasure. After you have confessed,  repent and ask for Jesus in your life. With God all things are possible, the truth will set you free,

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Could this be a tale? Well if it is not, MY ADVICE IS, TELL YOUR SISTER HUSBAND TO RENT A HOUSE FOR YOU, I AM SURE YOU CAN CONVINCE HIM THEN INVITE THE 2 HUSBAND TO MEET AT THE SAME TIME, AND WHAT NEXT BREAK THE BOX! pick your life up and start all over. Many advice has ben dished out. A WORD THEY SAY IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE BU YOU ARE PRIVILLEDGE O HAVE MANY WORDS SO LET ME KNOW WHAT NEXT

For those of u givin good advice, u re all wasting ur time. She already nows wat she's doing and wat she will still do. After the confession someone is probably in between her legs now. so who give a fk

This is like a movie but if this is true you will need to ask yourself some honest questions.

You are in love with you immediate sister husband, can he leave your sister for you. If yes you are on the right side keep on doing it more grease to your elbow. All you need to do is declare and go marry him because you are trending on the way that will make both your sisters leave their materimonial homes and they each husband may think that is how the other two sisters do and vice versa.

Do you purpose wait at home to cook for this your lover brother-inlaw? Don't you have any lectures in the morning? I know your brother-inlaw might think your sister goes to work early blabla and she should have stayed in the house to take care of the husband more but only God knows what can satisfy these men especially with women like you who are willing and ready for fun whenever.

Are you ready to have kids for these your lover brother in-law since your sister is not ready or your brother in-law is not looking at your sister due to the fun he is having from you.

Can you show this man around as your new partner, husband, whatsoever to friends, familes etc and can he do the same? All these and more questions are the things you need to ask yourself and honestly provide an answer to. If not you are wasting your time, emotions etc with a man you cannot possible have. Get out of it thought think about where you leave occupy yourself.  Avoid being with the man there are ways you can do it but act and do not think anything is secret. I am sure your sister instinct is telling her something but in her head she is saying not possible, may be my sister friend but not my sister sleeping with him.

I will not judge whether what you are doing is right or not but it is not socially acceptable to sleep with in-laws not that it does not happen it does but i am just worried about your sisters how they will feel once they found out. I know they will nothing is hidden it life.

I pray your sisters will have the heart to leave and cope with you and their husbands once this evil is out of the bag.

@ Poster, stop putting us on suspense!
wat eventually happened?
did any of your sisters find out?
or u get belle 4d one u LOVE & live happily thereafter?
yawn, plsssss, conclude, make we role it out on SUPER STORY & win an award!!!

@3Triangle,
Ur story was almost sounding bogus.I'm not here to criticize u or abuse u,nah,u've already gotten a good dose of those.However,i took d liberty of goin tru all ur posts n here's woh i fink.U've already gotten urself in a very big,trashy mess n i'm glad u wanna desperately get out of it.So,if u really wanna end woh u're doin without coming clean to ur family,den u nid to get out of dat house.In 1 of ur posts u said it was out of d question,buh dat's d only remedy.U're in love wif ur sister's husband,d feelin's won't die if u still stay in dsame house wif him where u'd see him on a daily.Get out of d house (u wil if u really wanna,trust me),look 4 somfin to distract urself wif (lyk a boyfriend) n u'll get ova it.It's not gonna happen within a month doh,it's gonna take a wyl,but it's gonna be worth it.Good luck dear,n yeah,we all hav our shortcomings!

STOP PRESS! NairaLanders, all have been said and heard and this is the final conclusion of the matter. We are all guilty as charged and may God have mercy on us all ! As for 3triangle go to the Lord now in prayer after reading and meditating on the Bible passages below. It is now time for contemplation and action. May the good Lord have mercy on your poor soul.

Psalm 32 (NKJV)    A Psalm of David. A Contemplation.
“ 1 Blessed is he whose transgression is forgiven, Whose sin is covered.
 2 Blessed is the man to whom the LORD does not impute iniquity, And in whose spirit there is no deceit.
 3 When I kept silent, my bones grew old Through my groaning all the day long.
 4 For day and night Your hand was heavy upon me; My vitality was turned into the drought of summer. Selah  
 5 I acknowledged my sin to You,
          And my iniquity I have not hidden.
          I said, “I will confess my transgressions to the LORD,”
          And You forgave the iniquity of my sin.  Selah  
 6 For this cause everyone who is godly shall pray to You
        In a time when You may be found; Surely in a flood of great waters, They shall not come near him.
 7 You are my hiding place; You shall preserve me from trouble;
        You shall surround me with songs of deliverance.  Selah  
 8 I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will guide you with My eye.
9 Do not be like the horse or like the mule,
        Which have no understanding,
        Which must be harnessed with bit and bridle,
        Else they will not come near you.
 10 Many sorrows shall be to the wicked; But he who trusts in the LORD, mercy shall surround him.
 11 Be glad in the LORD and rejoice, you righteous; And shout for joy, all you upright in heart!”

Isaiah 55:6-9 (NLT)   Invitation to the LORD’s Salvation
“6 Seek the LORD while you can find him. Call on him now while he is near.
7 Let the wicked change their ways and banish the very thought of doing wrong.
  Let them turn to the LORD that he may have mercy on them.
  Yes, turn to our God, for he will forgive generously.
8 “My thoughts are nothing like your thoughts,” says the LORD.
  “And my ways are far beyond anything you could imagine.
9 For just as the heavens are higher than the earth, so my ways are higher than your ways
  and my thoughts higher than your thoughts.

Matthew 11:28-30 (NIV)
28 “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

2 Corinthians 6:1-2
“ 1 As God’s co-workers we urge you not to receive God’s grace in vain. 2 For he says,
  “In the time of my favor I heard you,
   and in the day of salvation I helped you.”
   I tell you, now is the time of God’s favor, now is the day of salvation.”

Hi dear,

Believe me you really need help.

But first, you HAVE to leave the house! Get a room in your Campus hostel. Make sure nobody stops you from doing that.

If they try tell them, you feel you are being attacked spiritually at home an needs to be on your own! I AM Serious oh!

See the first rule in avoiding sexual intimacy, is physical separation, lust (your so-called love) wanes when two people are separated.

Believe me if you follow this advice, in two months, you will find a very cute guy out there that attract your attention, and make you forget the evil husband.

As for me, being a guy, I will blame your sisters husband, he ought to know better, since he's married and older than you. In the court of law, he will be charged with abuse.

So once again, here's my advice:

1) Leave the house and move to your campus hostel or anywhere around your campus.

2) Stop coming to the house, stop all forms of communication with the men. Infact, you can even decide to fight your sister to avoid coming to her house ( that's a joke anyway!).

3) Go to a church, a praying one, ask for forgiveness and repent, then request for deliverance (I am serious oh!). I have learned that habits that are impossible to break are as a result of deep rooted psychological problems which are time cannot be cured by a specialist, because they are fueled by demons ( this is not being religious, demons are actually Evil Aliens(angels) from another planet/realm, that are here to destroy men).

4) Make up your mind to get a life, start looking forward to getting your own man. TO GET YOUR MIND OFF SOMETHING, YOU HAVE TO FIX IT ON ANOTHER!.

5) Never accepts gifts from both men again EVER! Gifts have a way of getting to one's head! He who gives must expect to get. This is why I never advice ladies to collect gifts from men they are not ready to marry. No matter what you do, if you collect gifts, one way or the other, the giver will get something from you.

6) Finally, it seems you have a weakness for older/elderly men, and truth is older men are usually married. So please be open minded, don't be high minded, do not focus on the so called material achievements, give that guy a chance. Truth is, the right man always come, but ladies always have a way of overlooking what is good for them and pursuing what glitters!

Wish you the best!

@Poster,
God First_Fast and pray to God for forgiveness and strength to be steadfast in His path.  
Avoid staying alone with any of these two in-laws of yours or staying in a confined place with them never again.
Get hold on your life and be more rigid with your principles and let your no be NO!
Get your own apartment and whenever there is need for you to go to their houses, make sure your sisters are in (you can always call your sisters to confirm).
Reject any gift that can not be given to you in the presence of your sisters cos it might be a bait.
Reject all outing with them especially if your sisters are excluded.
Then get yourself a very romantic and reliable boyfriend; God will make a way_
These might help you a long way. . .

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Things like this never end up well at all. You better stop now while you are still alive cause as hard as it may sound, it has dire consequences ,the kind you can never imagine.It lead to disgrace and humiliation , in future it has a way of resurfacing either on your marriage and your future, Stopped loving your sisters husband, you hate your sister and that's you are doing that, , it's never late to stop but i must encourage you and at the same time one you ,now is the time, do not hesitate.Ask God to forgive you, move away from that house or else. Your sisters are not silly female intuition will definitely reveal it to them,
What we do in life echoes in eternity.

Kai! I don watch dis movie before, d part 2 dey self!

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AVISENNA, you couldn't have said it any better. It's dead on target!

poster
Though what u did is an abormination but thank God u realised ur mistake. First, be determined to stop it and try and discuss with ur eldest sister husband to stop buying u gifts and ur other sister's husband that this has to stop.Your telling your sister might not go down well with their marriage.

i for like straff too. maybe dat'll cure d madness,

, wow, just wow,

@ poster.

After reading tro ur post, my conclusion is that u are very weak.
weak in ur mind, xter, morals and heart.

u fear to much that why u never take a stand to end this bullshit.
well just mark my words, u will soon be found out. that shame and story u never tell will be forced from u.

who said u cannot stop? who said u cannot survive outside those homes as you must?


just know that ur secret will soon be out soon!

@Poster. Let me talk to you like a real uncle.

Though what you have done is morally wrong and its a sin before God, I want appreciate your courage to come out and confess to us all. Let anyone without sin be the first to cast the stone, I will never forget these words of Christ.

I think you should not tell your sisters for the sake of saving your family and thier marriages but I will advice you GET OUT of the house and find somewhere to live. Am sure you have friends in school you can squat with for the moment. Sexual sins are very strong especially when feelings are involved. I bet you there is no fighting you want to put up, you will always sleep with your brother-in-law again (am sure you know this by now).

You have to flee my dear, run for your life and save your soul, drastic situations call for drastic actions.

The first step is to stop leaving under the same roof with this man and do not let him know where you are living. Its only after you have carried out this action that you can think straight.

Next, you have to confess to God as well, if possibly go a church that the pastor do not know both you and your family too well and confess too. I know with sincere godly sorrow, God will definitely forgive you.

Tell the two brother in laws, that you are not interested again and make sure even you go visiting, you always go with a friend and your sisters are also around with their kids.

Good luck and God bless.

for further counselling if you need, you can send me an sms on 08029563137
I wish you well.

first step is to leave the house and then confide in your mother whether u lyk it or nt cos it might just come back to hunt you if proper tep are nt taken to correct this abomination and finally go in for PROPER deliverance. and then you are free. preferably go to MFM for PROPER deliverance cos u av brought a big curse n ur self

so much info. I bet if i was your friend i would have known its you. Learn to be more discreet ok.
Back to the topic, plz leave that house. Tell 'em you want to live in the hostel for the best of your studies. You rily did a nasty thing, so i'd suggest you go see your pastor for spiritual help. I'm glad you've discovered the problem which is a good step. I wish you speedy recovery. God bless you dear.

Your desire to be free from this abominable practice is a step in the right direction to being totally set free.

I would strongly advise that you seek counsel on the way out from experts in the field who through God's wisdom will guide you through.

You can visit: http://www.praisefowowe.com

or contact Pastor Praise Fowowe via the contact details below:

Praise Fowowe International
19 Sule Abuka Crescent
Opebi – Lagos

Or

4 Ashafa street
Saabo Ojodu
Lagos


2348037269483, 2347028843365, 2348025537820

UK +447760646777 , +447877034094

My dear,
Do not be deceived, The only ONE that can help U is GOD himself cos u are possessed already by the that INCEST SPIRIT and is abominable in the sight of GOD, remember, GOD destroyed Sodom & Gomorrah for reasons like this, I will advise strongly that YOU see UR PASTOR. Go to Ur Chuch or any strong church around U & REGISTER for DELIVERANCE immediately, I bet U, that's the ONLY SOLUTION, After then, the Ministers will follow U up.If U don't do this NOW, NEMESIS will catch up with U & U'll have destroyed many things & ur sisters' home, U have a SHORT TIME to REPENT & stop that MADNESS of falling in love with Ur sisters husband. U're jsut too small to bear the INTENDED PUNISHMENT for such an abominable offence, SO RUN 4 UR LIFE & ESCAPE THE WRATH OF GOD.
I wish U the very BEST as U TAKE D STEP OF TOTAL REPENTANCE & DELIVERANCE NOW!!!