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Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Jamesbiodun(m): 10:18pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
make a report to the police, let that ungrateful mother in-law sue you now, dont be a weakling bro, always stand on your right on family issues, never allow your mother in-law stay with you to avoid problem. it seems your wife don't love you anymore, I am very sorry for your predicament, don't let your wife or in-law intimidate you, they already know you will come begging |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by jaxxy(m): 10:19pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
simplexity: I blame u for part of this problem. B4 u marry the daughter of a single parent mother, u need to ask questions and study attitude of the mother. Is she a builder or a destroyer. Some mothers will see this same scenario or even worse and call u for a serious talk to keeping ur family together bt this one seems to be the total opposite. She pulls down rather than build up and ur wife is listening to her instead of u. Now the deed is done, give them stern warning on ur actions if they don’t return ur kids. They have no such rights to take ur kids that way and infact the suing they are talking ignorantly about shud actually be done by u against. What are they suing u for? U shud be laughing at their ignorance and setting them straight. This what u get when u have a problematic mother in-law who shud rather be correcting her daughters poor attitude after having her 1st kid. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by shellsea(m): 10:19pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Bro with no disrespect, your case is the case of "See Finish". She has been looking for the slightest chance to leave the marriage. Hand over this situation to God. 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Abusadiq01(m): 10:19pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
With all due respect, you married d wrong Woman. 3 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by shellsea(m): 10:19pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Bro with no disrespect, your case is the case of "See Finish". She has been looking for the slightest chance to leave the marriage. Hand over this situation to God. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Hedonisco: 10:20pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Another mumu bites the dust. Your problems are only just beginning to warm up. You never see anything. A man that can't stamp his feet from DAY 1, and ensure that the woman he does a huge favour by marrying is submissive, tolerant, and patient and loving like a real wife should, from DAY 1, is bound to suffer this kind of fate in marriage. Life out there (with the daily hustle) is hard enough. A man who knows what he is doing cannot and should never condone having to struggle with a useless jezebel at home in the name of marriage. Home is supposed to be a drama-free sanctuary of peace, quiet and relaxation. No more, no less. Since you have made the mistake already, the only thing left is to take drastic, corrective actions. Don't allow that bitch you call a 'wife', and the witch she calls a mother back into your house and into your life. There's nothing to discuss. There's no need for peace talks. I know you love 'your' children (do DNA first to be sure), but be willing to forfeit them to that bitch. Swallow a heartless pill and wash your hands off those kids and their mother. Demonstrate that you don't send them and don't want to see them, ever. Mean it. If she chooses to sue you to court for whatever or file for divorce. Take the lead and the initiative. Go rogue . Get a lawyer to take preemptive action. Look for a judge to bribe to turn the case on its head, annul the gaddem marriage, and ultimately (if you confirm that the kids are actually yours), revert paternity to you. There is no forgiveness or settlement with these kinds of damaged women. They are thoroughly and irreparably damaged. As the mumu that you currently are and previously were, you have made the mistake of marrying a damaged product that can't be repaired. But you're under no obligation to keep managing that damaged product for the rest of your life. Discard it, and start anew. Don't say I didn't warn you. 25 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by poweredcom(m): 10:20pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Oga OP Your wife is not a good woman to be sincere with you for you as a husband that can't touch her again she is not treating you well And again her mother is also a bad woman that is why she is so gle and why dis you allow her to stay with you guys she has been looking for ways to tell her daughter to leave you ..she caused the main havoc She and her mum are bad people 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Tajbol4splend(m): 10:20pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Aya buruku seeni sugbon ana buruku o seeni, ati aya buruku ati ana buruku, k'olorun maje k'ani kan ninu won 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Nobody: 10:20pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Righteousness89: Nothing is wrong, marrying a lady whose mother is a single mother is a dangerous venture. I did it and I am regretting it too. Any small thing she will pack out. OP. Make a report to the police about it and after that, don't call them, don't apologise, don't send money to them. They will come back to you 6 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Jabioro: 10:23pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Bluntly you have no wife,you have the worse mother in law.I will accused your wife of infidelity even though I don't know her..get a police involved just for you to know where about your lovely kids..She is not coming back, she has seen the other boxer ,other side,is more greener than your side and your acclaimed mother was aware, you are the only home dummy between both of them..If she wanted to leave let go..she will likely continue single mother lineage like her mother.. Don't ever force or beg her again..let her go please. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by samdaisi: 10:23pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
As a man how could you apology for the crime you don't commit,does that one make sense pls go and lodge the complaint at the police station first for kidnapping your children and settle for another reasonable and mature lady 2 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Dangrace01: 10:24pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
hotspec: Nawa oh. Well op your mother inlaw is a single mother. If she divorced her husband can you see the trend........ Always check family background before marriage. Her mother might even b jealous that her daughter is happily married and want to destroy her marriage but d said daughter wouldn't believe it. 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Ishilove: 10:24pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Who did you pay her bride price to? Report her to them. This your story get k-leg sha. You have demonized your wife here but it is possible of we hear her side our collective ears will tingle. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Nobody: 10:25pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
simplexity: Bro, develop a stone heart. Change the keys to your house and flex. They will come and beg you soon. 4 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Fearlez: 10:26pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Iamundisputed:self-righteous mumu |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by KingAzari: 10:26pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
When we tell you people to stay away from girls raised by single moms, they're very toxic, you won't hear. Now look atew. She'll end up, a single mom, like her mother and they'll indoctrinate your daughters to end up like them, toxic people, and the cycle will continue. 7 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Talkingoil(m): 10:27pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
How will a man use his hard earned money to marry a lady, the lady reproduces kids for him and then because of hearsay she runs out of her matrimonial home with his kids on advice from her mom(? First of all her mother is a bad influence to her, secondly the young lady in question does not know what marriage is, na wa o, The man should contact the elders from his family who would in turn contact the elders in the ladies family and settle whatever difference they have, he can even involve the pastor that joined them together at their wedding. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by AntiWailer: 10:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Lol Ur mother in law cursed u and Ur wife took Ur kids. They must have known that u are a Dumbo. 8 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Hndrrxxx(m): 10:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Bro your wife is not confident in her body yet, mostly happens after childbirth. Just wait fr some time before starting to touch her. Sometimes she can let you play with G* for a couple minutes in bed but when she says stop it's okay just stop try to understand the phase she's going through rn. I Know of a friend who waited fr almost a yr without sex nothing's wrong with wife simplexity: |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by skyhighweb(m): 10:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
why stress? is not that u been getting laid all this while let her carry are rubbish n go. wen shes tire she go come back by then only ask for the kids let her go b spending on her mother 5 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by yoged(m): 10:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Have never been a fan of allowing your mother in law to stay with us . I plainly told my wife . They can come to spend 2-3 days and leave . I don't care . All these mother inlaw use to abuse their opportunities. I trust my mom. We always beg to even visit us. After spending a day or hardly 2. She'll tell you she is going back home so we can enjoy ourself . . 4 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by olaarie(m): 10:29pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
U are a weak and dull man. Who dares take my kids out of my house? Is she and her family mad ni? 7 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Sterope(f): 10:30pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Eeyah . You should get your family involved Why is your MIL living in though? Your wife's mental health might not be the best, you should look into that if she is willing. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Farki: 10:31pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
I suspect your wife cheated on you and the kid is not yours. That would explain her overcompensating when she suspected you of cheating, your mother in law probably knows as well. Although this is just speculation on my part. I hope you get your kids back, if not try to move on, your wife sounds like a terror although we haven't heard her part of the story. 6 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Sterope(f): 10:31pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Some of you are very stupid. What should he have done? Beat them up or was he aware of what they were going to do? Everything is always masculinity competition with you. olaarie: 2 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Nobody: 10:33pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
She's toiling her mother's path. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by tonididdy(m): 10:33pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
simplexity:Sue you for what? Be happy you have kids bro... Enjoy the rest of your life. |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by SILVERLINES: 10:34pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
simplexity:her mother is single not a widow. She left her house to stay with you. The issue above are the foundation of your problem. Most single mothers in our society are wayward women, ever you imagine why a decent woman won't get married? it's their wayward lifestyle that ended them the other way. In the other hand it's your mother in-law that influence your wife. She living in your house give her every necessary apportuniy to whisper words to her daughter's ears. Now, hurry up and report the matter to the appropriate authorities. You shouldn't asked for our consent here before you know the right thing to do. 5 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by vasco01(m): 10:34pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
This is the reason why some men don't like there wife going back to school after marriage Because according to your story that's where the problem started You send your wife back to school after marriage and she went there to see a free life to live that she cannot enjoy as a married woman still looking young No wonder she denied you puna Secondly is when she started working earning money and as at that time she was the one that invited the mother to come stay with you guys Thirdly your wife is seeing someone else that has been taking care of her and her mom more than you that's why she is too suspicious of you having affairs outside in other to use against you Lastly my guy you are not a man that is why. And the end of your wife and her mom will be in tears but I pity your innocent children Who knows wether you are there real father sef 11 Likes |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by Jorge91: 10:36pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
Just make sure u are always turning up for ur kids. Hit the street and find a sweet young lady to blow off some steam, never let a lady stress u. 1 Like |
Re: My Worst Fear Finally Happened, Please Help by demoBaba: 10:36pm On Jun 23, 2020 |
What did you expect when you married from single mum home, my brother trying looking for alternative you don't have wife even you settle this matter today except big one tomorrow, I will advise you don't apologize of you didn't do. Most expecially don't allow her mum more than three days in your house again. 1 Like |
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