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My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Marks112: 7:04am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Hi everyone,my mom is a celestial woman so she believes in all these things She asked 4pastors ,1said she’s okay,others said no But the thing is I am exhausted,I can’t start all over again and I love her and she loves me very She’s not your average Nigerian girl that loves money I have just been thinking a lot ,cos I don’t even know what could happen in future that will make the pastors say no And the main thing here now is now that my mom has asked these people she will never support this marriage,how do I convince her? And I can’t break up with my gf she has been with me through a lot ..I just tire Been praying to God that if she’s not for me she should be the one to break up or Bleep up I don’t want to hurt her |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by 1bunne4lif(m): 7:05am On Aug 02, 2020 |
LIKE SERIOUSLY? |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by DICKstractor: 7:10am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Hmm |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Lcf69(m): 7:12am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Why? Bc,he created you and owns your life now as in God? My dear,you better unslave urself before U go back to your creator and realise that,you never ever lived your God giving life on Earth...... PINNED. 1 Like |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by extol1(m): 7:18am On Aug 02, 2020 |
this is a very big cross that only you can carry |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by gasparpisciotta: 7:18am On Aug 02, 2020 |
If 4 pastors were consulted and only one said she’s okay, that tells you something about the veracity of the message they claim to receive. Since you are still confused consult a ifa priest to determine which one of the pastors is right But bros o, if una meet for yankee and both of you are ready, will you be going this route of testing testing before you decide? |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Marks112: 7:26am On Aug 02, 2020 |
gasparpisciotta:Na yankee we Dey ,na my mom Dey ask everybody ![]() |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Nobody: 7:27am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Marks112:I would be sincere with you and say the truth, it might hurt you, I apologize ahead. It is true that we are to honor and obey our parents, but you need to understand that when it comes to spiritual matters(not religion - blindfold) , You are to take up your sword by yourself because you are already a Man and not a child. You need to understand most pastors use what is called familiar spirits, and when they give messages and you accept, its like you sealing the message. They might decieve our parents and ancestors, but you should refuse to be decieved. I am sorry to say that most pastors and so called men of God are herbalist holding bible(same as other religion leaders, most of them). Many are not aware. They have nothing with the True Living Elohim (God),. It's your future, If you want answers from your maker, You ask Him yourself and not let some men who have nothing to do with The Most High gamble your future for you. Seek your Maker, surrender your heart to Him. Follow His Ways(Holiness), hunger for Him, Fast and pray, Read His words. You will hear from your maker yourself. We are created to have intimate relationship with our Father, not to be decieved by religions and religion leaders. If she's yours, she will support your new life style, if she's not, she will flee. Don't be deceived by your heart and emotions. I didn't say start going to one church or go and meet one pastor. The question is are you ready to sacrifice pleasures for relationship with your Maker? Shalom All Praises To The Most High 3 Likes |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Mihzwhitesutana(f): 7:38am On Aug 02, 2020 |
I will advise you pray over it yourself and let the spirit of God minister to you. Marrying someone your parents don't approve on moral and family/religious grounds is different from marrying who your parents don't approve spiritually. You hold the final decision on the spiritual aspect of your life. Don't let anyone lead you wrongly |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Marks112: 7:45am On Aug 02, 2020 |
EliteBiz:Thank you |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by potent5(m): 7:55am On Aug 02, 2020 |
You are not serious about marriage yet. When you are ready you know what to do. Why didn't you take the poor girl to your mother for the so-called spiritual consultation before you started dating her? Now you are looking for excuse to abandon her. Nonsense Marks112: |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by ayenale1(m): 8:17am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Counter your mom that you have contacted 5 pastors, 3 alfaz and they all said she's the one you should marry that how i overcome my own challenge and i thank God for that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Nobody: 9:03am On Aug 02, 2020 |
He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing................ Do you know that God can talk to you and show you things too? Jer 33:3 Go and seek His opinion. Wisdom is profitable to direct |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by gasparpisciotta: 10:09am On Aug 02, 2020 |
Marks112: Marriage is a more practical affair than a spiritual assignment one. I wonder why you letting your mum decide for you. |
Re: My Pastor Told Me Not To Marry The Person I’m Dating by Adedotguy: 10:53am On Aug 02, 2020 |
EliteBiz: Nice advice here. Your personal conviction of her not emotions or feelings. God speaks to everyone but we do not listen. 1 Like |
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