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Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 11:03pm On Feb 17, 2011 |
D-sense: I can't stand you. Seriously, I have never had an abortion so I can't comment on the pain of abortion but I do know women who had abortions and according to them it is a nightmare. I can only imagine. But if you want to think I did, oh well. You should know I am very honest and I have no problem keeping it real. But I guess you don't know me well. I still lobs you. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Dsense(m): 11:10pm On Feb 17, 2011 |
sO YOU BELIEVE THE POO I'VE BEEN SAYING WAY LONG? kidding you sweetie . . .However i got no prb with girls that had abortion(s) ,My life is very simple.Subsidiary to that,i'm not going to marry cause i need children but a companion,So it's never a biggy to me.I knw other pple will have different views over this .But that's their lives and this is mine. My current girl had abortion 3 times and my love increases for her every sec,So it;s not my cup of tea . . .I enjoy my life sweetie. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Spclst900: 11:35pm On Feb 17, 2011 |
op should i know abt it, NO WAY. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 12:06am On Feb 18, 2011 |
D-sense: You better hope when you do knocked her up that she don't abort LIL DSENSY. I still can't stand you, but I lobs you. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by koolchicco: 12:33am On Feb 18, 2011 |
@OP There's nothing wrong with that. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Dsense(m): 3:15am On Feb 18, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:LOOOL She won't . . . .You can;t stand me? I can't stand you too witch |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 3:57am On Feb 18, 2011 |
You don't know that Dsense. That is fine. I can handle you can't stand me but I got a bigger pull on you. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Dsense(m): 4:07am On Feb 18, 2011 |
Don't spoil me . . . .Pervert |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 4:10am On Feb 18, 2011 |
I am a master seductress. But, since you asked nicely I won't corrupt you. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Dsense(m): 4:13am On Feb 18, 2011 |
I know you are,You fortunately chose the right field . . .Hope you practice it with your students sometimes |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 4:28am On Feb 18, 2011 |
My students are happy and pays on time. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Dsense(m): 4:50am On Feb 18, 2011 |
If they don't pay,What happens? , . . . .Don't lie ooo |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Nobody: 4:56am On Feb 18, 2011 |
Lmao @ Chima explaining her views on the issue only for d-sense to say: "Are you denying your past?" but in all seriousness, I do not know what it is like to have an abortion. I am neither for or against as I am pro-choice. I do know women who have and neither of them wish to relive the experience or talk about it so I imagine the emotional aspect of it all is overwhelming. I pray to God that I am never to have to do such a thing (to my baby and myself) regardless if it is about choosing my life or my baby's or in the matter of conceiving as a result of violation. I pray it never happens. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Dsense(m): 5:01am On Feb 18, 2011 |
Amennnnnnnnn!!! ***Moves close to her** So what happened to the one the guy in your street planted in you years ago? . . . . .Don't lie |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 5:39am On Feb 18, 2011 |
D-sense: Don't pay me and see. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 5:41am On Feb 18, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin: Hey sis! Amen! I wouldn't even wish that on my worst enemy. Thanks for saving me from that rapist in Egypt! He has a funny name------[size=2pt]Dsense[/size] |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Dsense(m): 6:03am On Feb 18, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima:Ogunfe . . .I caught you pervert Mrs.Chima:Would you violate me if i don't . . . .? |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by roymary: 12:35pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
OMG!!! We marry them on a daily basis! 90% of these ladies had abortion at some points. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 2:27pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
You confessing? |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
@poster as a firm believer in abortion, i would say go for it IF she is the kind of person you desire in your life. that abortion should be a sign to you that she made some tough decisions in her life and that she aint a virgin any longer, lol! if you value child bearing as a reason to marry her, i suggest you make sure that she can still have kids since Nigerian bush doctors seems to be butchers in that area. but then, since abortion is illegal in 9ja, go figure who does these ops. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 2:55pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
DUH. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Nobody: 5:19pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: lmao@ Mr.Brownjay. I didn't knw you supported abortion tho, interesting. also you have a point that she should "make sure that she can still have kids", because regardless if the performer of the abortion is Nigerian (bush doctor or official) or from a "First world country", the point is abortion can also potentially be "mal practiced" and the woman/girl can risk losing the ability to have children, should something go wrong. Just a lil input lol. Ok I'm done preaching |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by koolchicco: 5:28pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
85% of the women here have had abortion anyways. Problem is : How can we know/tell who's done it and who hasn't Erm, tough cookie that is! |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Nobody: 5:37pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
^^^^ oh yeah I have had my fair share of abortion clinics (no shame in my game) As for my comment about the 9ja bush docs, its simply because 90% of abortions in 9ja are illegal ones thus performed by quack doctor thus the high amount of death and butchery. Thanks to NL, I got educated on the matter. . . . . Btw I haven't heard of someone dying of an abortion in Europe, but if it ever happens, its one in a million. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 5:40pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
If you can't tell who had an abortion and who didn't how can you even come up with a percentage? That sound like some fuckery to me. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by deniyor: 5:45pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
Why not? She is a human being like any other girl. Leave the past where it belongs - in the past. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Nobody: 5:49pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
MRbrownJAY: I feel you. See I learn something new about NLders/Nigeria everyday. lol @Deniyor excellent point. koolchicco: All I know is, I am part of the 15% that hasn't. @ Chima fuckery you say that too? |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by koolchicco: 5:52pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
Mrs.Chima: I know you've had a few abortion(s) previously, but, must you shove it down my throat? Haba! |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by MrsChima(f): 5:53pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
Yes, girl! I need to say it often because it a whole lots of fuckery going on in here! Chicco, I have seen your wife at the abortion clinic and she was walking away with after care bag and a big bandage on her stomach and legs. OOps. |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by koolchicco: 5:53pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
MzD@rkSkin: |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by Nobody: 5:55pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
I try not to judge people by their past, lest I come under judgement myself. But certain things one must consider and see if it lines up with your own destiny, especially if it is till death do you part. Some abortions brutalize the reproductive system of women, finding themselves unable to birth again (unless god intervenes). I imagine an equally thought provoking, [b]slightly [/b]similar, but mostly highly over-exxagerated question asked to the ladies. "Can you marry a guy who lost his balls in some sort of accident?" |
Re: Can You Marry A Girl That Has Had An Abortion? by UyiIredia(m): 5:55pm On Feb 18, 2011 |
lemme state again i do not support abortion >>> but I see nothing wrong with marrying a lady that has previously had abortion >>> is abortion the new criteria for choosing a marriage partner CAVEAT FOR DUMBOS : the above question is a rhetoric one |
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