On the HBP the wife has developed,

Hope its the financial, emotional and domestic stress that caused this HBP.

Op you do not want a medical emergency in your hands, you guys should sort out the HBP abeg ooo.

You are depressed she has HBP not a good combination.

You guys should treat all these issues and come together to at least talk about it.

I doubt a sensible human will compare and contrast if she wasn't fed with some phony rich man bullshits while dating.
Now, with her expectations crumbling,high blood pressure follows.

Give us the whole story sir.

HarunaWest:
Women only like successful men even in marriage... Hmmmn.
Most Nigerian women won't contribute their effort, yet they like to reap from where they did not sow. If she doesn't wana have a chit chat, leave her alone.. Continue your hustle shikena. When things get better, you sef form Jagaban for her. That time you will sleep in the kitchen sef, na she go run after you.
I hate nonsense.

You should wait to hear from the woman first before concluding. If the wife was the one complaining, you guys would always want to hear from the man first.