25omega:

Are you kidding ^^^ i hope so

poster your wife and her family knew you before you all got married so if nothing has changed you need to be more assertive and speak up for yourself. if they are disrespecting you it must be that you are broke as a joke and they feed your family of you live under their roof. even if that was the case they have no right to talk recless to you so speak up. you dont have to live up to their expectation you only have to live up to taking care of your family

dayokanu:

Guess who paid for the house?

ifyalways:

@Jenny,lol Fowl nyash don open  
@OP,Like AlmondJoy once said,If you must lie _{wholly or partly} on NLD,co-ordinate and arrange your lies well,make sure u adorn the lies with strong bullet-proof.  
Anyways,Its obvious u have financial and marital problems.Dust up urself and face the challenges squarely.

This explains it

Naija women would make your life horrible when you dont have a job. Why not just travel to another place and try to get any kind of job even if na hustling job. Free all those your wife and her family.

dayokanu:

Guess who paid for the house?

ahhhh.who did? the in-laws? didnt see dat in his post,   

OP, go find job na.what is your role as the man of the house if u cant provide for your family? watch football and sleep ?

dayokanu:

This explains it

Naija women would make your life horrible when you dont have a job. Why not just travel to another place and try to get any kind of job even if na hustling job. Free all those your wife and her family.

N.B: Guy you sef no get job and you still get liver to give person belle. I bow for you o

@dayo,since the guy no get job,im go fork na.    

N.B: Guy you sef no get job and you still get liver to give person belle. I bow for you o

kisskriss:

really sad 

Their last born even said i was rude for talking to my wife quietly while she was right there.

I begged my wife to tell her mother(my wife doesn't want to tell her for unknown reason and i told her it'll be unfair not to inform her about it) that she was pregnant with our second baby only for her mother to ask her if that is next thing for her to do while i was standing there.i was shocked cos i ve never complained of any financial problem to her before.

Her younger sister gave my wife number to her past toaster or whatever is being called

I don't know what to do,i m really confused about this my in-laws.

I can go on and on

d bigrod:

ahhhh.who did? the inlaws? didnt see dat in his post,   

OP, go find job na.what is your role as the man of the house if u cant provide for your family? watch football and sleep ?
@dayo,since the guy no get job,im go fork na.    

LeoMax:

1. It is wrong for you and your in-laws to stay together, its breeds disrespect especially when you are broke.
2. Its wrong to impregnate your wife when you havent got a job, its breed macro poverty and extension of burden.

Solution:
Be creative, stop hoping on jobs cos there are no jobs. Get a skill, that will generate income.
Leave the house for above and never come back until you got money
Repeat above until you succeed.

*Cougar*:

ban all of them from entering your house. you have paid her bride-price. . . .what is their business again in what you do under your roof. it's time to be a man and take some drastic actions. in-laws that don't respect themselves should be locked down.

dayokanu:

Ask the OP who paid for the house or who is paying the rents

hercules07:

@Cougar

Landlord no dey kick person out for hin house go squat with in law? Pray that you do not lose your job o.

*Cougar*:

it has to be his house. he couldn't have married in the house of his in-laws.

*Cougar*:

squat with my in-law? it can never happen. squat with which in-law? who dem be? i no get family?

dayokanu:

How does a jobless man pay rents? Unless he is living in Section 8 house.

Either he lives with the inlaws, The inlaws paid for the house or the inlaws know that their daughter is the one paying for the house.

dayokanu:

Rather than stay with my inlaws, I would rather stay with my family and friends in "Boys house" style

hercules07:

@Dayo

Stay with your family? If your wife no gree with your family nko, if it is cat and mouse between them, you will have no choice than to eat humble pie and stay with the inlaws (no coming home late o, remember it is not your house), abi you want to put no work wahala on top of wife and family wahala (one of them will kill you).

*Cougar*:

he used to have a job until he lost it - this means he had a roof over his head till he got sacked. even if the in-laws know their daughter is the one now paying for the house, it still gives them no right to disrespect him. he is the head of that house and he should take charge before things get awry.

i will move to my father's house rather than stay with in-laws. there should be some sort of pride and dignity in whatever a man is doing.

hercules07:

@Dayo

Stay with your family? If your wife no gree with your family nko, if it is cat and mouse between them, you will have no choice than to eat humble pie and stay with the inlaws (no coming home late o, remember it is not your house), abi you want to put no work wahala on top of wife and family wahala (one of them will kill you).

hercules07:

Cougar

You are going through the worse by staying with the in-laws, ol boy stoop to conquer o, beggars can not be choosers o, just pray you have a nice wife who understands or else.

dayokanu:

It doesnt work that way. When a man is not in financial control a lot of "soap go dey rub am". When your wife is the one paying the rent they would tell you the wife needs to start wearing trouser and you tying wrapper.

Atimes finances dey get k-leg  but for me I would stay anywhere but with my inlaws.
Stay with inlaws for inlaw house?  So when you dey hump your wife her family go come knock say "Bros all the energy wey you suppose take find work, na him you wan take injure our daughter"  

dayokanu:

I think it would be wise to confirm if the house is his own. Does he own it or pay the rents?

If not then he is handicapped