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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Pancakeey(f): 5:01pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Hello virtuoswoman, I just want you to know that everything would be fine in the end. And if it’s not fine, it’s not the end yet. I know most people would say pray about it and yes you should but then why not go physical too. It’s obvious your husband has a drinking problem that can’t be solved by just scolding him. Take him to a rehabilitation center. There are drugs and injections they give to people who are addicted to alcohol and other drugs. This injections reduces the urge to take alcohol and when it wears off your husband might go back to drinking but be consistent, with time it’ll be better just see a doctor. Plus try to be nice, there should be a reasonable reward for anytime he fights the urge to drink. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by CHoccolaTE: 5:13pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Zither: Yawn This your explanation is not part of what he wrote, he only said she should be financially independent of her husband so that he will not bluff her talk. You or your friend that you wrote this post to defend should quote the place where she said she is depending or him or that his bluff is because of her dependence. 6 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by naija4life247: 5:25pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax: This one is not mentally balanced. I mean, e don dey kolo 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by abbasajao(m): 5:26pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:This is a very intelligent comment. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by naija4life247: 5:27pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
MhisTahrah: He has no sense, how then can his post make sense? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by bukatyne(f): 5:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Dayoebe: No, she is reinforcing what she wants to change. Remember her husband can somehow control himself at home. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by virtuouswoman77(f): 5:37pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Pancakeey:thanks is there such rehab center in Lagos if any pls do mention 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Pancakeey(f): 5:44pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:it’s called A & D alcohol and drug rehabilitation center. Try calling them 1 Like
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by cococandy(f): 6:14pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Yep let’s find a way to blame her for his alcoholism UDUJ: 5 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by cococandy(f): 6:20pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: Alcohol dependence is a disease much like hypertension. You can’t discuss it away by heart to heart conversations and changing your attitude. Prayers won’t cure it. Family meeting won’t cure it. It’s in the brain. He needs professional therapy and a detox program managed in a competent facility. When he comes out clean, no guarantees he won’t go back to it but that’s when all that heart to heart interventions etc might be helpful. To remind him why he doesn’t want to go back to it. While he’s still in his addicted state, the brain wants what it wants and it can’t be talked away. 9 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 6:20pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Chai... Madam, the Lord is your strength. All I can say is, pray. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by UDUJ(m): 6:21pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
cococandy: I knew my dear Cococandy will only pick that piece out of the various suggestions I gave. I had to explore all possible causes. Have a lovely week ahead |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by cococandy(f): 6:24pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
UDUJ:why not? 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by BabbanBura(m): 6:51pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18: Excellent but sadly irrelevant to her question and therefore useless to her. Pls prefer help on how to solve this issue! 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by IamD18: 9:25pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
bukatyne:I like your person. I honestly like your person. I just followed you. 3 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by IamD18: 9:28pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Earnonline9: 10:03pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Hmmm |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by InvertedHammer: 10:07pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:/ Post his pictures and phone number so that we can call and tell him to stop drinking and messing the bed up with urine. I hope this solves your problem. Was he drinking before you married him? If yes, it is your cross. Carry it. If No. Find out how you drove him to alcoholism. You may not be virtuous after all. / |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Teeboi56: 10:07pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:Na for better for worst Or divorce him lobataan |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Joshmanuel10(m): 10:08pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:600years blessing for you |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Gbonka(m): 10:08pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
You can't get any good advise here. Only prayer can help you |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by CapitalBank: 10:09pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: Did you not see this before u married him? Oh, u thought u could change him? |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Villagemeat: 10:10pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
MhisTahrah:Because you know nothing |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by franchasng: 10:10pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:Remove the bolded and no woman will wan to go into any relationship 4 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Belcon(m): 10:12pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Teach him a life lesson in parable when he is drunk also include sleeping dose in his meal and take him to a mortuary when he wakes up in there guess that will reset his brain ..but make a proper plan for this with cash and also talking down the attendant at the mortuary as per your plans ...please ... |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by bukatyne(f): 10:13pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18: Thank you. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Rashman578(m): 10:13pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax: Very bad advice, an eye for an eye makes the whole world blind! |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by franchasng: 10:14pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Alcohol, smoking, gambling and clubbing are the bad male habits I was lucky to escape from; but u see the other one they do in the oza room, na only Jah go save me 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by bluefilm: 10:14pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18: As if you are perfect yourself. Nonsense. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by techmo(m): 10:15pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: You must get him to a rehab , alcohol addiction is like other addiction and must be treated at a real rehab Drinking alcohol isn't the problem here, but getting so drunk and bed wetting then he needs clinical assistance to quickly stop his addiction Famous people have gone for Alcohol rehab and treatment including Governor Sanwo Olu, and it worked . 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Lastmankc(m): 10:15pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax:Start cheating? Advice from the pit of hell |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by patani(m): 10:15pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax: Obviously, you are a small piking and if you an adult you lack understanding of marriage |
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