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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by lilmax(m): 11:01pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Fedupman: And God doesn't hate drunkenness? |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by silverkings: 11:01pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Ishilove:Leave Righteousness89 alone. Drop your own advice and move on. Leave the Young man alone. We all have right to speech here 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by samnaija: 11:02pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Ishilove:My sister I hope you can count, majority of the post and response has one thing you the most prayer. People are advicing on prayers, but it is righteous you want to pick on.. keep it up . God is watching... Op bless add prayers in everything you do.... 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by DozieInc(m): 11:05pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Bitcoinomy(m): 11:05pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:This is bad, there must be moderation in all. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by cooltola(m): 11:05pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Pratical solution Operational tough love 1, Where is he getting his money? Who is sponsoring his addiction? So first thing is to cut all money and warns his sponsors 2.Rehab for alcohol addiction or you threatened to walk out from the marriage 3. Read more on alcohol addictions and way you can stop being a co dependent. 4. Stay your course by dealing with your husband.e.g stop rewarding bad behaviours. 5. Be praying |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Sammyblack87: 11:06pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77:no be ordinary thing my sister... God go help you |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by oilygirl: 11:06pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
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Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by oilygirl: 11:08pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Righteousness89:[b][/b] ojun50:There are already numerous satellites in rhe orbit and still not one person has successfully launched into God assuming his location is up there.. Did she mention that the foundation of the house is being threatened by erosion and leaving gaps? Which one is stand in the gap? After she has prayed then what next? She shared a story about her husband who's a drunk and your suggestion is for to turn a anew as it could be the tonic. Are you suggestion she becomes a drunkard. Your epistle is mind boggling! |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Lexusgs430: 11:10pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: 2 options only would make him re-evaluate his drinking habits...... 1 - Therapy 2 - Divorce..... 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Dreyton36: 11:16pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
PERSON WEY WAHALA NAKED FOLLOW NO THEY USE ENGLISH PRAY my dear, just locate the place where he drinks those alcohol Arrange down three strong men, when he's out of the drinking joint and probably missing his legs , tell those men to guide him inside the car which you guys must've parked down Drive him to the nearest cemetery , give the cemetery guard a token to watch after him and explain everything to him he'll understand My dear when he wakes up from a tiled grave and he must've even urinated on top of the grave , I bet you he'll quit alcohol 100% Even coke sef , it's only on Christmas day he'll be taking it Thank me later |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Toks2008(m): 11:20pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: Pray and fast. it works |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by cassyrooy(m): 11:22pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:You're exceptional with your comment. I love it. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 11:23pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
8 pages of advice ... yet I know you have found NO ANSWER. You know why? You are asking the wrong audience. Get on your knees. Tell God that marriage as ordained by Him is for life. You want to stand by His words because He hates divorse. Then place your husband's problem on Him. When He said " come to me all ye that labour and are heavy laden" this what He meant. Now, no mistakes ... it wont happen as a magic, but trust me He will pick him up from the messy clay and take the shame of your family. Don't come to thank me, just give alk glory to God. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Galaticos444: 11:24pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
LadySarah:best advice so far but when we advise women to try and b independent dey won't understand,a man will think twice b4 misbehaving wen he knows his wife doesn't need him 4survival |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 11:26pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:Word. Also add to this prayerfulness and relationship with Jesus Christ. May God open the eyes of the unmarried not to make the silly mistakes our predecessors in marriages have made. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 11:28pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax:Why do people give such terrible advice. Please OP don't ever listen to this. Go and pray and report him to a relative close or someone he respects a lot. So that the person can talk to him. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by jaxxy(m): 11:28pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: U married a drunk or Smtn close to that. It’s a addictive habit and a bad one. If he can’t help himself after much talking to he needs rehab asin professional help. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by JIMMY1393: 11:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18: You deserve an award |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 11:30pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
lilmax:You don't have sense |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Gordieshegz(m): 11:32pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: You may need to see a primary physician who will prescribe a certain drug for you. Give him to drink whenever he is drunk. He will hate alcohol forever. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 11:33pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: If he wasn't like this before marriage, and he became like this later, I think something went wrong along the way. It is either he was pretending during courtship and during the early years of marriage or something went wrong. If something wen wrong, you need to find what went wrong and help him out |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by JIMMY1393: 11:33pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
virtuouswoman77: Only 9 months and you guys didn't live together beforehand? Ha why won't there be problem |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Sixfeetbelle: 11:34pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
bukatyne: What is your exact aim with this comment? You see what she pointed out play out everyday on this forum and yet you chose to act ignorant? 2 Likes |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by Nobody: 11:37pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:This is the only reasonable comment you have made since you signed up on this platform. Well said. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by JIMMY1393: 11:37pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
GboyegaD: Which one is psychiatric therapy na? The husband is not mad nor insane...it's psychological therapy/rehab he needs |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by kevotek1000(m): 11:37pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Addiction is a serious issue and it's not something one can stop at once. Madam you need God, meanwhile in your husband normal state engage him in a peaceful conversation... I believe he will change for the better, prayer still works. |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by micflo28(m): 11:39pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
Do you give him rest of mind to start with. I will love to hear his side of the story. Why not engaging more to use his money to do productive things instead of using it to drink. Confer with his friends to talk to him out of this as they may have a major influence on him. Then you must make his home peaceful and loving and make consistent effort to cook his favorite meals daily even if he doesn't bring much for feeding. This is to keep him at home and enable him channel the money he uses to drink into the family and meaningful ventures. Lastly, dress and smell good and don't deny him sex. Remember to pray for your home ultimately. 1 Like |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by bubbychis(m): 11:39pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
IamD18:you mean those without those qualities you mentioned should not marry.. Everything in life is a battle let her fight her way out... The husband needs prayers and somebody he respects to talk to him |
Re: Help My Husband Lacks Self Control by SeriouslySense(m): 11:41pm On Oct 04, 2020 |
I just had to stop my relationship because of Genotype Issue, i don't want my children to be Sick IamD18: |
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