Why do you daft Nigerian men think throwing out ‘menopause’ is an insult to women? I just blame illiteracy. It’s not y’all’s fault.

IDENNAA:


Single dads are not saddled with the responsibility of raising kids because they usually assign that responsibility to women....lmao. Also, guys don't go around using their kids to beg. Shebi Chimamanda gave taught you to challenge men pound for pound....go back to your nursing station and stop taking pictures like a newly graduated RN.

Cc. KanwuliaExtra

By ,the way I am patiently waiting for when you will hit menopause...lol

PharmaGirl:
Your opinion Reno.
If that's what you believe, then its fine.

But remember, they didn't impregnate themselves.

So while you're giving reasons on why you won't help 'deliberate single moms', don't you think it'd be nice if you also preached to the men who impregnated them?

Tell them to carry their cross honorably. Tell them to provide for their kids so their kids' moms will stop running to your TL, begging for money.

Receive sense.

That is not the duty of Reno.
The lady in question should be the one to hold the man responsible.

Did the lady informed Reno when she was busy fucking the man.

Zenzu01:


Yes, everyone must take responsibility for their actions and if you don't want to help, it's fine but don't rub it on their faces.

Shut up there

I like you opinion,90%of single mum are the cause of it,they depend on man,so they should face the consequence

tarboshi:
Children of single mothers are angry

He's so fvcking right

KanwuliaExtra:
Your opinion sir.
I blame the single moms who asked you for help in the first place.

Don’t help “single dads” either.

Calotti the Calo

Mama Garland Texas, I don miss you o. Hahahahaha.

Shebi you don become single mom now abi

Na joke I dey joke o

Making love and having sex are two different things.
Making love is for two people who are in love,who care for each other and have a lot in common.
While Having sex is just the physical process of releasing sexual tension between two consenting adult..

The problem is,most people continue confusing making live to having sex.worse,most children are born out of having sex and not making love hence why most men simply reject them. Having sex is just mating as dogs does with bitches (female dogs),the puppies born are the bitches responsibilities and not the dogs. If you mean to have sex,go ahead and have it,enjoy.Do not bring into it more than was bargained for.but if you mean to make love do it with someone you love and cares for someone who loves you and cares about you.that way you are safe no matter what result out of that union.

negbike:
Why do you daft Nigerian men think throwing out ‘menopause’ is an insult to women? I just blame illiteracy. It’s not y’all’s fault.

badomiciaga:
another single mother

Hahaha no a married man with 5 boys who is a committed follower of Christ. When Reno was writing his papal missive did he omit to read about the woman who annointed Jesus head with oil, the woman caught in adultery or further back in Joshua, the prostitute Rahab or Tamar who slept with her father in law.

Reno's moralising show Reno as a cruel caricature of a believer. I wish he and his followers the best.

Finchmgh:


Receive sense.

That is not the duty of Reno.
The lady in question should be the one to hold the man responsible.

Did the lady informed Reno when she was busy fucking the man.

Reno spoke the bitter truth. Seriously, girls, after doing something stupid deliberately, have a way of blackmailing guys emotionally when they start seeing consequences. Our girls need to know that everything that has front has back. You're a girl doesn't mean you can do anything you want and get away, you're a girl doesn't mean everything will always go well for you if you can't cope with a problem, avoid it before it gets too late. They should stop comparing themselves with guys... if marriage is sweet, you'll enjoy it more than the man and if marriage is bitter, you'll suffer it more than your man because marriage is security for women at the expense of a man's freedom. So why don't you take life more seriously than even we guys and aim for the best? Am not judging though but dignity and pride among our women should be taken more seriously.

His shin sha.
Abi somebori don loot the colour colour?

Midas01:
Exactly... Nigerian men mostly have that thought process, advicing women to marry as virgins while not telling men to do the same. Women that get pregnant outside wedlock are scorned while the likes of wizkid, davido with multiple babymamas are applauded.

Lmao...black men and thinking with their d!!cks.

wetin i do nairalanders

PharmaGirl:
Your opinion Reno.
If that's what you believe, then its fine.

But remember, they didn't impregnate themselves.

So while you're giving reasons on why you won't help 'deliberate single moms', don't you think it'd be nice if you also preached to the men who impregnated them?

Tell them to carry their cross honorably. Tell them to provide for their kids so their kids' moms will stop running to your TL, begging for money.

If they didn't open their legs would they have become single moms? This single mom thing is gradually becoming a norm in the southern Nigerian Christian society and it's not nice at all.

In short helping someone just because she's a single mom is like tacitly supporting premarital sex, a sin which pastors hardly emphasize so now it seems normal to have it and l know Christians in this abnormal Nigerian society will start bashing Reno for his perfect stand but I'm with Reno on this one 100%

uboma:



Bitter truth indeed!


Not all single mothers led a wayward life.

There are some ladies who are victims of sexual violence and choose not to abort the resultant pregnancies.


There are also some ladies who got thoroughly deceived by the men who promised them heaven and earth. Some even got married but the men abandoned them.

Y would human being promise u Haven on Earth n u believe. Common #2000 I give person way promise say him go give me 2mao till today him never give me n is almost a year.
I don't know y some ladies like make de promise Dem. If u promise Dem go open one tym . If u knw promise Dem go close dere legs. I came to realize dat de ladies u promise stuff to is easily laid than de one u de give instantly

Zenzu01:
I think your God should also kill you for all those lies you've said.

I believe if you were in their shoes, you would have done worse.

Don't judge others because their sins are different from yours.

Modified.

For those quoting me, I'm not saying that he must help them, it is his choice but he should not use their situation to mock them or rub it on their faces because he doesn't know the whole story.

My mom raised us like a single mom not because she doesn't have a husband or we didn't stay with our father. He just didn't care...

People who reason like you are part of why Christianity is now adulterated.

Meanwhile, a girl who is careless enough to have sex with a man she knows she is not compatible with should bear the cross of her carelessness, not Reno. I've met girls who l knew l wasn't compatible with from the start and made efforts to avoid them but those same girls tried all they could for me to just have sex with them, when they knew also that we were not compatible. Who would you blame for their single motherhood if they eventually had a baby by me due to superiority of their attack to my defence? Me or them. #I'mWithReno

KanwuliaExtra:
Your opinion sir.
I blame the single moms who asked you for help in the first place.

Don’t help “single dads” either.

Has any single dad asked you for money citing the fact that he's a single dad so you would feel pity and give before? Citing singlemomhood is women's area of specialisation, always playing the victim card even if they orchestrated their misfortune.

This is not to say it's always all their fault cos some guys can be very manipulative, but a well trained girl will hardly fall for such manipulations. The woes or burdens of such poorly trained ones should be shouldered by their parents or guardians for poor parenting, not Reno.

helinues:
Oga Reno, sense far from this your post fa

It would have been better if you went to a private place to expose your ignorance

uboma:



Bitter truth indeed!


Not all single mothers led a wayward life.

There are some ladies who are victims of sexual violence and choose not to abort the resultant pregnancies.


There are also some ladies who got thoroughly deceived by the men who promised them heaven and earth. Some even got married but the men abandoned them.

If they behaved well wouldn't they be the ones the men would stick with? If they were careful enough, wouldn't they see through the deceit of the men? For every girl that gets dumped, the handwriting had been on the wall. They only chose to act as if they didn't see it, except they are just plain stupid

As for the genuinely raped ones who chose to keep the babies, their case is different

PharmaGirl:
Your opinion Reno.
If that's what you believe, then its fine.

But remember, they didn't impregnate themselves.

So while you're giving reasons on why you won't help 'deliberate single moms', don't you think it'd be nice if you also preached to the men who impregnated them?

Tell them to carry their cross honorably. Tell them to provide for their kids so their kids' moms will stop running to your TL, begging for money.

Since you are so concerned his choice of charity work, you can talk to the "slay men" on his behalf.

PharmaGirl:
Your opinion Reno.
If that's what you believe, then its fine.

But remember, they didn't impregnate themselves.

So while you're giving reasons on why you won't help 'deliberate single moms', don't you think it'd be nice if you also preached to the men who impregnated them?

Tell them to carry their cross honorably. Tell them to provide for their kids so their kids' moms will stop running to your TL, begging for money.

You women don't like truth. That is what Reno is saying. Go to your baby daddy for assistance simple.when girls are young and prime of their beauty, they feel, the world revved around their ass and say no romance without finance. When they get used pregnate and dumped, they remember Philosophy, God and nice guys

IJOBA2:
WILL YOU KEEP KWAYET THERE. THEY WERE FORCES TO OPEN THEIR LEGS AT GUN POINT

Do you know some girls were raped through no fault of theirs and pregnancy resulted? Have you not heard virgin or even non virgin who got raped once and pregnancy resulted. Do you know what's like to live in a land or area filled with trouble. Why are we talking too much sef. What of the girls who were taken away by Boko Haram and made sex slaves? What of women who man marry and later run away to the abroad then marry there for papers and leave wife and children alone for decades. I personally know of 2 cases like this.

Let us be careful please. There are exceptions to every rule. Life can throw people curve balls. Some ladies do it on purpose but some others stumble upon hard circumstances . Let us be gentle with our words

It's obvious he was speaking of Baby Mama's here not Legit single parents from matrimony

Zenzu01:
I think your God should also kill you for all those lies you've said.

I believe if you were in their shoes, you would have done worse.

Don't judge others because their sins are different from yours.

Modified.

For those quoting me, I'm not saying that he must help them, it is his choice but he should not use their situation to mock them or rub it on their faces because he doesn't know the whole story.

My mom raised us like a single mom not because she doesn't have a husband or we didn't stay with our father. He just didn't care...

Joker09:

Exactly. Same women that wouldn't look their way before they got pregnant. Same women that go for d highest bidders until highest bidders use and dump them.

That's just it. They always had their chance to choose the responsible guy, but no. They'll always make the wrong choice and expect another person to pay for it in the name of help.
I don't know how the men folk degraded to this level of women pleasing

Zenzu01:


You should be the one thinking like a human being.

He didn't say Olosho or runs girls. he mentioned single mothers. He generalized it. pre-marital sex is wrong, so also is stealing, telling lies and blackmailing others

Oga, he should help if he wants to and if he doesn't feel like helping, He should hold his peace. It's not a must.

99℅ of single mother got pregnant out of greed and love for material things

RavagedHeart:


That's just it. They always had their chance to choose the responsible guy, but no. They'll always make the wrong choice and expect another person to pay for it in the name of help.
I don't know how the men folk degraded to this level of women pleasing

Don't mind the weaklings. They forget women play games all d time even when it seems they're on the loosing end, it's all games and manipulations to attract pity from men and use men. She knows how to sort herself out.

A lot of black women are never nice to men, they only show fake love to the men that are winning. Women are users and they're so ruthless to men in their primes. I don't know why these weaklings of men are trying to play Mr. Nice guys to these women that don't give a fk about them.

KanwuliaExtra:
Your opinion sir. I blame the single moms who asked you for help in the first place.
Don’t help “single dads” either.

Check well,he wrote delibrate.

hmmm...is this man making sense at all?so every single mum deliberately become so?interesting!