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Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by Mojibola(m): 10:30am On Mar 21, 2011 |
chei!!!!!!, slap for 3am, different ringtones go just dey sound, na because she be girl na, may hm go try am for guy, na "dapada" straight, Notime, ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by Nobody: 10:40am On Mar 21, 2011 |
unless the girl is bringing home some serious bacon, na so e go be |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by emmatok(m): 10:42am On Mar 21, 2011 |
orbaxy: Thank you my brother. People just come online to bash Nigerians for everything. A lot of White parents in UK hit their adult kids everyday. While some Nigerians will never hit their kids. The truth is that must parent are too protective of their kids, especially female ones for obvious reasons e.g unwanted pregnancy. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by callme2: 10:49am On Mar 21, 2011 |
@poster Are you a Nigerian? My dad can flog ehn! Even on the buttoks not minding your age |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by rashylous(m): 10:52am On Mar 21, 2011 |
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Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by amaechijay: 11:36am On Mar 21, 2011 |
It is very possible. My dad still screams and hits my sister and I even though we are older than the girl in question; working and paying for the house we all live in. It's so annoying because we are the ones feeding and taking care of my parents yet they treat us as though we are teenagers, no single respect whatsoever. I've made up my mind to move out this yr because of their behaviour. My sister can stay on if she wants , ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by enomakos(m): 12:11pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
he shall have use the cain ladies of nowaday have lost it |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by enomakos(m): 12:21pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
call-me: ur dad na correct papa |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by yvy1(f): 12:28pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
Very very possible. Parents like to be given at least 2 hours notice before their daughters go out and a detailed itineray if possible in this country because they might have made other plans for the family that evening and as long as she is still under their roof she has to comply otherwise one day she'll just cone back and see all her belongings outside. As others have rightly pointed out, the guy must stop dating her in secret if his intentions are good so that the parents will at least be able to put a face to who she is hanging out with (a girl can not keep lying that she is out with her girlfriends everyday and night). Then again, maybe the chick no too send the guy and just used that as an excuse not to see him cos it will be hard for him to verify from an impartial source. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by duduspace(m): 3:00pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
@OP Can't speak for all Nigerian ethnicities but in yorubaland, you are always your parent's kids, even if yu're taller than mountain kilimanjaro, my mama can climb a stool to dish you better slap if you misbehave while in her house and that is why you don't go home too often after you leave, so that your parents get it into their heads that a bird has flown the nest, they will do anything for you to appreciate the little time they get to spend with you. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by eghost247(m): 3:04pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
duduspace:correct |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by DisGuy: 4:25pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
NOT ONLY IS IT POSSIBLE, it is actually ACCEPTABLE by law and customs, in actual fact anyone that says anything against it is seen as an enemy of progress or an undisciplined person EVEN THOUGH THERE ARE OTHER WAYS TO SHOW YOUR DISAPPROVAL taking away beating or physical ![]() and if we want to push it further,, striking your wife will solicit almost the same response ![]() there are instances where a judge will actually dissolve a marriage due to physical violence without ordering for the arrest of the husband ![]() |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by PremierGuy(m): 5:00pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
In the Nigerian culture I grew up in 27 years old male or female is nothing, when it comes to beating. I think this has to do the family culture that is passed down the generations. A very close lady, almost 40years and married with 2kids was heavily scolded and nearly beaten by her dad who is a very influential Senator. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by mayofab(f): 5:23pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
Before nko, if im still livinguner my fadas roof and i mess up , the man no go even hesitate ![]() |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by mayofab(f): 5:25pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
Before nko, if im still living under my fadas roof and i mess up , the man no go even hesitate ![]() |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by ebealways: 5:26pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
it's possible! |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by ddippset(m): 6:07pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
a nigerian man would smack and slap even his 40 year old wife not to talk of a 27 year old GIRL. in this part of the world is 27 really an adult? adulthood here begins @ 32. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by obowunmi(m): 6:24pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
ddippset: Actually for a woman, begins the moment a woman obtains children. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by CILondon: 10:45pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
Nigerian men are so savage and backward. No wonder everyone over here in Europe dislikes them so mucn. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by naijangel7(f): 11:12pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
It's not a Nigerian thing, it's really an African thing. You can see it being comically portrayed in Black American movies (Lady Killers, for example) in which mothers or grandmothers beat their grown up kids. It's not always right but it is done. My family has a family friend whose father beats her to this day. She is now 35 years old. In one instance he beat her and kept her tied up in their bathroom for a whole day. She was in her early 20s then. She says she can't leave his house because she needs to have him at her wedding to be respected by her future husband's family. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by DisGuy: 11:17pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
^^ I bet she would also accept being a punch bag by her in laws so that she can be respected and her pastor wont call her a witch |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by naijangel7(f): 11:20pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
Some old school African discipline ![]() ![]() ![]() https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p66afwLeITY LOL i like when the uncle says "All that is fake but this A.S.S whooping ain't gonna be fake" and proceeds to whoop that A.S.S. Hehehe! |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by naijangel7(f): 11:23pm On Mar 21, 2011 |
Dis Guy: That's if he doesn't kill her first. One of the times she ran to our house her hair was matted with blood to her scalp. she now has permanent scars all over her body and a very low self-esteem. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by DisGuy: 12:18am On Mar 22, 2011 |
sometimes i just dont know who to blame, the woman that cant stand up on her feet to say she is not a punchbag/animal or the mothers that dont teach their kids that they are human funny thing is you see women also supporting this 'culture' i mean since its okay for dad to beat her at over 20+ she wont see anything wrong when her husband start his routine and the pastors will joyfully join in ask her to be patient and coming for daily prayer sessions to shame the devil |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by ShyOne(f): 12:32am On Mar 22, 2011 |
The singer Marvin Gay [url]http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marvin_Gay,_Sr.[/url] His Dad shot him dead in the heat of an argument/fight In the U.S. your dad/mom will hit you no matter your age - black, white, green, yellow |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by fstranger3(m): 12:35am On Mar 22, 2011 |
Shy-One: Not quite! |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by ShyOne(f): 3:05am On Mar 22, 2011 |
Not quite? What does that mean? |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by duduspace(m): 12:37pm On Mar 22, 2011 |
CILondon: Will you stop that hasty generalisation? ![]() It is important to differentiate between mild old school 'tough love' which involves only minor spanking and wholesale domestic abuse which could include elements of GBH. There is a massive difference between the horn of a snail and that of a buffalo. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by ShyOne(f): 2:03pm On Mar 22, 2011 |
duduspace: you definitely are NOT BACKWARDS. shy-one does a "double take" that last paragraph - a beautiful symphony - your play on words was flawless thank you for sharing. |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by kindablity(m): 2:55pm On Mar 22, 2011 |
abeg let us hear jo!!!! i bliv dis dude is from d states, if an adult male can be slaapped,hw much more a female, looooong hiss, next thread plz |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by duduspace(m): 4:26pm On Mar 22, 2011 |
Shy-One:Thanx sweetness. ![]() |
Re: Would A Nigerian Dad Ever Strike His Adult Daughter? by Solozzo(m): 5:20pm On Mar 22, 2011 |
Well in my community, isoko in Delta state, it is against the norm for a parent to beat up an adult child. You would be blamed by the elders if u attempt no matter what the child has done. It is a shame many NL members still support this brutish culture. just because one lives under their roof does not give parents right to assault their adult children or anyone for that matter. An NL member had related how she almost got killed for coming home late from school. The uncaring parents never thought child may be in danger and focussed on meting punishment before hearing the story. This is a way of bringing up children not to value natural justice, the right to be heard and defend yourself before being found guilty. Time we ban corporal punishment no matter the age of the child. All that high-handed discipline has contributed to produce corrupted politicians and a high crime rate in our country. Time for parents to learn positive parenting skills, exemplary lifestyles that lead to respect and emulation of good values, so we can '' hand unto our children a banner without stain" |
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