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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 3:44pm On Dec 21, 2020
Stephenmoka4:

Do what you like others to do for you.
If you buy her things, does it make her sad, is it bad. No it doesn't. It shouldn't be out of pressure though.

Many men hasn't switch roles, the location and situation of some made them so.
If something doesn't favors one or is frustrated, he/she will likely want to share the burden.

What is responsible for most of this, is finance. Finance is a strong pillar of a man's life, if it's weak, it would surely have an impact on him.

Countless times, I see don't date broke girls, they are liability. If he doesn't have money, he's wasting your time and stuff like that.

Even if you're not the richest, there is still room for happiness. No one is too broke to at least make another one happy.

For now the major women on my budget are my sisters, when they're happy I'm happy. Money is good, spend it don't hide it but, spend wisely of course. I do spend on my guys and a few girls too (when there's extra or want to cool off). They do ask me why I don't have a GF and thinks something is wrong with me.



You've said well, the Man leads and the woman follows. When the breadwinner (man) is down, the woman's potential would be in action and strengthened. One thing that matters too, is mutual understanding.
Good one
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by jaxxy(m): 4:01pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
The one's with anger and rage so far are the men I'm talking about, redpill wannabes, they are all about looking for women to exchange roles with

From the looks of things u don’t like any responsibilities?? Lol

Do u like the man or do u like his money? I won’t u to be very honest here?

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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by JustCruise(m): 4:12pm On Dec 21, 2020
As much as I don't owe anybody anything but I understand what the op is trying to say. My father taught me it's a man's responsibility to provide no matter how financially stable his woman is.

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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by francisbarrack(m): 4:17pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
You will not understand what I'm saying now till you get there

Understand d bullship u wrote up there. 9ja guys no one date u 9ja babes again
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by moradeke42109: 4:25pm On Dec 21, 2020
: No because I will never marry a man like youDon't worry Men will have their share of your punnyYou will end up in shiloh
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by 21cents: 4:25pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
Then let them stay single
LOL for your parasitic and gold digging mind now, you're the only girl in the world?? I pity you!

You better come off that mentality of thinking only the man should shoulder responsibilities in marriage. men don wise now and not even letting konji push them to make mistakes of putting a liability at home.

The only set of females that have rights to be taken care of are Beautiful young virgins that defied all odds and kept themselves pure and chaste. if you've been a hoe fornicating and expecting a workhorse to work like jaky for you, then you must be deluded. God cannot be mocked!

no worry, continue your painful misyarnings for a man that'll go work his ass for you and your kids while you sit at home watching telemundo and doing the dishes, I bet you prefer that one abi grin. las las na Shiloh get you.

lazy parasite oshi! grin

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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:27pm On Dec 21, 2020
This lady posts alot like someone that has been jilted. So frustrated grin grin
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:29pm On Dec 21, 2020
21cents:
LOL for your parasitic and gold digging mind now, you're the only girl in the world?? I pity you!

You better come off that mentality of thinking only the man should shoulder responsibilities in marriage. men don wise now and not even letting konji push them to make mistakes of putting a liability at home.

The only set of females that have rights to be taken care of are Beautiful young virgins that defied all odds and kept themselves pure and chaste. if you've been a hoe fornicating and expecting a workhorse to work like jaky for you, then you must be deluded. God cannot be mocked!

no worry, continue your painful misyarnings for a man that'll go work his ass for you and your kids while you sit at home watching telemundo and doing the dishes, I bet you prefer that one abi grin. las las na Shiloh get you.

lazy parasite oshi! grin

There's actually a part of your statement that I like

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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:32pm On Dec 21, 2020
jaxxy:


From the looks of things u don’t like any responsibilities?? Lol

Do u like the man or do u like his money? I won’t u to be very honest here?
If I don't like the man,I won't like his money
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:33pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
[s]Ladies please never make the mistake of accepting a marriage proposal from a man who doesn't spend on you, you are indirectly teaching him how to be irresponsible in marriage, he will be so accustomed to the fact that you can take charge of responsibilities without his input and once that happened you will never enjoy your marriage, he will stylishly and manipulatively make you a man in his home. I just read on family section where a woman complained of her husband not financially responsible for anything in their home aside the school fees which she also pay part of it despite been financially capable, this man disguise outside with expensive wears and other stuffs while the wife bites her fingers at home, all these things sprung up from tolerating bullshits in the relationship. Stop falling under their "what are you bringing to the table" manipulation, even if you will eventually bring something to the table,don't let him have the slightest idea in his head.[/s]
I will expose you very soon. You need therapy
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:33pm On Dec 21, 2020
Warmth:
This lady posts alot like someone that has been jilted. So frustrated grin grin
Wrong I've never been jilted
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:36pm On Dec 21, 2020
Descortes:
I will expose you very soon. You need therapy

You didn't keep to your own words "avoid me" please try and keep to it.
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:40pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
You didn't keep to your own words "avoid me" please try and keep to it.
seriously I'm disappointed in you.
Why have 2 monikers to portray different personalities? To what end?

Tell me the truth, don't lie. I know you are also behind the baddiefreakk moniker
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:48pm On Dec 21, 2020
Descortes:
seriously I'm disappointed in you.
Why have 2 monikers to portray different personalities? To what end?

Tell me the truth, don't lie. I know you are also behind the baddiefreakk moniker

I don't run two accounts and never will,my last response to this. Please also keep to your words
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 4:49pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
I don't run two accounts and never will,my last response to this. Please also keep to your words
what 'words' are you talking about?
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by jaxxy(m): 4:57pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
If I don't like the man,I won't like his money

Hahaha bad gal again. grin
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 5:35pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
Ladies please never make the mistake of accepting a marriage proposal from a man who doesn't spend on you, you are indirectly teaching him how to be irresponsible in marriage, he will be so accustomed to the fact that you can take charge of responsibilities without his input and once that happened you will never enjoy your marriage, he will stylishly and manipulatively make you a man in his home. I just read on family section where a woman complained of her husband not financially responsible for anything in their home aside the school fees which she also pay part of it despite been financially capable, this man disguise outside with expensive wears and other stuffs while the wife bites her fingers at home, all these things sprung up from tolerating bullshits in the relationship. Stop falling under their "what are you bringing to the table" manipulation, even if you will eventually bring something to the table,don't let him have the slightest idea in his head.
So ladies can't spend on guys, I though they wanted gender equality when they want men to take charge of everything that involves money

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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 5:36pm On Dec 21, 2020
Zzor:
Biiter truth,only irresponsible men will come and nag here
Lies
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Aflix(m): 7:30pm On Dec 21, 2020
Wahala for those wey never realise say zzor just de catch cruise for this forum.
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 21, 2020
Am I the only one who thinks this person called Zzor is a guy with hairy balls who always wants to stir up some controversy here while posing as a female?
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 8:39am On Dec 22, 2020
I Don't Spend On Women In A Relationship. Even If I Should Do, She Has To Earn It.
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by purples25(f): 2:46pm On Dec 23, 2020
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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by purples25(f): 2:46pm On Dec 23, 2020
Everyone wants to be a woman these days. Lol evolution.
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by fuckaholic25(f): 4:01pm On Dec 23, 2020
question is does she spend on him too?? I mean, it's suppose to be symbiotic
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by shamsin6300(m): 5:13pm On Dec 23, 2020
Zzor:
Ladies please never make the mistake of accepting a marriage proposal from a man who doesn't spend on you, you are indirectly teaching him how to be irresponsible in marriage, he will be so accustomed to the fact that you can take charge of responsibilities without his input and once that happened you will never enjoy your marriage, he will stylishly and manipulatively make you a man in his home. I just read on family section where a woman complained of her husband not financially responsible for anything in their home aside the school fees which she also pay part of it despite been financially capable, this man disguise outside with expensive wears and other stuffs while the wife bites her fingers at home, all these things sprung up from tolerating bullshits in the relationship. Stop falling under their "what are you bringing to the table" manipulation, even if you will eventually bring something to the table,don't let him have the slightest idea in his head.


I will like to grace your marriage to see the kind husband you will get married to. I will be very disappointed if he is not a billionaire.
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by shantti(m): 5:24pm On Dec 23, 2020
People should learn to ignore this girl and her crave for attention
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 5:25pm On Dec 23, 2020
Zzor:
It would yield Oga,men should stop this manipulation of making women a man in their homes that's wickedness.
Women should stop this wickedness of asking for equality at home
Women should stop this wickedness of sharing house chores with a husband who is a sole provider
Women should stop this wickedness of providing only sex at home
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Oracleforce: 6:03pm On Dec 23, 2020
An average Naija Lady puna is a legal tender to bankrupt financial palace....a lot of Naija ladies are just useless for my liking...The useful ones among them are hard to find...85 percent of ladies on the Romance section are Runs girls...cash and carry...if you know, you know...
Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Nobody: 9:37pm On Dec 23, 2020
shamsin6300:



I will like to grace your marriage to see the kind husband you will get married to. I will be very disappointed if he is not a billionaire.
You will never be disappointed because I can't disappoint myself.

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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by shamsin6300(m): 10:06pm On Dec 23, 2020
Zzor:
You will never be disappointed because I can't disappoint myself.

Lols
I like your confidence.
May the Lord answer your prayer.

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Re: If Your Man Is Not Spending On You In Your Relationship, Dump Him by Crystasluvee(m): 9:36am On Dec 26, 2020
Zzor:
It would yield Oga,men should stop this manipulation of making women a man in their homes that's wickedness.

You claimed to be a Virgin. Now a relationship expert. You just seem a loner and clout chaser. Linda Ikeji must be your mentor. We know how that ended

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