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Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by babakb: 10:43pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Chii59: Of course, our wives are not our equals, we don't need them for any decision making, we provide for them and in return they perform their conjugal and domestic duties. Full meaning of wife is: Washing Ironing Fvcking Eating 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Blueelf: 10:44pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Chii59: Do not purposely misinterpret the writer's intentions. You know what he meant You just want to bash Nigerian Men (as usual, it's getting really boring). Moral of the story - teach your daughters to be dutiful, obedient and responsible. Don't over- pamper them. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by 9gerian: 10:45pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
EOD! richie240: 3 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by richie240: 10:45pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Slackerpenguin2:This is where 'Christian-feminists' (sounds like 'beautiful-beasts', 'holy devils' to d ears ) r getting it twisted. The commandment of God for d husband to 'love d wife' doesn't negate His commandment for the 'wife to submit to her husband'. The 'love' doesn't change d fact DT d wife must recognize his husband as her lord!. The 'humility/love' of d man for his wife doesn't change d fact that that same woman is under him; he is her lord! Thatrt's the issue....you don't want to be like Christ, who though he was God, lowered himself, and humbled himself to die on the cross to save us from sin.Did Christ die for us so that sin can abound? That same 'Christ of love' is also a 'Christ of judgement'! The fact DT Christ proved His love 4 us by dying on d cross 4 us doesnt give us d licence to disrespect him by sinning; same goes for d woman: the love her husband has for her shdnt be taken for granted and used to be disrespectful/insubmissive to her husbandman! From your comment...you don't want to love your wife to the point where you would be willing to lay down your life for her.Once again, u missed d mark! I can love my wife to die, to protect her, but that shdnt be an excuse for her to be unsubmissive/disrespectful/combative to me as her husband/lord! 3 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by BrutusOj(m): 10:45pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Why won't suitors go for the maid when your daughters are spoilt brats without good attitude? 5 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by extol1(m): 10:46pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
RedPanthar:ask her partner pegi23 |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Komu1048(m): 10:47pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
chinchonglee: Yes bro, that’s what your uncle, Thomas also look out for. Keep it bro, it will surely end same way 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by angelfallz(m): 10:48pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Who said its the only criteria? chinchonglee: 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Cammo: 10:48pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
It becomes irrevocably bad when such over-pa mpered daughter of a rich man makes friends with a useless Nairaland feminist. 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by phineas: 10:49pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Let men who want to marry maids marry maids and those who want daughters marry daughters. This thread is a stupid attempt at bashing daughters, who stoops that low. May our daughters be like pillars in their palace sturdy and strong enough to support their homes been held together.May they have partners who know they are wives,helpmates and partners on journey of purpose and not maids 6 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Blueelf: 10:49pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Aabheaven: Very frustrated being, I tell you She just purposely misinterpreted the writer's intentions. Any thread like this, she and her ilk will fly towards it and look for opportunities to bash. Threads like this give them orgasms and make them wet down there. 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 10:50pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
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Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by chinchonglee(m): 10:53pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Blueelf:May the good food remove all the troubles in ur marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Jman06(m): 10:53pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
chinchonglee:Are you aware that it takes smartness to know how to cook and clean 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by richie240: 10:53pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Dirakamara:Gbam! U've just hit d nail on d head. A popular saying: "talent/skills/beauty (etc) can get u 2 d top, but discipline (aka character) keeps u there". No matter how beautiful and educated a woman/wife is, if she refuses to submit and see her husband as her leader/lord, the marriage won't last! mrksquare:EOD! 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by BigBizzy(m): 10:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
A word is enough for the wise |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by chinchonglee(m): 10:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
angelfallz:What other qualities do house maids have? |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Blueelf: 10:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
chinchonglee: Amen And u shall enjoy with glee. After all, its my food |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Psalmistproject: 10:54pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
TeemahBeddings: It's not by force madam. You can remain single and do the same chores for yourself and still go to work and hustle for your living. If you are already married, stop nagging and forcing your husband to do house chores because you are the one bringing in the money. Don't you know that a man performs better when encouraged and giving room to think for himself? 6 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
angelfallz: Why won't I agree with it? That's just the gospel truth. Some people think they are giving their children the best life by not letting them touch any domestic work but they don't know they are training them to become lazybones and useless to themselves and people around them. The same way we were trained is how my sisters are training their children. My first nephew is just 14 but he cooks and takes care of his younger ones. In fact, he handles one of his dad's ATM cards and manages the account. You train a child in a way that when you're not there, he can independently handle certain things. That's the kind of family I come from. 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by chinchonglee(m): 10:55pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Komu1048:Why my own opinion dey vex you Marry house maid and leave me to my opinion. 3 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by phineas: 10:55pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
phineas: Meanwhile that's a proverbs verse "That our daughters may be like pillars polished after the similtitude of a palace" I have also read guiding verses in islam on this. 1 suggests a woman may be married for 4 reasons..her beauty,her wealth,her lineage or her spirituality .it's a simple matter choose your reason and let others be. The daughter of the rich wields a power that any man or woman will be stupid to ignore.Rich girls know your worth and don't grovel to any silly suitor that doesn't know it 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Nobody: 10:55pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
TeemahBeddings: No go learn how to cook and manage home..stay here dey disgrace urself. 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by chinchonglee(m): 10:57pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Jman06:If her smartness is only on how to cook and clean, i nor marry |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by 9gerian: 10:59pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Your point correlates with the writer’s in a way. However, the standard for the definition of a wife dates back to the creator. Adam first, then Eve as a helpmate for Adam. There are other definitions as various individuals and cultures come up with from time to time, but the fundamentals have endured throughout the existence of man. That man leads the family, and the wife supports the man to achieve the family goals. Chii59: 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by edoairways: 11:01pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Gerrard59:Wowwww. The article isn't valid enough since it is not empirically proven. |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by Liposure: 11:01pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
It is very important as a girl to know how to cook. The way to a man's heart is his stomach 1 Like |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by samx4real(m): 11:02pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
TeemahBeddings: With this stupid mentality You no go fit stay for man house. 2 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by phineas: 11:04pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
Chii59: No these ones do not represent the average Nigerian man.Only the jobless ones with a lot of free time on their hands.No succesfull man underestimates the role of a thinking ,smart ,connected or spiritual helpmate to weather the storms of life with them. Underachieving men with challenges on their perception of self,either in wealth or size cant deal with such partners those are the type that marry a yes yes woman or maid.They are not the average Nigerian man just a small vocal minority.You know what they say about empty barrels 7 Likes |
Re: Suitors Now Prefer Our Maids For Marriage To Our Daughters by edoairways: 11:05pm On Jan 15, 2021 |
honest1480:Gerrard59 this dude's comment refute the writer's view. Am sure there are still men who aren't moved by domestic house choresWhy won't they prefer maids for marriage while they are the ones that do all the house chores perfectly. Men love women that take care of home and their stomachs with right delicacies. |
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