Princek12:

It is a man's world; we just need women to support men in their world. Why is that so hard to grasp?

You cannot fight nature. We have the screwdriver and you guys have the receptacle. God made it that way. If you have a problem with it, go and talk to God.

As it is a man's world, that is why most women who marry change their names to their husband's names. While some women may choose to do otherwise, those women are in the minority and are the exception to the rule.

Princek12:

It is a man's world; we just need women to support men in their world. Why is that so hard to grasp?

You cannot fight nature. We have the screwdriver and you guys have the receptacle. God made it that way. If you have a problem with it, go and talk to God.

As it is a man's world, that is why most women who marry change their names to their husband's names. While some women may choose to do otherwise, those women are in the minority and are the exception to the rule.

MzDarkSkin:

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CONTINUE TO KNOCK YOURSELVES OUT!!
to the other ppl on this thread who are aware that "Live and Let Live" is the best method to achieving peace on
this Earth, pat yourselves on your back  .

TO THE 'BEAT CHEST CREW': When the woman you love slip from your fingers because you want to exert some sort of 'male dominance'
to feel like you are somehow special, that is when it will be too late.
MY ADVICE? Grow up!

AND LET ME SAY THIS ONE THING. . .LEAVE GOD OUT OF THIS ISSUE! NEITHER ONE OF YOU ARE THE CREATOR AND THEREFORE HAVE NO RIGHT USING HIS/HER NAME TO PUT YOUR VIEWS ACROSS! If you were a true Christian like you pretend to be, you would repent for what you all call Blasphemy. Grow up.

omo_to_dun:

@MrsChima

This issue seems to be so close to your heart and it is obvious you are hurting somewhere, seeing as you overwhelming have the most posts on this thread; heck, you have the most posts on any threads that you have decided to spread your ignorance. It does not take much posts to articulate yourself, but given your level of expression and composition, we understand why you would think that more posts are equivalent to better expression. No one is using Jehovah's name in vain; explicitly stating what the Father has said by referencing His name is not using His name in vain. Of course, it'd be unrealistic of me to think your second-hand middle-aged brain will process anything that is written by anyone, or even written by you(as evidenced from your previous posts); nevertheless, your whining for the better part of the day is nothing short of a comic relief. Please, keep bitching, and put your dog---MrsDarkSkin---in its cage. That shouldn't be too hard, should it?

adconline:

Ahaahaha ^^ what does a pre-nup have to do with anything?
You talk like in every marriage, the man is always the bread-winner. Look around you, hun. It's 2011.


You are giving an illusion of everyone retaining their individuality and preference. Maybe I should rephrase: If a woman wants to retain her name, it's OK, the same woman should also be OK that the man wants a prenup or doesnt want to open up his bank account for her . The premise of retaining your name should also be extended to owning  properties, and financial matters.

BTW, in Naija, most men are breadwinners

darqly:

Interesting opinions, but thats all they are and are subject to being accepted or not. Amazing how many women 'claim' they would keep daddy's name, whatever it takes- has much to do with all these women lib talk that we can never get enough off. I'd say a man that accepted a 'name-sharing' arrangement with his wife probably stands to gain an undue advantage somehow; men are cunning. In few instances though, the man might actually be lily-livered and kowtow's to wifey's apron strings. A name is an identity; that u accept mine @ marriage in no way annihilates your lineage but affirms that we're willing to chart OURS. If she loves daddy's name that much, she bloody well better remain daddy's girl then.

MzDarkSkin:

OMO TOO DUMB,

Up until this present moment, I have shown you nothing but respect. I have answered all of your questions and then some being sure to let you know that i respect you and your opinion. So for me to log on just now and see you refer to me as a dog after having accused Chima of taking this too serious FURTHER let's me know you are far beyond a male chauvinist, you are a punk. It kills you that not only were you 'sonned' and out debated by females, but FOREIGN ones at that.

I am not YOUR woman, YOUR daughter, YOUR pet, YOUR possession nor YOUR WIFE. GOD FORBID! I would rather live in an Ebola hot-zone than be married to a guy who believes because I belong to one s3x, my duty is to take heed to his opinion and live my life as according to how he sees fit ignoring my rights as a fellow human being. You cry and btch when you are attacked and now you want to drag me into this; angry because you do not have the balls to stand your ground and get your message across. Do not blame me for your failures. You can kill yourself if it bothers you that much. I suggest you use the wasted balls you were born with and the testosterone that is SOMEWHERE in you, and be a man. Grow up and quick!

For the record unless your name is Princek12, I was NOT talking to you when I mentioned that 'using God's name' line. Congratulate yourself
for volunteering to look like a jack arse for free! 

Djdamian:

matthew 19 v 4-6 "And God said "For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and unite with his wife,and the two will become ONE,so they are no longer two but ONE.No human being must seperate,then,what God has joined together"

omo_to_dun:

@MrsDarkSkin

I got your blood boiling, didn't I? Take your respect and shove it up your ugly àss. Debated out by dumb females? On the one hand, MrsChima cannot analyze a discourse objectively without resorting to ad hominems, and you, on the other hand, while slightly smarter, but ultimately an irrevocably quasi-illiterate lowlife, cannot draw out logical conclusions from simple statements. How can I be threatened by foreign women who obviously love Nigerians so much that they spend their whole miserable lives on a Nigerian forum? I do not frequent a Jamaican or African-American forum since I love my people best, but you foreign women cannot get enough of us; on any levels, Nigerians are better than any other free blacks in the world; can't even compare us to a bunch of idíots who are no more than three times removed from slavery and have inferiority complex embedded in their psyche. We and our ancestors were born free and we do not have identity crisis and we are not mad at the world for our current situation. So back off and go and suck on your jobless boyfriend's díck. Make yourself useful to men just like your ancestors were useful to their masters.

bababuff:

OUCH !!! This is too much.

@omo_to_dun, don't forget that one of your ancestors could have fathered MrsDarkSkin linage over there. 

Never that would automatically mean Mzdarkskin is from my village

190:

**breaths down**

omo_to_dun:

@MrsDarkSkin

I got your blood boiling, didn't I? Take your respect and shove it up your ugly àss. Debated out by dumb females? On the one hand, MrsChima cannot analyze a discourse objectively without resorting to ad hominems, and you, on the other hand, while slightly smarter, but ultimately an irrevocably quasi-illiterate lowlife, cannot draw out logical conclusions from simple statements. How can I be threatened by foreign women who obviously love Nigerians so much that they spend their whole miserable lives on a Nigerian forum? I do not frequent a Jamaican or African-American forum since I love my people best, but you foreign women cannot get enough of us; on any levels, Nigerians are better than any other free blacks in the world; can't even compare us to a bunch of idíots who are no more than three times removed from slavery and have inferiority complex embedded in their psyche. We and our ancestors were born free and we do not have identity crisis and we are not mad at the world for our current situation. So back off and go and suck on your jobless boyfriend's díck. Make yourself useful to men just like your ancestors were useful to their masters.