You dont have any problem oga.
You found a new gurl who has acceptd your past and is comfortable with your future. Ehen? So whats the problem?

No stopping you have the green light

can i carry on with that date of the marriage to marry this new Girl or will my late Girls friends family not say any words or my family about my new relationship

I think you should slow down---your gf just passed away right? Have some respect abeg. 4 months?

errrmmm--I'm assuming you've known this current chick for less than 5 months(If you weren't cheating on your ex). Isn't that a bit too soon to judge a her.  ? I mean, a person can still misbehave after 10 years of dating/marraige, but all the same don't you think you're moving too fast. ?

Anyways, the choice is your's.   My point is slow down on the marraige thing~~ this one you're already picking date in your head. But, if that's your way of "locking her down" then go for it.  That doesn't still guarantee anything though.

Whatever works for you.

As for your late GF's family---make them talk! Who wouldn't talk? Put yourself in their shoes. 4 Months pere!! haba!

@BABE! i got your point you made me weak (slow down) you were right any way ,when should be the right time for me to go in to relationship and get married,

You are good to go

What should be the writ time I can talk about marrying her?

Unfortunately I can't help you. But I wish much happiness to the couple

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I Need some One To Help Me On This Problem : So I Can Be Happy With My Life

what is the time i can marry this new girl the date i fix is it ok next year march

Its quite early to move on but you have done that. THere is nothing wrong in getting married. No matter what you do, your late girl's family will not exactly be happy. But you got to live your life.

Only you can answer that poster. We cannot answer you. If you ask me its a little bit too soon, you dont really know her like you knew your late g/f of 8 years.

why didnt u marry ur late girl friend of eight years who had a son for u? did u love her. and now u want to marry the new girl u have just met within four months. are u feeeling guilty? forget about the family of u late girl, this is all about ur happiness. why do u thinhk u are doing the worng thing by marrying the girl u love. i think u have serious issues with ur conscience. and until u reso;ve this, u will necer b happy