Righteousness2:
Your Situation is really Pathetic.
This is the Reason why I tell people to never put hope or trust in anyone. Put your Trust Only in GOD.

Your Parents can Fail or disappoint
Your twin can Fail you
Your friends/ Siblings can mess up
It's Only GOD that Never Fails.

My Admonishment for you is this, in your actions/ Decisions, Quit trying to Please People Irrespective of who it is. Strive to Please GOD. Your actions should be based on what Pleases GOD. Every other person will Fall in Place.

Beebah2000:
Hmmm, Okay.........
See ehh...... Just leave your family and find your own way.
Your family don't give a damn about you, so don't give a fúck about them.

AdviseMePls:

Yes. You're right. What pains me is I'm just noticing this after lososing everything.

Righteousness2:


At least you have understood things better now. Don't dwell in the Past! Start Afresh and do things on the Basis of the Understanding you have now. You will Shine again..

AdviseMePls:


Yes, you're right. Between Family and Enemy. I swear I don't know who is who

Righteousness2 post=105870976:
Your Situation is really Pathetic.
This is the Reason why I tell people to never put hope or trust in anyone. Put your Trust Only in GOD.

Your Parents can Fail or disappoint
Your twin can Fail you
Your friends/ Siblings can mess up
It's Only GOD that Never Fails.

My Admonishment for you is this, in your actions/ Decisions, Quit trying to Please People Irrespective of who it is. Strive to Please GOD. Your actions should be based on what Pleases GOD. Every other person will Fall in Place.

Righteousness2:


Not all Families are Enemies but there are Families that could be Enemies.

AdviseMePls:


I don't even have one family I can talk to and discuss my pains with. I just noticed my dad is the right person. I can't believe he understood how I feel and sent me some money without feeling entitled.
He shocked me. I'm pained that I've never been closed to him the way I was so close to my mum.

AdviseMePls:

Yes. You're right. What pains me is I'm just noticing this after losing everything.

AdviseMePls:


Someone should talk to me. My mum has been giving me mental troubles. Most especially when this goes sore for me. She has always been doing that.
And as a man, I deserve no stress.

I noticed, whenever I have, my family always want to be close to me. When I go broke, they'll dump me.

They want to have control all over my life and I'm not yet married. Now u think things will get worse for me when I get married.

Right now, I'm homeless, I lost everything. I'm planning so hard to fix up myself. But my family are making it difficult. My mum especially, whenever she calls me. I don't get the mothering advice I want from her. All she does is nag and complain over me not calling her.

The worst thing she did to me, when I was in the hospital dying, she and everyone left me. My mum visited and felt so reluctant about me. She was not moved. I couldn't pay my hospital bills to receive the right treatment. My friend have to borrow from his sis for me to be treated. She was not moved. Only a friend of mine who I'm squatting with now. Everyone dumped me. When I got back to my feet and visited. They started feeling entitled again. They started billing me here and there. I feel pain because I was just trying to stand up again.

My dad and I have never been friends right from time. When I visited his last two months and notice he's been passing through a lot that I never notice from time. I tried to embrace him and showed him some love. I observed my mum was pained about this. She has been irritated by my goods towards my dad.

I'm a man, I know she's my mum. I can't allow women to control my life. I feel I own my life as a man. She always wants me to take all her advice which I know not all the advice will help me.

I feel bittered.

AdviseMePls:
Someone should talk to me. My mum has been giving me mental troubles. Most especially when this goes sore for me. She has always been doing that.
And as a man, I deserve no stress.

I noticed, whenever I have, my family always want to be close to me. When I go broke, they'll dump me.

They want to have control all over my life and I'm not yet married. Now u think things will get worse for me when I get married.

Right now, I'm homeless, I lost everything. I'm planning so hard to fix up myself. But my family are making it difficult. My mum especially, whenever she calls me. I don't get the mothering advice I want from her. All she does is nag and complain over me not calling her.
....
I'm a man, I know she's my mum. I can't allow women to control my life. I feel I own my life as a man. She always wants me to take all her advice which I know not all the advice will help me.
I feel bittered.

AdviseMePls:


Someone should talk to me. My mum has been giving me mental troubles. Most especially when this goes sore for me. She has always been doing that.
And as a man, I deserve no stress.

I noticed, whenever I have, my family always want to be close to me. When I go broke, they'll dump me.

They want to have control all over my life and I'm not yet married. Now u think things will get worse for me when I get married.

Right now, I'm homeless, I lost everything. I'm planning so hard to fix up myself. But my family are making it difficult. My mum especially, whenever she calls me. I don't get the mothering advice I want from her. All she does is nag and complain over me not calling her.

The worst thing she did to me, when I was in the hospital dying, she and everyone left me. My mum visited and felt so reluctant about me. She was not moved. I couldn't pay my hospital bills to receive the right treatment. My friend have to borrow from his sis for me to be treated. She was not moved. Only a friend of mine who I'm squatting with now. Everyone dumped me. When I got back to my feet and visited. They started feeling entitled again. They started billing me here and there. I feel pain because I was just trying to stand up again.

My dad and I have never been friends right from time. When I visited his last two months and notice he's been passing through a lot that I never notice from time. I tried to embrace him and showed him some love. I observed my mum was pained about this. She has been irritated by my goods towards my dad.

I'm a man, I know she's my mum. I can't allow women to control my life. I feel I own my life as a man. She always wants me to take all her advice which I know not all the advice will help me.

I feel bittered.

AdviseMePls:
Please someone should just tell me. I want to run away from these people. I want to do this in the right way.

I'm just a young man trying to do well for my family and myself.

frozen70:


You don't need to run away, plan for your exit so that you don't ever come back to stay with them

Anytime she calls you, listen to her and pick just the words that makes sense to you

Go low and silent anytime you pack out so that your achievements will be the report card that they will be seeing

AdviseMePls:


Someone should talk to me. My mum has been giving me mental troubles. Most especially when this goes sore for me. She has always been doing that.
And as a man, I deserve no stress.

I noticed, whenever I have, my family always want to be close to me. When I go broke, they'll dump me.

They want to have control all over my life and I'm not yet married. Now u think things will get worse for me when I get married.

Right now, I'm homeless, I lost everything. I'm planning so hard to fix up myself. But my family are making it difficult. My mum especially, whenever she calls me. I don't get the mothering advice I want from her. All she does is nag and complain over me not calling her.

The worst thing she did to me, when I was in the hospital dying, she and everyone left me. My mum visited and felt so reluctant about me. She was not moved. I couldn't pay my hospital bills to receive the right treatment. My friend have to borrow from his sis for me to be treated. She was not moved. Only a friend of mine who I'm squatting with now. Everyone dumped me. When I got back to my feet and visited. They started feeling entitled again. They started billing me here and there. I feel pain because I was just trying to stand up again.

My dad and I have never been friends right from time. When I visited his last two months and notice he's been passing through a lot that I never notice from time. I tried to embrace him and showed him some love. I observed my mum was pained about this. She has been irritated by my goods towards my dad.

I'm a man, I know she's my mum. I can't allow women to control my life. I feel I own my life as a man. She always wants me to take all her advice which I know not all the advice will help me.

I feel bittered.

frozen70:


You don't need to run away, plan for your exit so that you don't ever come back to stay with them

Anytime she calls you, listen to her and pick just the words that makes sense to you

Go low and silent anytime you pack out so that your achievements will be the report card that they will be seeing

AdviseMePls:
I love y'all. I was been scammed by the "There's no one like mother believes".
Now I'm trying to fight myself out of this.

AutoChick4U:
Him picking is a wrong move cause she'll trigger d bitterness in him.

frozen70:


Anyone can call you and give you an advice
It's ip to you to take it or not
But at least, you have to listen to the advice especially when it comes from your parents

frozen70:


Anyone can call you and give you an advice
It's ip to you to take it or not
But at least, you have to listen to the advice especially when it comes from your parents

Kobojunkie:
According to whom? Let me guess, your parents?

So many out in Nigeria would have benefitted a great deal from not listening to their parents.. it's the truth. Parents aren't as wise as many try to believe them to be. No , wisdom belongs to those who work at it and most Nigerian parents don't.

Wisdom does not even belong to the Old either. If the world in the west had listened to the Old, imagine where the world would still be today.

AutoChick4U:
Hope u read and digested his post? Hope u know some parents push their kids into depression ryt?