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Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:07pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
DEMZEE:Obviously women can hence the reason they also cheat in much the same way that men can. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Fridaya30: 10:07pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Nothing concern cheating with church or traditional marriage. Who go cheat go cheat las as |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kajaard: 10:08pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Yagami: This I can agree with. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:08pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
DEMZEE:With court marriage, he first needs to get a divorce before he can marry another woman. ![]() 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Aganju849: 10:09pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
maureensylvia: is like you don't have job |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:09pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Yagami: ![]() |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by OmoEpe(m): 10:10pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: Stop the blind arguments. Traditionally a woman is seen as the property of the man so also her seed and all her pocessions. The traditional marriage is based on the African tradition which is patriarchal in it's ENTIRETY. The woman being, by this traddition the absolute property of the man isn't by any stretch of imagination permitted to contemplate being with another man. English law is what preaches monogamy. If you desire a monogamous marriage just ensure you do a court/church wedding. That is the OPs point. There is absolutely no provision for monogamous relationship in African tradition marriage Hope you understand it better now? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:10pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Okhuadams:The point is traditional marriage laws do not favor women at all. ![]() 9 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Sleekfingers: 10:11pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
DEMZEE: Legally speaking , it is illegal......but still widely practice in nigeria......thats why a woman who got married in a court , got more legal access to her husband properties...after the man dies ...the second wife na just another decoration in the eyes of the law...... 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:11pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
lottomkyes200:You cannot marry more than one wife at a time,if you stick to court marriage. ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by MolarT(m): 10:11pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: It's like u re a Lawyer? I just realised it and knew am gonna loose so I don't need to argue... Let me just read the comments/arguments of others |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:12pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
xynerise:Pretty much all traditional laws in Nigeria are implicated here. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:13pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
MolarT:I am not a lawyer! ![]() |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by tctrills: 10:14pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
maureensylvia:In some customs, the children belong to the woman so you have to be specific on the custom you are referring to. Next time, come up with a complete research |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by maureensylvia(f): 10:14pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by iLoveYouToo(m): 10:14pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Biglittlelois: The bottom line is since it wasn’t expressly stated, monogamy is a choice not an obligation (traditionally) 1 Like |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by maureensylvia(f): 10:15pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Joyceaile(f): 10:15pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
My hubby will never tire,I make sure I over feed him with good joyful Bleep 3 Likes |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by maureensylvia(f): 10:16pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
soullove1881: This topic is too big for you ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kajaard: 10:16pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Sleekfingers: In the north it's not illegal.
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Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Sleekfingers: 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
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Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kajaard: 10:17pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Joyceaile: Lol ![]() ![]() ![]() Mad people everywhere ![]() |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kajaard: 10:18pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:18pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
tctrills:Can you be more specific with customs you reference here? ![]() |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Ayo081(m): 10:18pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Kobojunkie:lol |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Biglittlelois(f): 10:19pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
iLoveYouToo: Same with polygamy. 1 Like |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Sleekfingers: 10:19pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Kobojunkie: 10:19pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
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Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Sterope(f): 10:22pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
https://thenigerialawyer.com/divorce-your-wife-lose-your-house-to-her-oyo-court-rules/ You should check it out. I wasn't sure it was relevant. Kobojunkie: |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by ShaqFu: 10:23pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
maureensylvia:Yet you assumed I never made it in life. ![]() Who in their right mind want to be you? |
Re: Don't complain that your husband is cheating on you if you are on this table by Rickmann: 10:24pm On Oct 18, 2021 |
maureensylvia: Chai..wonders have finally ended. Wetin I no go read for nairaland. How does getting wedded traditionally alone, justify infidelity? |
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