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God bless you Sis!
Don't mind those above speewing anything because they are in their shops or bedroom,just demeaning the Church,which is to me an act of irresponsibility!
Faith is a serious matter in Christian homes and you are either a believer or not!
OP,you told us where her faith and believed is but you just refused to tell us where yours belong and that is a deliberate omission,please tell us,so we can add or leave you!

BigBelleControl:
I have a Catholic friend who ended up in Redeem because of his fiancee.
His other reason was that he always miss morning mass because the Catholic Church he attended was far from his house.

It's different when you wanna leave base on your free will but as a condition I won't.....she better go...

okezuoemmanue:
So even for Catholic church, u no see Mary League marry abi.

When I see Catholic going out I marvel

What are you waiting for bro, leave,

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Mercychen:
You have not started the journey of marriage, she's already calling the shots. What does that tell you?
It simply means she'll want to be in charge, control and influence all your decisions when you finally get married.

That's a huge red flag you have there. Run!

Better to start all over than live in regret all your life.

By normal standard, a woman is suppose to follow the hudbby to his place of worship. If the man now allows her to worship in her place of choice, fine. Not her telling you to follow her to her Church. She don turn you to the wife be that.

@ Bold!.
The lady has done nothing wrong. He is not yet her husband.
She has her right to decide what she wants.
It's up to them to find a meeting point. Which is very Neccessary.

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

My brother, what your lady is saying is very correct. No true pentecostal will convert to catholicism. If you can't change your church let her go pls. Find a girl from a catholic background, who you share the same doctrine and dogma with. Cheers

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

you are a very SIMPle man o

What are you still doing with her?

Hope her pastor marries her when the time comes cos it will surely come

Bigpapi:




I don't mean to insult you my guy, but a glorious thunder will fire u..Mugu

U and ur black heart. How did he offend you now?

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Leave her. And look for another woman.....if you end up marrying. She will be a nagging and bossy wife......she don dey use style to dey show you her color.......I repeat , leave her......

So you are not yet married and she is already giving you a condition.That means she will even decide how many children you guys will have after marriage and how to name them

My candid advice is to inform her that you will not only continue attending your church but that she should be ready to join you in your church. There is nothing like she can attend any church of her choice.

You better be a man and if she refuses please let her be and get someone from your own church. If you go by her orders you will be turned into a vegetable in that marriage and a lot of regrets will follow.

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

On your mark, get set and run oooo. Even if you grant her, she'll demand more tomorrow. Did I hear you say she's d only one you love? Says a man that has not entered into another rich man's house. He will say his father's house is the most beautiful. Bros go out and mingle. She'll attend your wedding single. No be swear, na her behavior. Move on man.

Me and my babe dey the same situation, infact I no dey go church sef. The only condition is that I marry in her church, no wahala. After wedding, she can join me In my church.

That is very funny. Is she the one to get marry to the man?

Your decision hold your happiness

My simple advise is this...if you wanna leave base on your free will fine but as a condition to marry you...I will never do that....but believe from experience If she really love you she will compromise irrespective....don't get me wrong it's not bad for you to follow her to church...but tye decision should come from you....

Follow your faith and belief. She can go..

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Clearly stated, I think you both are not compatible.
I am a strong Catholics but not divisive and fanatics.
I respect what other people believe.
My brother, experience is the best teacher. Be careful. If you are a dedicated practising Catholic, I will advice you, you should be the one to insist this. Its not easy though, when love is involved, but, you may regret it when issues of pastors and other things starts coming in.
Whoever wants to castigate me should do, I say and you can quote me, "If Catholicism fails to exist today, or on my own I stop attending church, I will never go to church elsewhere in life."
If you are not okay with her, continue to pray, seek our Blessed Mother Mary in the Rosary, go to blessed Sacrament and also apply wisdom.
God bless you.
I wish you well.

Righteousness2:


@ Bold!.
The lady has done nothing wrong. He is not yet her husband.
She has her right to decide what she wants.
It's up to them to find a meeting point. Which is very Neccessary.

She has right to decide for HERSELF, not for him.
Besides marriage is in view from the ops narration. So why not already begin to consider things as married couples?

chiommy123:
I understand her sha. Some of us do not feel very comfortable in some churches

then don't date/marry someone outside your comfortable churches to avoid early break up/divorce of marriage.

Same issue I'm facing.

Test her love for you. Dont talk or call her for 2weeks and see her reactions.
No woman will allow church come between her and someone she truly loves.

Best of luck

Lol.. my problem is with your scarcity mentality, if you've been with women alot you won't be this timid, what do you mean be "the only one I love?? my friend grow up, she's already calling the shots because she's sensed that you're weak and indecisive and that you love ONLY her, which is bad, tell her what she must do or she goes, stop being naive and vulnerable to manipulations

Her papa make she get out. Agree to this and when you get married to her. You will see more demands

Sonnobax15:

So the jesus wey dey your catholic church dey different from the jesus wey dey her own church?

Leave her alone.....Make she dey over selective on her choice of husband materials because of their different churches.By the time when meno-stop go don dey knock on her door stylishly,dem no go tell her....By then,she no go even say No to any mallam Kabiru wey come from Kebbi state

I don't even need to comment anymore because you literally spoke my mind .

No be lie.....na so one of friends married a witness after all warnings..... today the lady refused to attend any church...the boy refused her from attending witness services and the family is in a state of Pigledi Nugledi

Vickyvice:
Na so she go say make u cut off association with your siblings and parents to show love for her

Sonnobax15:

So the jesus wey dey your catholic church dey different from the jesus wey dey her own church?

Leave her alone.....Make she dey over selective on her choice of husband materials because of their different churches.By the time when meno-stop go don dey knock on her door stylishly,dem no go tell her....By then,she no go even say No to any mallam Kabiru wey come from Kebbi state

Bruh advise this guy right nau.. that church na rubbish and I am sure you know it.

Make himself try another church just to taste his belief. Say them born you for cele church no mean say you go forever remain cele member

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

If you cannot accept her words nor compromise your religion for her..I say this with my full chest, that's a read flag. The marriage no matter how you love or endure, it will break and religion will be the cause. I am not a soothsayer, that's the fact. Nothing should be attached to marriage most especially religion.