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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Nobody: 9:35am On Nov 13, 2021
Man wants to be free for a while to run the runs
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Hamiltonii: 9:35am On Nov 13, 2021
Women ought not to leave their homes. You the man should go out and provide. That's the bible.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Nobody: 9:37am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.

Teach her what you do at home to make money.

Both of you can do it. The goal is earning legit money not just being busy.
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by neonly: 9:38am On Nov 13, 2021
Incandescent:


This is all you know that's why you're batlting with attacks and poverty.

Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Willie2015: 9:39am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.

Just talk to Madam gently.
NOUN Msc is available if she can cope with the rigor...
She can pick up teaching appointment with private school...
Around ur environment...
Its less rigorous .. can start earning ...
And also solve ur problem of stayin at home...

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Saintinoo(m): 9:39am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.
Your wife refused to work and you allowed her to go for masters, to do what with the master's degree? to show off to her friends or what.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Scatterscatter(m): 9:40am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.

Have you asked her what she wants to do?
BTW Masters is not a guarantee to getting a job, it may sometimes discourage employers to employ a Masters holder without job experience.

I know the bills is driving you crazy but bro, trust me, you don't want your wife to get frustrated as a result of your nagging and in turn take it out on you. That your work from home go turn "work from hell"

Try to work around her passion and together create something lucrative around it.

Most importantly, allow her deliver your baby and ensure you don't get her pregnant again until she starts earning a living.
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Torontoraptors: 9:42am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.

Seek medical attention for your wife fast. She may be falling into depression. For the fact she pregnant may be sign of Antepartum depression. Nobody likes to sit around doing nothing.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by descarado: 9:45am On Nov 13, 2021
Kobojunkie:
Her own pregnancy better pass the pregnancy of all those hawkers and market women out there? undecided

Pregnancy is not a sickness neither is it a valid reason for a woman to remain unemployed. You insult billions of pregnant women out there working hard while pregnant when you suggest pregnancy a reason to do nothing. undecided
Some pregnancies are indeed sickness.

Some are in and out of the hospital throughout the duration of the pregnancy.

Every woman has different body system.
As a lady, you should know that. Respect that too.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by 1x2x3: 9:47am On Nov 13, 2021
InTheCloudySky:
She's an introvert. Let her put to bed first, then take it from there

I read a post earlier about a woman who said she lost herself while making sacrifices being a house wife. This is how it starts, she has a good certificate but preferred staying home rather than building herself. From let her give birth, she will end up giving birth to 4 kids then come back to complain. These are decisions women make mostly but come back to play victims.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by descarado: 9:48am On Nov 13, 2021
peacettw:


She is going to another state and I bet he will want her to be visiting him often and on. How do you want her to go about all this 'in her critical state'?
Don't mind that bo.

They should defer the admission, running around school with belle isn't fun no matter how we paint that. From running around with belle to running around with a child while the husband is miles away. He visits once in a while and jet off again leaving her to care for the child and school wahala.
Tomorrow, she is called lazy woman undecided

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Nobody: 9:50am On Nov 13, 2021
and these the true definition of full house wife grin
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by 1x2x3: 9:51am On Nov 13, 2021
Torontoraptors:


Seek medical attention for your wife fast. She may be falling into depression. For the fact she pregnant may be sign of Antepartum depression. Nobody likes to sit around doing nothing.

What has she been doing before getting pregnant? It has nothing to do with Antepartum Depression but pure laziness and unproductivity. And for your information, there are people that like to sit around doing nothing as long as someone is taking care of the bills. Haven't you heard "I want to relax and be taken care of"?

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by yesloaded: 9:52am On Nov 13, 2021
PlayMaker14:
I believe you guys dated for some few months before you decided to tie the knot.... Now, she has turned into a full blown house wife who is now a Zee World specialist because you failed to define the marital responsibilities.

Talk with her one more time, and if she refuse to do anything to support her home, bring it to the notice of her parents and possibly, her “Daddy” in the Lord.


Now, on a lighter note; It may seem as though you really want her to go out for some hours so you can import some young blood to keep you company.... grin

May the Almighty God forgive you grin

As far as am concerned, if the woman no wan work maybe the man should teach her some online job she can be doing from home too

That way, she will not be idle
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by descarado: 9:54am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.
You don't need any advice. I'm pretty sure she didn't ask for the masters. You forced her into it.
You continue pushing her, you two will continue having problems.
Let her stir her own life. If she want to fry akara, it's her choice.

When will you guys stop meddling and learn to mind your business?
Marriage doesn't give you that right. Learn to respect the other party

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by BluntCrazeMan: 9:55am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.
Why didn't you guys try your best to get the admission in any of the universities in Lagos?
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Anieke77(m): 9:57am On Nov 13, 2021
PlayMaker14:
I believe you guys dated for some few months before you decided to tie the knot.... Now, she has turned into a full blown house wife who is now a Zee World specialist because you failed to define the marital responsibilities.

Talk with her one more time, and if she refuse to do anything to support her home, bring it to the notice of her parents and possibly, her “Daddy” in the Lord.


Now, on a lighter note; It may seem as though you really want her to go out for some hours so you can import some young blood to keep you company.... grin
i was mute at the beginning but towards the end I can't control my laughter

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by SavageResponse(m): 9:59am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.

I suggest you wait for her to deliver her baby before she starts actively looking for a job in the meantime you can encourage her to get involved in some online businesses by buying her a laptop
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by altteemy: 9:59am On Nov 13, 2021
@Fredamanda

She loves to be around you. Simple.

Time are hard and everyone should pitch in.

Get her an online job and that solves everything.
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Gee64: 10:00am On Nov 13, 2021
Yes, she has the right to do so because that is their traditional role..House-wife.

There duty is to bear children for you, keep your home and teach the children moral ethics.

That we now make the woman engage in paying jobs outside the home is the cause of indiscipline and immorality amongst the youths of today. My illiterate mother was a House-wife who taught me the way to go and I've not deviated from it!

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by StreetMedia: 10:00am On Nov 13, 2021
Massiveglory:
What Efforts have u made to get her a job?
Has she gotten job offers and refused?
Does she have a business to manage?
The first question is wack!.
Though you are the husband, she needs to step up and get something doing for herself to support.

This area is where I always argue out hell with people. Even if Man gat the whole bill, your one naira as the wife go still bail out someday.

Pick a date, take her to a corporate point. and ask her "what's up?".
Above all, put out the fear of losing her.
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by MummyGreat: 10:01am On Nov 13, 2021
Massiveglory:
What Efforts have u made to get her a job?
Has she gotten job offers and refused?
Does she have a business to manage?
very good questions

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by mmadu5(m): 10:03am On Nov 13, 2021
Gone are the days when women supported their husband . Now the man is left to do all the work and providing until he falls sickand die

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Drmkast: 10:04am On Nov 13, 2021
PlayMaker14:
I believe you guys dated for some few months before you decided to tie the knot.... Now, she has turned into a full blown house wife who is now a Zee World specialist because you failed to define the marital responsibilities.

Talk with her one more time, and if she refuse to do anything to support her home, bring it to the notice of her parents and possibly, her “Daddy” in the Lord.


Now, on a lighter note; It may seem as though you really want her to go out for some hours so you can import some young blood to keep you company....




grin

bro let her be oooo my advise teach her the work at home thing that you do and both enjoy life ...these life is too short to stress yourself if you are reall making money from home ..teache her how to make her money tooo thats all
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Xilsbridalhouse(f): 10:09am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:
Please guys ignore the grammar, I need urgent advice because I am dying slowly towards my wife altitude.

I am a young guy working from home and I try all my best to make my wife happy always but there is one attitude in her which I am not comfortable with and I don't know how else to explain to her after I have tried so much for her to start up something.

She is a graduate with good result but she does not want to do anything rather she prefers staying at home maybe because I am working from home. My problem now is that she is pregnant and she got admission for her masters in one of the Eastern Universities while we live in lagos which she does not want to go and owning to the fact that she is not doing anything in the house and she is not working, I really want her to go for that masters and is causing big issues between two of us.

Please kindly advice me on what to do.
Lol Do you know how many masters holders are out there searching for jobs?

Set up a business for her, that’s the best you can do for her.

I still wonder why you want your wife schooling far away from home with pregnancy?
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by penocrat1(m): 10:13am On Nov 13, 2021
I think I know the OP.Op you know what to do
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by adonis89(m): 10:13am On Nov 13, 2021
Oga u don't have problem at all
Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Mexyz(m): 10:14am On Nov 13, 2021
Saicrumam:
Honestly I de salute married people
I mean married men and women
You won't understand until u enta...

Some men see it as testament to manhood, that's why even your loved ones will want you to get married. But man there's more you won't see until u enta

Be you who, once married you've got to bear and bear...that's when one understands the word tolerance

My old paddy got married...
At first he was drunk, I no gree am hear word
Before I go cap one or two he will remind me he's married.

If something sup for area whey warrant settlement...before I go yan, my guy go make everyone know say he's a responsible man. If na woman matter then he's the one that understands women more

My guy de ma bunk like this...He left home unannounced since Tuesday.
Him never shee shomething
grin grin grin cheesy cheesy..The marriage don tire am?
Brotherly send am go back to him wife grin

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Rubbiish(m): 10:14am On Nov 13, 2021
Fredamanda:


Thanks! But I have tried my best all the interviews she has gone, none was successful and that is why I want her to pick that masters
If none of the job interview was successful, why are you sounding as if she got a job but refused to work? Encouraging your pregnant wife to go do masters in far east while u are in Lagos sound somehow. The only reason for her to leave lagos must be for job, but for msc, it is not worth it. She should re apply for masters in Lagos. The only thing I can deduce from your post is like u need space to flex & your wife is crowding your space. If not, u should be the discouraging her from going to east for Msc with her pregnant condition.

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by Ten06(m): 10:19am On Nov 13, 2021
You want your wife to go out to work.
As she is not going out for work you now want her to go and do her master degree in the eastern part of the country, and you guys reside in Lagos.

It seems you are just looking for avenue to make her to give you space.
I'm not against her going out for work, but your motive should be sincere.

But sending her to go do her master degree in the east is a very bad plan, because when she go there she will so much enjoy herself that when she returns she will not enjoy you again. They will dig her so much that you will become irritating to her

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Re: My Wife Prefers Staying At Home All Day Doing Nothing by DaveHarry(m): 10:20am On Nov 13, 2021
KiNg0G:


Your mumu noe be here.


With normal bsc, she'nor won work.

You still want force her to do masters make she carry the paper put for house.


You nor just get Sense at all

De go check the Op well.

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