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Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by gstream: 2:45pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
You don't deserve to be married.. just stay forever single..haba. You selfishly arm twisted him into agreeing to have only one child, now you want the family planning to be on him...are you a beast or a human?. It's obvious you are going to kill the "Bro" las las. please just release him back into the ocean to relate with his kind, not cold-blooded humans like you. Mercychen: 3 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Tallesty1(m): 2:46pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Raalsalghul:You're right. She should simply undergo a hysterectomy. No pregnancy, no period. Fvck till they kingdom comes. 5 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Bouncing2(m): 2:47pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Man that went through vasectomy are still complaining about getting seriously unfit,etc. I guess guyman no gree cos it goes against his personal volition,,,,no too go de press our brother man,,,,,,u simply no like him,,,y not TELL him... This is sh** ,, there's hysterectomy ma'am,,why not go ahead with that one. You simply don't like our brother man,,**yucks NB: STOP BEING UNNECESSARILY WICKED. 1 Like |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Danielnicks: 2:47pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
A lady comes up with the idea of having just one child, and convinces her lover to agree to it. Without even missing a beat she goes on to suggest he should be the one to undergo said procedure, because apparently she's thought it through and it makes perfect sense to her; ergo it should make perfect sense to him. In this world of divorces and God forbid dying children being on the rise. What's to say you guys can't get divorced later and the dude finds another woman but can't procreate? Or let's say the child kicks the bucket? and you're left childless. You always have the option of getting down with someone else. But the nigga who had the decision forced on him is in total limbo as to what to do. I will go on to state without a doubt, that at no point did you ever reason things from this perspective. I couldn't marry someone as myopic and delusional as you. My apologies in advance. Good day. 5 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by MrColdsweat: 2:47pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
May we never come across a Lady with this level of selfishness. 9 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by yommen: 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Dreadshy: At least, it's her wish to have just a kid. He shouldn't be the one to 'castrate' himself. Orokoro! 2 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Ivimmanuel: 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Sister why would you want to make a man's child miserable nah? Just stay single and leave your life abeg 1 Like |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Nobody: 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Hathor5: Like I care if you cared? ![]() You should have as well mentioned her in a dead thread to express your like for her comment since it was because of her comment you reacted to the post. But because you just want to ( as usual) express your dislike for this moniker, you had to come here and say trash. Uchu! 3 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by babtoundey(m): 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I know what the guy is thinking. God forbids, if something happens to the one and only child, he will be childless while you the originator of the horrible idea may end up living with as many kids as you want. I don't want many children but no circumstances will make me agree to having one child. My answer will always be an affirmative "No". 1 Like |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by TheWolfen(m): 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
I just weak Maryjane001: |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by TheRedpillguy: 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mercychen:Lol |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by UDUJ(m): 2:48pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Michelle55: She lies too much. I know her series of old monikers. I can wake up from my sleep and read a post and know it's her. She seeks attention too much and the attention she cannot get in real life she seeks to get virtually online. Nonsense. 10 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Nobody: 2:49pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Actually, the risk associated with vasectomy is greater, reversing it isnt 100% effective. Now, what if the kid died' How will you handle that? I think you should agree to being the one to do the family planning, relationships arent buid on suspicions, but trust. 3 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by ginggerxy: 2:49pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
AdaSunshine:I'm so glad this is coming from a lady . Op is so selfish 2 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by abbey621(m): 2:50pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
SIMPS will sooner or later find themselves in deep shit, your reasons for wanting only one child is purely selfish and you alone should bear the consequences, the guy accepted because he cares for you but honestly he's an idiot for even entertaining such. I could understand after 2 or 3 children but just one, what now happens when life happens, what happens when that one child decides to be a Bobrisky or worse? What happens if that child is born with some ill health? Why box yourself in a corner? Humans thinking they are wiser than God now......laughable! 2 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by DrDax: 2:50pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mercychen: Vasectomy is basically irreversible. God forbid you lose the child, your only child in future. I think you are unreasonable. I could say more of what I think of your reaction to his response but you will not like it. 1 Like |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by ikennamadu1(m): 2:50pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
One child policy... Until he gives birth to dozens outside |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by allahIsAnIDOL: 2:51pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mercychen: What if the only child eventually dies, what will happen to the man? He'll be rendered useless? And you'll move on and dump him just like that. This is bullshit and I support him a lot. Nonsense 1 Like |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by egunna(m): 2:51pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Dreadshy:no,make she remove d womb na him sure pass.she dey craze 2 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Nobody: 2:51pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mercychen: You should be the one to do tubal ligation. Free the guy. If you want 1 child, then you should plan everything on yourself. Why didn't you suggest tubal ligation on yourself? It is safe as well |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by jimter44(m): 2:51pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
See a selfish lady! You want an only child and you don't want to do hysterectomy, you are forcing vasectomy on someone son. I don't think you are ready for marriage. By the time age starts knocking at your door, you will back down with your stringent condition. I don't think the parents of the guy would accept that. 2 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by sammirano: 2:52pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Girl. You are vile, evil & terrifyingly wicked! 5 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Acidosis(m): 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
JovialJune: Will you advise your brothers to embrace vasectomy after one child? Talking about degrading people, I'll advise you to look at the mirror o. You're the one making assumptions here that African men are probably backward for not embracing a so called one child policy that failed woefully in one of the most liberal nations on earth. I'm only living my reality rather than making up assumptions. China is the only country that has ever declared a one child policy and that act has been long abolished. Now they're trying to fix the mess they got themselves into. Those who embraced that policy are almost insignificant in relative term. If you ask 100 Americans, you'll be lucky to find 0.5% agreeing to one child policy. I'm not sure you'll get 0.1% agreeing to not only one child, but also vasectomy! (Ask me for the link to the survey, if you need it). We don't have to drag this too far. We can simply close the thread if you agree to link your brother with OP. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by 77up(m): 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
AdaSunshine:God will bless you sister. I'm happy this comment came from woman, the bitter truth here is , she's very selfish. 2 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Nobody: 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
AdaSunshine: And the lady in question isn't a kid o. She's nothing less than 37 years. See her talking childishly. What a very selfish, and proud girl. If it's beauty she has that's making her talk and demand anyhow, one day that beauty will fade. All that would be left are wrinkles. "....cos I am decent, honest, hardworking bla bla bla..". If you think that's all it takes to keep a man,then you must be suffering from tunnel vision. Such a very silly girl. He called you and you refused to pick, acting up. How can a 35y+ woman be acting like a teenager. 11 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by obinna58(m): 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Not only he should have one child but also fry his sperm for you. I wonder who she thinks she is. Na this kind thing dey make person loose temper kpatapata 2 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by Karleb(m): 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
![]() ![]() They have finished OP today. 7 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by VERDA: 2:53pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Kobojunkie: I think people should be very careful what they ask of others, like the other guy you quoted mentioned, if for some reason they get a divorce or something happens to her, nobody prays for this though...this agreement means he is not to marry again, and if he does he can't father a child with the other lady... I do not see most women agreeing to this... The man obviously does not want one child and is probably thinking about the future including what the person you quoted mentioned... Oga should have just quietly told her no and moved on, I don't know why people like complicating their lives. The woman on her part is very selfish..you ask someone to make such a huge sacrifice and you are not willing to 1 Like |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by egunna(m): 2:54pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Mercychen:so he shud now come and make himself sterile.suppose anything happens to d one Child u have.have u ever thought of that?u shud try to reason before u come up with ridiculous ideas.no mentally sound Nigerian will agree to ur bullshit. |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by gstream: 2:54pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
Lighter note ke?. This is what Yoruba call Agbako...may God deliver our children from ladies of this ilk. Pinkzebra: 4 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by egunna(m): 2:54pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
nellyelitz:no wonder she has been single.who go marry weirdo. 6 Likes |
Re: Could He Have Ulterior Motives By Disagreeing To This? Should I Opt Out? by efighter: 2:55pm On Dec 04, 2021 |
The OP is a wicked witch from the pit of Hell. I advise the witch to go and marry FFK. FFK does not want any child again. 6 Likes |
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