Streetmalam:


I ain't puting any expectations on her,I have my business that I am doing just that the unfortunate person came and made away with my money and more over it's this same guy that am pregnant that start the business for me without my #5 on all the whole expenses and it's now from profit I was able to there for her all through but now am down and she refused to help me or even my last sibling because I have been there for the two of em still she got this extent of earn some money per month at least she should try to help to reduce my worries. Am not really make it compulsory she must help beside my guy has made request from his new job to get at least 300k for me to start up with again.

TheWolfen:
Hmm.
Don't put any expectations on your anyone for they only humans and you should always expect humans to act like human so you won't be surprise by any of their act.
It is hard to fault your sister even with the little information you provided but I think you should focus to get help elsewhere.

MrBrownJay1:


so now for this above reason, you believe that your sister must bend over backwards and kill herself because of your issues?!

in life, NEVER EVER expect people to be you, they will always be THEMSELVES!!! i am sorry you had to learn the hard way, now stop wasting time expecting nonsense of others and SORT YOUR OWN LIFE OUT!

bigjackass:
It's very possible that she doesn't have 50k to give you. Infact I don't expect her to have. Because 50k is a meagre salary and she has been working for just 6 months. It will take being extremely stingy to herself for a woman to have any savings on 50k salary. Feeding alone will consume more than 30k and that is with plenty management. Daily commuting, clothes, skin, hair, airtime and data, and so on.

greenmonk:

I just wonder how new generation of Nigerians reason or you just want to be woke. She laboured to train her younger sibling even when she had nothing and she didn't frown at her lifestyle but when she's hit by adversity her sister remembers that she has her own problems and you people are here justifying her selfishness.
Op, I pray that you find the help you're looking for. Just forget you have any siblings but also try to acquire some skills even on part-time basis to ensure that you are protected from the current situation in future.

TheWolfen:
Hmm.
Don't put any expectations on your anyone for they only humans and you should always expect humans to act like human so you won't be surprise by any of their act.
It is hard to fault your sister even with the little information you provided but I think you should focus to get help elsewhere.
May God see you through

Streetmalam:


I ain't puting any expectations on her,I have my business that I am doing just that the unfortunate person came and made away with my money and more over it's this same guy that am pregnant that start the business for me without my #5 on all the whole expenses and it's now from profit I was able to there for her all through but now am down and she refused to help me or even my last sibling because I have been there for the two of em still she got this extent of earn some money per month at least she should try to help to reduce my worries. Am not really make it compulsory she must help beside my guy has made request from his new job to get at least 300k for me to start up with again.

MrBrownJay1:


it doesnt matter whether you are an orphan or from an extended family... you have to stop expecting people to do what YOU want them to do with their finances. she has her own life to live, her own issues, her own wahala to deal with... and if she decides she cant help you then so be it. see as you are hellbent into believing that she MUST help you by fire or by force?!?! go put that negative energy on the dude who empregnated you instead, HE should be the one you turn to and DEMAND he does something, not your sister. she said she aint go it and cant help you, and that should be the end of the story.

stop making plans on other's people pockets, just because you put your own self into some trouble! your misplaced hormones are acting up.

no wonder people dont want to talk to you or answer your calls, when you reason the way you do!

NoToPile:




I know it's painful for you that someone you squeezed out and gave something out of the very little you had to at least help her stand her feet is now ignoring your calls simply because it is assumed it because of the 50k you are calling. Even if she doesn't have the money can't she just say it and stop ignoring your calls.

But It's better you are learning this now some learnt the very hard way at the ripe old age.

Since she's not picking stop calling, and for the youngest sis dothe little you can do to help her stand on her feet once you are financially balanced.

I am not surprised she's not even supporting the girl with small change, it's all about sacrifice, some people don't know what it means, you did it for her, she might not do it for either you or your sister just understand that, she might not be a bad person, shes just not wired for such.


I hope you bounce back soon.

greenmonk:

I just wonder how new generation of Nigerians reason or you just want to be woke. She laboured to train her younger sibling even when she had nothing and she didn't frown at her lifestyle but when she's hit by adversity her sister remembers that she has her own problems and you people are here justifying her selfishness.
Op, I pray that you find the help you're looking for. Just forget you have any siblings but also try to acquire some skills even on part-time basis to ensure that you are protected from the current situation in future.

Streetmalam:


You are with me perspectively. I wanted her to be somebody my heart would be like a house without windows and doors so we will be able to push further but her is so deep that she even don't care about our last sibling and she knew how life has been rough to us as orphans without help just this guy, he is like God sent to me.

Rubbiish:
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Rubbiish:
Just keep doing ur best & don't think too much about her. U are a good person

baby124:

Why did you delete what you wrote. That was a great post. She definitely needed that post. See as you advice like normal person . Rubbiish my second husband that year.

Rubbiish:

Went through her profile & saw a contradicting post.

Rubbiish:

Went through her profile & saw a contradicting post.

baby124:
08121334797. Is this not your phone number? Did you want to wail here enough till people give you money? You think you can succeed in life by tricking people and getting ahead by lying to them? God don punish you today!

baby124:
Streetmalam, so you are a man wasting our time here and using us to catch cruise? You better go and do a thorough check of your mental health because, I don’t think you are ok. You want to spoil and cast doubt in this place where people come with real life issues. Shame on you.

baby124:
08121334797. Is this not your phone number? Did you want to wail here enough till people give you money? You think you can succeed in life by tricking people and getting ahead by lying to them? God don punish you today!

Streetmalam:


Has any of my text here looks like I am begging anyone for money? Anyways i used my husband's phone to post my Borden to seek opinions.

Let me used this opportunity to do small ads
If felt you have saved enough and want to get ride, call the above number for Nigeria used or TOKUMBO cars at affordable price @de caston auto. That's my husband's new job

Streetmalam:

My sister is no other person to me.
This guy has been the source of my being able to care for my sister while on her skill aquisition.

baby124:

Oh you know how you were being manipulative. You are a man. You know the helpless orphan story will always get people. Helpless orphaned and pregnant with a boyfriend, not husband who recently changed jobs but has to borrow money for you to start out. You did not back down and were consistent on your plot, despite the fact you were advised to go and see your so called sister. You tried to paint a pathetic picture.

Even Rubbiish was moved and wanted to send you money before checking your history. You know exactly what you are doing here. Everyone has advised you on what to do, why do you keep going on and on about being in need? You are a man, close this thread a d go and find hard work to do.

Streetmalam:


Let me be clear to you all o...
Am not here to ask anyone for money o, opinions is what I seek...I don't understand why this person is not getting my point straight. Am a man yes but am using my husband's phone to post here Which I explained earlier on...

May any of you not fall into situation like this because it's hard to bare and think forward in such condition...

I pray again... May you not use your mouth to invite problem that will last your life time because I didn't force you must to comment on this post before you start reigning abuse on me abeg you

Streetmalam:
I don't know your area of study based on education if it based on counceling or law you are not doing well at all.

My reason here is hear people's opinions on what could made her act this way to me and her own younger sis whom she has refused to help too.

All your comments are based on why I got pregnant for the guy in the first place and this same person has been there for the both of through the whole time besides not all successful couple start their life with wedlock especially the less privileged like me #all fingers are not equal we may grow up big tomorrow and wedding is not age limited.

Pls come up with a better opinion not blames.

She is still my sister I can't just forget her like that rather I will live her to do what she thought is good for her. No one knows tomorrow she may come to need my help and I will be limited which I have never done to her
For once in our lives that's it

Streetmalam:


Let me be clear to you all o...
Am not here to ask anyone for money o, opinions is what I seek...I don't understand why this person is not getting my point straight. Am a man yes but am using my husband's phone to post here Which I explained earlier on..

May any of you not fall into situation like this because it's hard to bare and think forward in such condition...

I pray again... May you not use your mouth to invite problem that will last your life time because I didn't force you must to comment on this post before you start reigning abuse on me abeg you