I have never said this to a guy before but I'll have to say it to u Op, from the screenshot conversation, I'll say u are a primitive being op, too stiff and rigid... U take life too serious that u don't even know how to read emotions... I believe u act same way with ur fellow guy. U don't deserve that girl u call ur gf cos she is far more mentally advanced than u are. So it's better u breakup with her and make her find her match while u keep living ur serious stiff life.....

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!!!!

Honestly brrrh; Text or call her back.. u guys should meet face-to-face and talk things out.

Sincerely, it’s not worth calling the relationship off. I can see you’re kinda a guy who doesn’t like to be stressed or who doesn’t like argument..


She sounds like she doesn’t want the breakup. Wooooooo ogbeni; no girl is perfect o ajeh.. you didn’t even catch her cheating. Lmao. What if u caught her cheating? U fit go commit suicide. LoL.

She can just be among the almost perfect girl out there; Don’t lose the girl coz of mere arguments brrrh... u literally have no idea about the next girl...

At the bolded, you have said it all comrade. From the screenshots above, that girl be like person wey go get sense! She seem very mature and thinks logically.

TimFisher2:



You are a Mumu oooo



Well i won't be tempted to blast women this time around...some of our beautiful women deserves some respect

That lady loves you...and i did not see any crime she committed rather i see a Foolish ego maniac man that calls himself Man of the house


I am happy she dumped you..let her go and find someone that will cherish and respect her


Pride no go kill this man!


I see OP running after her...I see her rejecting OP..telling him is to late...I see OP wailing and hitting his head on the bathroom mable ....I see OP not eating for three months..... I see OP falling in love again with an Olosho...I see OP tired of relationships because of what he passed through

I see OP becoming weak docile timid and quiet because his spirit has been broken

I see OP coming to Nairaland again to spill venom on women

I see Marianangels falling in love with OP...just to finish him kpatakpata for the last time

I see OP leaving woman matter for next 40 years and becoming a proud bachelor


This I have seen!

we see same

yungzed360:


O'yes it is man. Whatever will be a disturbance to me should go. Not even my parents. This is usually how it begins and then into marriage and then the frequent torments and then u begin to wonder how u got into it.

it's ur mind and foolish ego that is tormenting u and not that innocent lady u call ur girlfriend. From my point of view, I think she is even doing u a favour still sticking around with someone like you... It must have been really chocking and draining for her both physically and mentally... U did well by calling off the relationship... I'm actually a women basher, but ur case is a no no.....

clevybrown:
I have never said this to a guy before but I'll have to say it to u Op, from the screenshot conversation, I'll say u are a primitive being op, too stiff and rigid... U take life too serious that u don't even know how to read emotions... I believe u act same way with ur fellow guy. U don't deserve that girl u call ur gf cos she is far more mentally advanced than u are. So it's better u breakup with her and make her find her match while u keep living ur serious stiff life.....

You won't ever understand man. So that's it.

clevybrown:
it's ur mind and foolish ego that is tormenting u and not that innocent lady u call ur girlfriend. From my point of view, I think she is even doing u a favour still sticking around with someone like you... It must have been really chocking and draining for her both physically and mentally... U did well by calling off the relationship... I'm actually a women basher, but ur case is a no no.....

Lolzzz... Okay. Thank you.

clevybrown:
it's ur mind and foolish ego that is tormenting u and not that innocent lady u call ur girlfriend. From my point of view, I think she is even doing u a favour still sticking around with someone like you... It must have been really chocking and draining for her both physically and mentally... U did well by calling off the relationship... I'm actually a women basher, but ur case is a no no.....

You have said it all comrade!!!!

TimFisher2:



You are a Mumu oooo



Well i won't be tempted to blast women this time around...some of our beautiful women deserves some respect

That lady loves you...and i did not see any crime she committed rather i see a Foolish ego maniac man that calls himself Man of the house


I am happy she dumped you..let her go and find someone that will cherish and respect her


Pride no go kill this man!


I see OP running after her...I see her rejecting OP..telling him is to late...I see OP wailing and hitting his head on the bathroom mable ....I see OP not eating for three months..... I see OP falling in love again with an Olosho...I see OP tired of relationships because of what he passed through

I see OP becoming weak docile timid and quiet because his spirit has been broken

I see OP coming to Nairaland again to spill venom on women

I see Marianangels falling in love with OP...just to finish him kpatakpata for the last time

I see OP leaving woman matter for next 40 years and becoming a proud bachelor


This I have seen!

U are not alone my prophet, the Vision is clear and visible....

wiseone28:
we see same

You no well...welcome Prophet

clevybrown:

U are not alone my prophet, the Vision is clear and visible....

;

You dey mind that guy...some people sef!

wiseone28:
we see same

Hahahahahahaha.... To begin with. I'm a foodie... I'm a kind-hearted man and anyone who has come in contact with me loves. So my man. This una vision far sir.

yungzed360:


You won't ever understand man. So that's it.

What is there to understand? we have read the chat and she did absolutely nothing wrong.

She seem very mature and intelligent too. You should know the difference between a wife material and a gold digger. If you have a girl who's as understanding as that girl, then why complaining? People argue in relationships no mean say make dem break up. However, for as long as she's not billing you or laying her financial problems on you, then she's one of the few sensible ladies in Nigeria. Her types are rare to find

yungzed360:
Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

op na 2% u dey use send breakup msg?

yungzed360:
Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

We don't care. When you she shows you her pant and more will you come to tell us you have taken her back.

debbydams:
op na 2% u dey use send breakup msg?

You no well So on-top the family matter wey dey ground, na battery life you see

GoodHardDick:


What is there to understand? we have read the chat and she did absolutely nothing wrong.

She seem very mature and intelligent too. You should know the difference between a wife material and a gold digger. If you have a girl who's as understanding as that girl, then complaining? People argue in relationships no mean say make dem break up. However, for as long as she's not billing you or laying her financial problems on you, then she's one of the few sensible ladies in Nigeria. Her types are rare to find

Is there any girl in this country that doesn't bill or because I did say that one? Those are personal things to disclose... But thanks anyways.

DoctorOlasDesk:


You no well So on-top the family matter wey dey ground, na battery life you see

na that ba3 % just dey pain me pass

Lucky girl. She has been "released" by a bad listener and an obvious narcissist. Hopefully she has good outlets to let out frustration and resentment. "Unnecessary" argument indeed. It could be necessary to her. Money should silence her voice and lead to her complaints being overtly/ covertly ignored? "I don't like", "I don't like", "man", "Respect". Is she being respected? Everything is not about you, especially if a person has been/ feels offended. Typical self-centered, psychopathic gender.

Op I think you made a quick decision even tho she is a woman she is still human . Everybody need to air there opinions on issues . You can still sort things out with her.

yungzed360:



Is there any girl in this country that doesn't bill or because I did say that one? Those are personal things to disclose... But thanks anyways.

Baba if she dey bill you, discharge her asap and move on. You're not her father! Neither is she your wife!!

Ex

yungzed360:



That's my girl bro.

yungzed360:
More screenshots

Guy you 4 buy sex doll or build robot make u date, u never marry her u don day form dictator for her body, make pride and arrogance nor make u use your wife take do girlfriend, all you've typed reeks of arrogance, you want her to keep quiet whenever you're talking, have you ever thought about keeping quiet so as to hear her out? You're the man ba? Na which kind native mentality b that? You're to compliment each other, it is how relationship works, go resolve with her make una try understand each other better.

Nice one , the Op isn’t acting right . It’s clear to see that the girl really loves him , it’s very clear to see.

oilmane:



Guy you 4 buy sex doll or build robot make u date, u never marry her u don day form dictator for her body, make pride and arrogance nor make u use your wife take do girlfriend, all you've typed reeks of arrogance, you want her to keep quiet whenever you're talking, have you ever thought about keeping quiet so as to hear her out? You're the man ba? Na which kind native mentality b that? You're to compliment each other, it is how relationship works, go resolve with her make una try understand each other better.

TimFisher2:



You are a Mumu oooo



Well i won't be tempted to blast women this time around...some of our beautiful women deserves some respect

That lady loves you...and i did not see any crime she committed rather i see a Foolish ego maniac man that calls himself Man of the house


I am happy she dumped you..let her go and find someone that will cherish and respect her


Pride no go kill this man!


I see OP running after her...I see her rejecting OP..telling him is to late...I see OP wailing and hitting his head on the bathroom mable ....I see OP not eating for three months..... I see OP falling in love again with an Olosho...I see OP tired of relationships because of what he passed through

I see OP becoming weak docile timid and quiet because his spirit has been broken

I see OP coming to Nairaland again to spill venom on women

I see Marianangels falling in love with OP...just to finish him kpatakpata for the last time

I see OP leaving woman matter for next 40 years and becoming a proud bachelor


This I have seen!

wiseone28:
we see same

Hahahahahahaha.... To begin with. I'm a foodie... I'm a kind-hearted man and anyone who has come in contact with me loves. So my man. This una vision far ehnn.

LIGHTHEARTED0:
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All i want to say to you op, is that, that girl still love you, at least you haven't catch her cheating on you


But your 'i want to be a man in the relationship' mentality won't agree with you

No! That's not it. It's not about the I want to be a man. She doesn't even listen. I can send just one message and she is sending 10 or more already. You might not understand how annoying that is sha

yungzed360:


O'yes it is man. Whatever will be a disturbance to me should go. Not even my parents. This is usually how it begins and then into marriage and then the frequent torments and then u begin to wonder how u got into it.

Bro...
One more chance....just one more

osmobil5:


Bro...
One more chance....just one more

If he keeps begging begged to maintain a relationship, he shouldn't bother. He should leave her for someone better till he matures

yungzed360:



That's my girl bro.

Lol see who wan break up. "That's my girl bro" hahaha you just dey form you no get mind for the heart break you just want small drama make she beg u

Op just dey bed because him dey suspect say she dey give another guy the coochie wey him never mark register. And e sure me say op dey cheat with other girls.

Call her and sit her down so you guys can discuss.She loves you.you guys have not just understood yourselves enof.i speak frm experience as the experience master

Omo this epistle too long ooo. All these bf gf people sef. Oya take heart, go lick mango. Everything will be alright.

yungzed360:
Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

soundOsonic:
From what I saw, the lady isn't even a lady.
Ladies don't type like this.
They are less logical when you drop break up message on them like that.
They wouldn't want to analyze the situation. They will just go full emotional blackmail, that's if they love you or are a leech.
If they don't even care from the onset na block.
Your babe na guy.
This one na acting joor

The moment She started calling him “Sir” I knew it is finished. I think the chat is real but the girl pass the OP. There are girls like that. When you break a core Edo girls heart, she’ll switch from calling you baby to “Bros”