Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

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All i want to say to you op, is that, that girl still love you, at least you haven't catch her cheating on you


But your 'i want to be a man in the relationship' mentality won't agree with you

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Upcoming movie and film producers pls take note

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Well i won't be tempted to blast women this time around...some of our beautiful women deserves some respect

That lady loves you...and i did not see any crime she committed rather i see a Foolish ego maniac man that calls himself Man of the house


I am happy she dumped you..let her go and find someone that will cherish and respect her


Pride no go kill this man!


I see OP running after her...I see her rejecting OP..telling him is to late...I see OP wailing and hitting his head on the bathroom mable ....I see OP not eating for three months..... I see OP falling in love again with an Olosho...I see OP tired of relationships because of what he passed through

I see OP becoming weak docile timid and quiet because his spirit has been broken

I see OP coming to Nairaland again to spill venom on women

I see Marianangels falling in love with OP...just to finish him kpatakpata for the last time

I see OP leaving woman matter for next 40 years and becoming a proud bachelor


This I have seen!

yungzed360:
Sincerely I don't even know what to say. I'm heartbroken. Although I called it off... I'm an emotional person and it's the good state
of my emotionss before anything. I won't have a girl who challenges me at every opportunity given. I'm not a woman beater and I won't ever do such. I have lots of sisters but sincerely some girls Sha... This is a relationship I'm in where I'll have to send money when I can, make the calls. And after all she tells me I'm not doing her a favour.. I've not even seen her bra to begin with. Where's then the favour she is doing me? So unfortunate...

Guy this isn't worth calling a relationship quits for o. This lady appears mature, calm and has your interest at heart. It doesn't imply she doesn't have weakness. You should lower your expectations and reduce finding faults.

Those rudeness thingey you're picking in your conversations is your own mind picking and finding faults. It's a state of mental restlessness. Yes, she may have her share of wrongs. You also condition your mind to reduce finding faults and both of you develop communicative habits. You're both in the place of bonding where communication creates chaos. Work on it, not walk away


Redpilling doesn't mean we deny our humanity and our core essence as humans. To come out to call off a relationship which is owned by both parties out of no where is extremely cruel, abusive and narcissitic. Bro, back in the days, myself an U-bunja intensely created awareness about redpilling, simping and all. So, I know what's up. Do not throw away a woman who loves you away if the reasons are not very very valid. It's wrong

OP, That girl is hurt and she seem very mature and logical in thinking. Honestly I'm impressed with her thoughts of reasoning

Redpiller doesn't mean we shouldn't listen to the opinions of others. You should Listen to the opinions of others And then decide whether to accept it or not.

Honestly bro, I see nothing wrong with what she has done. As long as she's not billing you or laying her financial problems on you, then she's one of the few sensible ladies in Nigeria.

DoctorOlasDesk:



Guy this isn't worth calling a relationship quits for o. This lady appears mature, calm and has your interest at heart. It doesn't imply she doesn't have weakness. You should lower your expectations and reduce finding faults.

Those rudeness thingey you're picking in your conversations is your own mind picking and finding faults. It's a state of mental restlessness. Yes, she may have her share of wrongs. You also condition your mind to reduce finding faults and both of you develop communicative habits. You're both in the place of bonding where communication creates chaos. Work on it, not walk away

O'yes it is man. Whatever will be a disturbance to me should go. Not even my parents. This is usually how it begins and then into marriage and then the frequent torments and then u begin to wonder how u got into it.

Damnnn!!!!!

Honestly brrrh; Text or call her back.. u guys should meet face-to-face and talk things out.

Sincerely, it’s not worth calling the relationship off. I can see you’re kinda a guy who doesn’t like to be stressed or who doesn’t like argument..


She sounds like she doesn’t want the breakup. Wooooooo ogbeni; no girl is perfect o ajeh.. you didn’t even catch her cheating. Lmao. What if u caught her cheating? U fit go commit suicide. LoL.

She can just be among the almost perfect girl out there; Don’t lose the girl coz of mere arguments brrrh... u literally have no idea about the next girl...

Oh

You are just stressing this young girl jare...
Me I no see wrong she do...

See, as woman plenty for world reach, the one meant for you no dey pass one or two...I’m not sayin she’s the one...but if you dey use petty matter pursue woman...there’s high chances you go pursue the right one for you...guy, na karishika remain after that..

yungzed360:


O'yes it is man. Whatever will be a disturbance to me should go. Not even my parents. This is usually how it begins and then into marriage and then the frequent torments and then u begin to wonder how u got into it.

This mindset is also not healthy for a relationship. Listen, when you have downtimes, ask for time to think and clear your head. Love rampant in early years is not always easily replaced oh. This isn't trouble enough Use it as a bonding tool. call her in person, hold hands and tell her how you both want each other to communicate. Love builds, not destroy at every or any opportunity

If as the man, you stoop down to pick her up, you win more and more of her loyalty and respect, cause she then sees you as having the ability to maintain coolness under pressure and willfully entrusts herself to you more and more

Don't cut that girl off o, abeg you

Nollywood no do pass this one. Oga,u both should rest ijn

I felt emotional at her last message. She's really hurt. But I don't advice you to go back. Else it'll be worse.

Bro you also need to learn your mistakes too. Make a reflection on the just ended relationship. Make amends as to your future relationship.

From your chat, I'll say from the beginning of a relationship always make her know your type of person, open up , be real so she can understand your likes and dislike.

All the best bro.

xaliujokes:
I felt emotional at her last message. She's really hurt. But I don't advice you to go back. Else it'll be worse.

Bro you also need to learn your lessons too. Make a reflection on the just ended relationship. Make amends as to your future relationship.

From your chat, I'll say from the beginning of a relationship always make her know your type of person, open up , be real so she can understand your likes and dislike.

All the best bro.

I disagree. Who is at the end of any relationship breakup that doesn't get emotional. Her composure rather shows she cares and love him not the imaginary evil you're seeing

From what I saw, the lady isn't even a lady.
Ladies don't type like this.
They are less logical when you drop break up message on them like that.
They wouldn't want to analyze the situation. They will just go full emotional blackmail, that's if they love you or are a leech.
If they don't even care from the onset na block.
Your babe na guy.
This one na acting joor

xaliujokes:
I felt emotional at her last message. She's really hurt. But I don't advice you to go back. Else it'll be worse.

Bro you also need to learn your lessons too. Make a reflection on the just ended relationship. Make amends as to your future relationship.

From your chat, I'll say from the beginning of a relationship always make her know your type of person, open up , be real so she can understand your likes and dislike.

All the best bro.

Sincerely this is exactly what I'll be doing.. it's better honestly.. it's a hard decision I made, it's hurt me equally but it's best for me. Thanks man

soundOsonic:
From what I saw, the lady isn't even a lady.
Ladies don't type like this.
They are less logical when you drop break up message on them like that.
They wouldn't want to analyze the situation. They will just go full emotional blackmail, that's if they love you or are a leech.
If they don't even care from the onset na block.
Your babe na guy.
This one na acting joor

That's my girl bro.

DoctorOlasDesk:



This mindset is also not healthy for a relationship. Listen, when you have downtimes, ask for time to think and clear your head. Love rampant in early years is not always easily replaced oh. This isn't trouble enough Use it as a bonding tool. call her in person, hold hands and tell her how you both want each other to communicate. Love builds, not destroy at every or any opportunity

If as the man, you stoop down to pick her up, you win more and more of her loyalty and respect, cause she then sees you as having the ability to maintain coolness under pressure and willfully entrusts herself to you more and more

Don't cut that girl off o, abeg you

They are a lot better things to worry about man. I won't let any girl try to play with me again...

yungzed360:


They are a lot better things to worry about man. I won't let any girl try to play with me again...

Yes. Money and all. Just take it easy. Being in love or with a woman doesn't make you weak or less a man. I was talking to a lady trying to talk herself out of a relationship last week. I want to say what i told her to you here too.. Whatever you seek outside relationship, you can also pursue inside a relationship. Perspective change and adjustment is all that's needed

DoctorOlasDesk:



I disagree. Who is at the end of any relationship breakup that doesn't get emotional. Her composure rather shows she cares and love him not the imaginary evil you're seeing

You'll always disagree, unless she's already his wife, we can advise him to be patient and endure. He is a man, do you know how men feels when they are uncomfortable in a relationship?? Nothing will ever work.

If your woman understands you as a man, even if your are a devil your ways will change.

Women are powerful spiritually than men, if he doesn't feel safe with her, he should move on. Men go where they feel safe..

Don't go too emotional for the lady.

soundOsonic:
From what I saw, the lady isn't even a lady.
Ladies don't type like this.
They are less logical when you drop break up message on them like that.
They wouldn't want to analyze the situation. They will just go full emotional blackmail, that's if they love you or are a leech.
If they don't even care from the onset na block.
Your babe na guy.
This one na acting joor

You are wise bro

xaliujokes:


You'll always disagree, unless she's already his wife, we can advise him to be patient and endure. He is a man, do you know how men feels when they are uncomfortable in a relationship?? Nothing will ever work.

If your woman understands you as a man, even if your are a devil your ways will change.

Women are powerful spiritually than men, if he doesn't feel safe with her, he should move on. Men go where they feel safe..

Don't go too emotional for the lady.

Smiles. I still joined people in marriage last year. I've joint quit a few marriages. So, I know my gun. Can you tell us what in what you read makes you suggest evil will happen. Let's start with your own perception of the events first

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!!!!

Honestly brrrh; Text or call her back.. u guys should meet face-to-face and talk things out.

Sincerely, it’s not worth calling the relationship off. I can see you’re kinda a guy who doesn’t like to be stressed or who doesn’t like argument..


She sounds like she doesn’t want the breakup. Wooooooo ogbeni; no girl is perfect o ajeh.. you didn’t even catch her cheating. Lmao. What if u caught her cheating? U fit go commit suicide. LoL.

She can just be among the almost perfect girl out there; Don’t lose the girl coz of mere arguments brrrh... u literally have no idea about the next girl...

Exactly. Sincerely I don't want any stress especially from a girl now at all.. I love her alot. It's so unfortunate. There was the chance for her to agree, change from arguing unncesessarily and we would be fine bt she still continued, u can imagine.

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Quit girlfriend wahala till you are ready to marry

yungzed360:


Exactly. Sincerely I don't want any stress especially from a girl now at all.. I love her alot. It's so unfortunate. There was the chance for her to agree, change from arguing unncesessarily and we would be fine bt she still continued, u can imagine.

Let her know you don't tolerate any unnecessary arguments at all. No one is perfect though.

For me as long as she doesn't bill you or lay her down her financial problems on you, then she's one of the few sensible ladies in Nigeria.

Next time when she starts arguing unnecessarily, just ghost her. Na she sef go call you begin beg