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| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 6:22pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@ Cuddlemi I can only imagine what your username stands for , you on the other hand got it all wrong about me. I'm an atheist , don't believe in God , god or other deities. If you are smart enough , tho I doubt that , you'll see the correlation between my belief and username. Yeah I'll agree with you that some guys are to blame for the way girls gold dig ( if there's a word as such ) but that's what differentiates a man from a boy. I'll like to indulge you in a battle of wits but you are obviously unarmed so run along little girl and go play ten-ten. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 6:34pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@ Cuddlemi I can only imagine what your username stands for , you on the other hand got it all wrong about me. I'm an atheist , don't believe in God , god or other deities. If you are smart enough , tho I doubt that , you'll see the correlation between my belief and username. Yeah I'll agree with you that some guys are to blame for the way girls gold dig ( if there's a word as such ) but that's what differentiates a man from a boy. I'll like to indulge you in a battle of wits but you are obviously unarmed so run along little girl and go play ten-ten. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by jeffman(m): 6:49pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
Guys no need to complain. d babe is simply going for what she wants: A rich guy. It's ur job to either fulfill her desire by being rich or go for a girl who doesnt require a rich guy. i am/will choose the second option. Do u call a guy wicked because he wants a 9/10 beauty girl. absolutely not. I also tell ladies who hate on those guys to leave dem alone. everyone one knows what dey want from life. we all have some expectations from our would-be spouses. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by ronkebp(f): 7:07pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
Cuddle mi, i gbadun your post on page 3, you are infact 110% right, the men are the cause of the problems we have now in Nigeria ( as in 'materialistic' problems), for a woman to get a job,she will be bleeped, to pass in the univeristy, she has to be bleeped, some married men, run after small girls to bleep them, and therefore exposing the ladies to material wealth. In as much as i don't support gold-digging, i also don't support suffer-head, a guy has to do all it takes to be able to care for his wife/fiancee, whether the woman 'works or not'. Some ladies feel loved when a guy takes initiative to meet some of their needs and when the initiative is being taken by another dude, what do you expect  ?? the lady will follow that one ni fa, |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by arena07: 7:25pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@ronkebp i'm thinking of how u will bring up ur female children if at all u have any |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by ronkebp(f): 7:27pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
arena07: Why are you thinking of it? |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Cuddlemii: 7:30pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
apocalypse: Unfortunately for u, I take up challenges. Do u know how many pple I have replied their comments on this thread. I am not afraid to battle no one to save the female gender. I only joked about your user name because I am not that uptight but upright. If I play ten ten, have a sensually related user name then that's very applaudable for me because I'm still knowledgeable to address issues, take my stands and defend my gender. I have also backed my arguments with facts, ideas and related it to all the genres of life (politics, religion, Men's preference for strictly good looking babes, greed, A movement from men to stop this act etc). It only shows diversity and the ability to adapt on my part. Intelligence has nothing to do with who you are but your mental capacity to persuade and convince both a lay man and a learned man so that they can understand or relate to your message. You on the other hand was able to only prove that I'm the biggest hypocrite, a ten ten player, So what? How does that evaluate the topic of discussion? Was I the one who wanted to bring the female gender down, No. Did I admit that some ladies collect money from men, Yes. I admitted that fault but you men have refused to accept that you started it all and the money comes from your same sex. Cowardice is not one of my best mates, I'm too realistic not to state the obvious. If you want to battle, forget ten ten or kite playing, face me and you would be marveled at the journey I will expose you to. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Cuddlemii: 7:52pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
ronkebp: Me Im not even saying its a good thing to be materialistic but men too have a part to play in this. Its like releasing a nuclear bomb, then all of a sudden because its now affecting your kind, you start making noise about it. When men use babes, dump them and mess their lives nko. When men choose only the hot babes nko. Men just like to eat their cake and have it. They cant even admit some minor screw ups they do let alone accept the blame too sometimes. hiss |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by satani23: 8:12pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
I hope someone's listening |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Cuddlemii: 8:16pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
satani23:I have missed u. I asked everyone about u. Where have u been? |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 8:18pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@cuddlemi- relax and douse ur hot temper. This is not a boxing ring. The fact still remains that a good number of ladies search for ready-mades. But I have infact wondered how many of them have even upgraded themselves to "near-made" status. I used to be a skirt chaser but one day I decided to evaluate those skirts and I asked myself, "ok this girl is fine, sexy, pretty, bla bla, but what can she really offer in a relationship?" I noticed that many of those ladies were just pretty decorations with nothing upstairs. Parasites. Abeg instead of looking for someone who would pay your bills, upgrade yourself so u wouldn't have to depend on any man for even money to buy sanitory pad. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@ Cuddlemii I can't be bothered by your rantings , truly I would like to match you but it would be a waste of time. I can't possibly learn anything from our dialogue. You think the tripe you wrote up there is inspiring , I laugh in mandarin. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 8:25pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@apocalypse and cuddlemii- stop quarreling and derailing. This is some serious ish here. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by 190: 8:28pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
see how p[i]or[/i]nodude take this thread serious pass government work 
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| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@190- when you ping with a heart-broken lady for hours and encounter ladies that feel you cheated them by marrying someone else, damn brother, you are bound to get serious. Do you ever take anything in ur life serious? Just asking sha. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by ronkebp(f): 8:36pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
pDude: Everybody needs to upgrade themselves, not only the women, for the same reasons men do not want 'liabilities', is also the same reason that no woman wants a 'low life' guy, that does not know how to do anything, nor bring anything to the table, but to bleep, |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by 190: 8:37pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
pDude: Yes i take my God, my life , family, education and my money and my GF serious those are all wat i care bout the rest can go to hell |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by satani23: 8:43pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
apocalypse:young man, calm ur nerves. U re chatting on a faceless forum. Moreover its a lady u are engaging here. Nothings at stake guy. Let things be, |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Cuddlemii: 8:43pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
apocalypse: Dude, If truly you are a man, then you are not worth it. So u can still come back here to exchange words with a lady for round 3 You are that jobless. You think dt what ever bull crap u put up here is going to change the way the society is asap. Welcome to d real world, unfortunately u men are even the ones in charge of the bad government aiding poverty. You men started this, advice yourselves to leave their money in their purse Did those women, rob the men at gun point , No, Once your pride has been rubbished u would be looking for where to unleash your frustration. Why hasn't any lady here come to complain about men using them and dumping, generalizing or disrespecting men on Nland but y'all would be ranting about what u have the power to stop. Why can't you people approach the affluent men to stop giving these girls money, Nonsense! Calling me an hypocrite, did I at any point deny anything. I was bold enough to admit that it does happen but y'all and your defense mechanism, |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 8:52pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@190- u have a girlfriend??! I pity for her o! @ronkebp- you response has got me thinking. Hmmmm, you seem to have quite a good point. @cuddlemii- quit it naw! Whether men started it or not is a past issue! This silly and greedy trend has come to stay and is staring us in the face with bloodshot, unblinking eyes. It is not time to shift blames. It is time to tackle it. Many ladies have fallen and are still falling into this trap. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by 190: 8:54pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
^Not 1 not 2 but 4  |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Cuddlemii: 8:55pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@op Best of luck conveying ur message. My friends are back. Bye and sorry for turning ur post to a boxing ring with almost 5 men. WWF, lolz |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by njira(f): 9:23pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
There is more to a man than just his wallet, likewise there is more to a woman than just her body. We should all as individuals strive to develop the untangible aspects of who we are to increase our capacity to make our better halves happy and experience fulfilling relations. If as a man the only thing you know about your woman is her body then you are yet to experience who a woman is and can be in your life, likewise for a woman, if your man's wallet is the only thing that determines your relationship then baby girl you are living a lie. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 9:48pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@ Cuddlemii In your mental calculation a materialistic girl equals a man who decides not to date a socially or educationally handicapped girl , right ?. Your sentiments are in the way of your reasoning and if you don't agree with me ( I'm not trying to pontificate ) let's just end our discussion here. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Cuddlemii: 9:57pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
apocalypse: I mentioned several things like using and dumping a girl. I am not equating it to dating a handicapped girl. I am only concerned with the gender that gives money to these women as a means of achieving their desires. If men decide not to give out money to these women then there is nothing that can happen becos its a man's world. I think the discussion should end here. I don't bear any grudges and no hard feelings. Arguments are good for the soul  . It was nice arguing with u. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by njira(f): 10:04pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
Also am in agreement with Cuddlemii about men and hot babes. Dearest Men, maybe you didn't notice but that good figure and that beautiful face and those wonderful legs are not within a woman's sphere of control to attain. It is therefore pathetic to think so highly of someone over something they are not responsible for. If we could give ourselves those angelic smiles and bottle shape figures then we would all be stunningly gorgeous. So just leave us in peace abeg. Money, on the other hand, is something we can control. You can decide to take on more jobs resulting to you having more money. Therefore judging a man by his wallet does infact make sense because that is something within your control as opposed to physique |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 10:12pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
@cuddlemii at the risk of sounding like my cork, are you fat and/or ugly? |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 10:13pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
Its intriguing how sisters in their thirties go to pastors to pray for God to send them men to come marry them. The average ready guy around that age won't go for women in that age range when he can pull girls years younger and still in their prime unless God does a miracle and changes his mating instincts dictated by nature in the first place. Women start to complain of men shortage in their late twenties and early thirties. Ladies in their late teens to mid twenties don't have this problem. This is the prime years when a lot of men knock at a woman's door for romance and marriage. But too many sisters pass them up holding out for their proverbial rich knight in golden armor As men age, their options expand while that of women narrows. Its unfortunate but true. A lady who shoots down a guy who is 8/10 in her youth may find herself settling for a 4/10 guy in the future as she aged. That is if she finds any at all. Meanwhile she was holding out for a 10/10 guy in the first place. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Nobody: 10:15pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
^^Cold hard fact. |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by Cuddlemii: 10:16pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
2buff: How about u tell me |
| Re: A Little Word Of Advice For Searching Ladies by webizone(m): 10:20pm On Jul 11, 2011 |
Hmmm, people am tired. This s**t always happens! If there was a drug that would make us neither a man nor a woman before we are born, let's have some! For Christ's sake, why can't you just love yourselves, why can't you allow love to flourish from whoever. Does it hurt to kiss that Nerd or ugly Betty? Guess they should all die then, they deserve it. Tell me again how stupid erotic love is.Hmmm, people am tired. This s**t always happens! If there was a drug that would make us neither a man nor a woman before we are born, let's have some! For Christ's sake, why can't you just love yourselves, why can't you allow love to flourish from whoever. Does it hurt to kiss that Nerd or ugly Betty? Guess they should all die then, they deserve it. Tell me again how stupid erotic love is. |
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