creamofluv:

@Mrs.Chima - How reta.rded can you be? You call yourself MrsChima and your profile says Male, what are you? a fecking TVs? I will lay vengeance upon you, ya think am just some dude you can throw your little punch at that won't give you back, I have mouth like basket, I will give you back in 100 folds. You feckin M.oron

creamofluv:

@Mrs.Chima - How reta.rded can you be? You call yourself MrsChima and your profile says Male, what are you? a fecking TVs? I will lay vengeance upon you, ya think am just some dude you can throw your little punch at that won't give you back, I have mouth like basket, I will give you back in 100 folds. You feckin M.oron

nanidee2:

Its amazing how some of the "Nigerian men" on this thread have handled this simple question asked buy someone who's looking out for her friend and have turned it into an insult circus.

Also, I am wondering why the poster is being insulted so much, only because she is trying to get some info. Y'all just make the bad reputation thing sound 110% true. So many insults hurled at her, and I am yet to see one insult or negative comment from her.

You guys should relax. Its geting so irritating with all the continous rants about jealousy and all that.

Fancy giving a dog a bad name in order to hang it.

lisasmiles:

@ Mrs.Chima - Thank You I agree the one thing that I did learn from NL, is to KEEP MY PRIVATE LIFE PERSONAL. Thank for the heads up.  Yor are right I pretty MUCH gotten all the answers I needed.
I agree some of the comments from the people were very redundant and repetitive, But I can not change them. 

@For all who gave sound advice. I will take everything with a grain of salt and for my friend well-being I hope all turn out well for her.

Thanks All no more posts from me signing off!!! For the person who said that this sight is not for me. I must say you are right, but I do admire some of the people who give good advice on it.

Mrs.Chima:

It is the guilty ones that are ATTACKING HER. I even encouraged them to ACTUALLY read what she said but NOOOOOO she has to be a typical Black American woman who is jealous of her friend shacking with a married man. SMH.

I know damn well EVERY WOMAN WITH SENSE no matter if they are Nigerians, Americans, Chinese, Mexicans, and Jewish will NOT encourage their friend to be with a MARRIED MAN especially when HE STATED he was forced to marry someone to save face. WTF.

Real friends stick up and looks out for their friends. A biatch will sit back and watch.

lisasmiles:
I have a friend who has been dating a guy from Nigeria for over 9 months and she has falling in love with him and considering marrying him. He claims that he loves her as well. I see them together and they seem as if they are truly in love. My problem is with their relationship she found out the got married last year to a woman in Nigeria and they have a child together. She asked him about it and he claims that he had to marry her, because her father was the minister in the village and the father wanted to save face, because of his status in the village. She also told me that he said the marriage was not legal; it was just something that they did because she was pregnant at the time. Her guy said that the child lives with his mom and he claims that the only thing that he misses about Nigeria is his child. He claims that the mom is no longer in the child's life, but I personally saw the mom and child pictured together on face book. I tried talking to my friend, but she is convinced that he is telling her the truth. She said that she talked with his mom and brother and they know that they are dating with the intent to get married and neither of them mention anything about the marriage. My question is could this be true as far as the marriage not being legal or is there a Nigerian law that marriages have to be legal? Is there a possibility that his family is in on hiding his secret marriage? She said that he is in America on a student visa and she does not want him to leave, so she is willing to marry him. Please Help Me Help Her,