cococandy:
Wait until she sexually peaks in her 40s, then come back and tell us about her low sex drive again.

your comment is so true, iam currently experiencing it, my wife since she clock 40 her sexual drive is high now I struggle to keep up unlike before

femi4:
lolz...she is right. Don't try to understand it. Google "women sexual peak in their 40s"

It won't be a problem to accept or concur she is right, however i know

40 is the age women start feeling less sexually attractive to themselves therefore they start craving for sexual attention to fill that void ... at that stage attention from younger boyz tickle them the most cos it makes them feel like 16 again, a younger gurl is driven by her libido buh you see women in 40's are driven by quest for self induced gratification, getting sex is the only way they feel attractive, what drives a 40yr woman sexual cravings is not "increase in libido"

Google won't do it for me, i for like make guyz that have dated cougars share there sexual experience then i go talk

Petyprincess:
Nigerian men need to learn how to be romantic to their wives, most of them just want to pound their wife like a mortal, they have forgotten women body works different.

If you want your wife to always in the mood, please her take her out, surprise her with gifts, buy her flowers, cook her favorite meal and lastly stop pounding your wives like they are the cause of Nigeria problems.

Na Nigerian Frustrations makes Man Pounds their Frustrations Away:

zedegit:


So Ned Nwoko, 70 years old man should go and cook for Regina Daniel because he wants to be romantic abi?

You must have filled your head with Mills and Boon novels.

Oya wake up.

It's the responsibility of the woman to cook. Better discuss this with your fiance before marriage because I left a girl when she told me I would be cooking for her on certain days like weekend.

Men, don't start what you can't finish.

Nigerian men are zero romantically. Yes, it's the woman who cooks for the family but there are days the man too should offer to cook. On some days, my husband tells me not to lift a finger, he'd do the cooking. He's a great cook. Things like that strengthen your bond. There's nothing I can't do for him and there's no length he can't go for me too. To cook for your wife doesn't make you less of a man. It doesn't reduce you in any way.

SmellyNyash:
Wait oh. All these long epistle because of Otu and amu issue. Before you even finish reading it sef, ur high libido go don disappear. Rubish and tilumbu tueh

Oh yea "SMellynyash" are you not aware that life is all about Otu and AMu

g4gerald:

Do u mean women have highest sexual libido at 40s, pls explain

according to research (not me but research) more women experience heightened sexual desire in their late 30s to 40s where’s men experience theirs in their teens to 20s.
I’m not the one who said it

Or maybe their sexual energy matches the energy of the younger boys because men are more active in their younger age versus women?

You have brain. Use it sometimes

kayperry:



It won't be a problem to accept or concur she is right, however i know

40 is the age women start feeling less sexually attractive to themselves therefore they start craving for sexual attention to fill that void ... at that stage attention from younger boyz tickle them the most cos it makes them feel like 16 again, a younger gurl is driven by her libido buh you see women in 40's are driven by quest for self induced gratification, getting sex is the only way they feel attractive, what drives a 40yr woman sexual cravings is not "increase in libido"

Google won't do it for me, i for like make guyz that have dated cougars share there sexual experience then i go talk

emilo2bad:

your comment is so true, iam currently experiencing it, my wife since she clock 40 her sexual drive is high now I struggle to keep up unlike before

Exercise (if you don’t already do that) can help build your stamina. Good luck

Okobola146:
I no want, I like it like that

oga do what they ask of you. Don't be stubborn. Why can't you go for 1hr ??

Secondly:
Africans only have sex on their mind.

That's why their continent is so backwards.

Are you not one of them

Shmmm...m

placeofallure:


Nigerian men are zero romantically. Yes, it's the woman who cooks for the family but there are days the man too should offer to cook. On some days, my husband tells me not to lift a finger, he'd do the cooking. He's a great cook. Things like that strengthens your bond. There's nothing I can't do for him and there's no length he can't go for me too. To cook for your wife doesn't make you less of a man. It doesn't reduce you in any way.

I have known that most women are manipulative and some could take it for granted.
It's very easy for see finish to set in.

I might take her out or buy lunch, chocolates, flowers etc but to cook for her would be on rare occasion, maybe she's sick or pregnant.

It depends on the type of woman one gets hitched with.

emilo2bad:

your comment is so true, iam currently experiencing it, my wife since she clock 40 her sexual drive is high now I struggle to keep up unlike before

A young man struggling to keep up?
Like seriously? I pray I meet a woman who has high libido or atleast a healthy one.

5 times a week nacking atleast.

Am telling you

Samskid310:
Whenever I get into my post nut clarity I feel like how the hell did I get myself in this bullshit called 'sex'

Lol. Next time, try to ask yourself the same question before you nut or even begin that "bullshit".

zedegit:


A young man struggling to keep up?
Like seriously? I pray I meet a woman who has high libido or atleast a healthy one.

5 times a week nacking atleast.

Someone above 40 is not a young man when it comes to sex, you definitely can't compare the stamina or libido with someone in his 20s

doneback04:
When a man is not doing anything for himself what occupied his mind is sex that why you see the average man having several children's.

Having sex regularly is a different thing entirely compared to poor people pouring kids like pigs. Who says you can't enjoy regular sex without manufacturing babies?

But when a man has his mind occupied with works activity he hardly have time for sex, just once in a while.

And what is the point in chasing world or dream that you don't even create time for yourself to enjoy?

introvertious:
What an epistle!
Is marriage solely about sex? Black people just focus on having sex, daily.
No showing of love, showing you care, buying gifts, helping out, talking/gisting, finding out how you spent your day, na sex, sex, sex and more sex.

I mean, being romantic could lead to sex and the woman won't complain.

High sex drive in a partner in marriage is the topic here, not all the things that hold marriages together. Let's learn to comprehend and understand simple topic

kayperry:



It won't be a problem to accept or concur she is right, however i know

40 is the age women start feeling less sexually attractive to themselves therefore they start craving for sexual attention to fill that void ... at that stage attention from younger boyz tickle them the most cos it makes them feel like 16 again, a younger gurl is driven by her libido buh you see women in 40's are driven by quest for self induced gratification, getting sex is the only way they feel attractive, what drives a 40yr woman sexual cravings is not "increase in libido"

Google won't do it for me, i for like make guyz that have dated cougars share there sexual experience then i go talk

It's a push for folly to reject knowledge

virginprincess:
Nwanne,this epistle is too long,biko shorten it .

Nsogbu! I didn't even read the body, I had gotten all he said through few comments here.

purples25:
Sex sex sex.

That is one of the closest experience to God

placeofallure:


Nigerian men are zero romantically. Yes, it's the woman who cooks for the family but there are days the man too should offer to cook. On some days, my husband tells me not to lift a finger, he'd do the cooking. He's a great cook. Things like that strengthens your bond. There's nothing I can't do for him and there's no length he can't go for me too. To cook for your wife doesn't make you less of a man. It doesn't reduce you in any way.

Nigerian women are not romantic,sometimes the woman should pay the bills, house rents and school fees.
That will Increase the bond..

Ninisun:



If he's a good pounder, you'll always look forward to having it every day.

Gisos Christ ...Na Human una dey Pound Shuuu:

maasoap:


Someone above 40 is not a young man when it comes to sex, you definitely can't compare the stamina or libido with someone in his 20s

It's personal and not a general assumption. If you were saying 60 years, it would have been understandable but even at that Ned is an exception. How old is he again?

Above 60 years old man.

Nothing concerns me about the topic ni,na de picture attached to it at the end a wan talk about.....

femi4:
It's a push for folly to reject knowledge

where there is an underline "experience" there is no foolishness in querying research & studies. this is a topic for adult, i have being with 40- 50yr women just for sex so i know what my arguement is about, i would rather listen to what men within that experience bracket have to say

Petyprincess:
Nigerian men need to learn how to be romantic to their wives, most of them just want to pound their wife like a mortal, they have forgotten women body works different.

If you want your wife to always in the mood, please her take her out, surprise her with gifts, buy her flowers, cook her favorite meal and lastly stop pounding your wives like they are the cause of Nigeria problems.

Did you said Flowers?

AngelicBeing:
Una no dey taya for sex and sexual related issues, like seriously, there is hunger in Nigeria and people are talking about sex, sex and sex, Nigerians, make una leave sex matter for now, take stones, March to Abuja and stone Buhari and National Assembly Members out of power., almost every day, na sex, sex and sexual related issues on nairaland.com, sex na food, Like seriously .


cc: descarado

Lead on with the march, we dey your back gidigbam

zedegit:


A young man struggling to keep up?
Like seriously? I pray I meet a woman who has high libido or atleast a healthy one.

5 times a week nacking atleast.

iam not a young man, 52 years

cococandy:
Or maybe their sexual energy matches the energy of the younger boys because men are more active in their younger age versus women?

You have brain. Use it sometimes

Suddenly you expect me to have brain, coco you are not up to 40yrs whatever you are spewing is either from google or eavesdrop.

Pocohantas is old & barely 45yrs, i think she is in the best position to enlighten us.

for this economy people are still thinking of sex �?

kayperry:




where there is an underline "experience" there is no foolishness in querying research & studies. this is a topic for adult, i have being with 40- 50yr women just for sex so i know what my arguement is about, i would rather listen to what men within that experience bracket have to say

Another NL kid, from biology, now you want to talk about experience. You were probably writing WAEC when I registered on nl