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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Olaniyi021(m): 6:49pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?


This life is word and opposite, I'm experiencing the same from my wife. Please link us together
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by zicoraads: 6:50pm On Aug 11, 2022
He is gay.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Nobody: 6:50pm On Aug 11, 2022
Repackage urself. Observe personal hygiene & put on fit/sexy wears while in the house with him.
Do not always be the one to initiate sex move. Sometimes pretend u re not in the mood while tempting him with sexy outfit
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by ukandi1(m): 6:53pm On Aug 11, 2022
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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by InvertedHammer: 6:54pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
/

This is the best time in marriage.

Whatever you are "enjoying" now, just know that it is downhill from here sexually.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Mccullum: 6:54pm On Aug 11, 2022
zed7:

Only you is asking for advice for yourself in one sentence and in another sentence you're asking what can she do?
NL and their fiction writers. You guys write so much Bullshit that you end up confusing yourselves.

Just face the subject matter, pardon her grin
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by jaxxy(m): 6:58pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

U are addressing the symptoms and not the actual problem bt since u say its been that way since day 1 maybe not. we will find out.

My questions,

Asides the sex issue how does he treat u? how are ure conversations? Is he and/or was he romantic with u?


Do u think he loves u or he married u for some other reasons? How do u know he loves u if yes?

why isn't he attracted to u? Men only desire sex from who they are attracted to most times.

How busy is he? Is he stressed out by work?

Do u have other forms of intimacy besides intercourse?

finally is he gay? observe him well and u will understand what wrong.

These questions will help u understand ur real problem.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by modsfucker: 6:59pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

Say no more, his low libido is probably stress-motivated. However this picture is the answer to your question. Start serving him this juice everyday, na you go finally run from sex.

Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by sleekman(m): 6:59pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

You need to be pragmatic in your approach hence these questions.
How old is he?
What kind of work does he do?
Have you tested his masculinity?(straight or gay)
Has he had an operation before especially around his waistline?
Is he diabetic?
Has he a heart problem?
Have you inquired as to his fertility status?
What's the elasticity of your pussy like?
Does he feel you when penetrates?
Can he keep an erection long enough?
Has he got glaucoma?
Any reproductive tract problems in the past?

You need to seek answers to these questions. As regards testing whether he's straight or gay one way to test is to insert your index finger into his arsehole. If it freely goes in then you might have a problem with his gender preference. If it doesn't then ure safe. Also, his response to this move will either assure you or get you more inquisitive.

As for health problems then you have to push him to see a specialist. As men grow older their testosterone reduces. Some men have a reduced testosterone that needs to be boosted with drugs but also needs to be balanced with BP problems. Your man might be ignorant so don't tow that line of ignorance. Read up about low libido and what you should do as a wife to conquer that problem. Trust me you go run sef when action start.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Mayeldah(m): 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2022
What Buhari cannot destroy does not exist

Now he has destroyed Oga's libido grin grin

My sister, take am easy ehn. e go better.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Tegabadguy(m): 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2022
Akerele44:


Werey guy...bad guy

U don dey bleep already grin
guy na wa for you ooooo.. life sweet
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by micflo28(m): 7:00pm On Aug 11, 2022
Book a session with a marriage councilor. Don’t discuss your sex life here. It’s something you take discretely to a marriage councilor.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Dumte(m): 7:01pm On Aug 11, 2022
This is one of the problems cause by our church marriage committee.
They will set a high boundary for intending couples and the woman or the man will agree to it.
In the marriage they'll start looking for someone to seek advice from.

Nothing is wrong with test running your product before buying.

And before any holier-than-thou NL will comment rubbish on my opinion, I am not speaking your mind. I am entitle to my own opinion.

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Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by oodua1stson: 7:01pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
[i]"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"[/i]stop stressing your man. 2 times sex a month no do you? Na food?


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Tegabadguy(m): 7:03pm On Aug 11, 2022
Switruth:
not all things you joke with.... you want to sleep with a married woman ? Nevermind someone is waiting for your wife. Today or tomorrow
guy you know welda him pay for her head cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Nobody: 7:04pm On Aug 11, 2022
Just replace him. Get yourself a stallion in bed. Pretty sure he'd do the same if it were you.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by gudugudumeje: 7:12pm On Aug 11, 2022
MY, YOUR HUSBAND....

How old are you both? If under 35, please Give him more eggs to eat.....Dont mind the cost.... At least two eggs daily - mornings and nievenings. And try seducing her with sex talks and gentle, slow and steady handling he will yield. And may be he does not drink beer. If he does drink,add a little. Just work this and pray and you see see good improvement.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by gudugudumeje: 7:13pm On Aug 11, 2022
How old are you both? If under 35, please Give him more eggs to eat.....Dont mind the cost.... At least two eggs daily - mornings and nievenings. And try seducing her with sex talks and gentle, slow and steady handling he will yield. And may be he does not drink beer. If he does drink,add a little. Just work this and pray and you see see good improvement.


Call me on 08055470825 if further effort is needed
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by MadarasBlade(m): 7:16pm On Aug 11, 2022
Sex isn't food abeg.

Although your husband is extreme, but i think having sex once a week is okay.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Adekaka12345: 7:21pm On Aug 11, 2022
HeroHero:
Repackage urself. Observe personal hygiene & put on fit/sexy wears while in the house with him.
Do not always be the one to initiate sex move. Sometimes pretend u re not in the mood while tempting him with sexy outfit

This is a goal. So true
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by HITsquad: 7:26pm On Aug 11, 2022
Kollins11:
In otherwords.. You're a sex stave woman.

Have you really tried to sit him down to discuss this and let him know how you feel?
If a man stays away from sex for two months, he either has a medical issue that has made his libido drop or he is getting it elsewhere.

But incase you're so frustrated and you really need a strong solid 8 inches dick to ride.. Just give me a message, I'm available. Let me help your husband to shift your womb. God says always help your neighbor in need. I willing to help you cure your konji.
Oops! For a minute I thought you were a grown up!
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by dododawa1: 7:27pm On Aug 11, 2022
Carry your cross
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by rollywise(m): 7:31pm On Aug 11, 2022
Creamypie:
if your write up is true, u have to know that men go through stress most times, and it kills their Interest/ drive for love manking




He has a very very low libido simple. Can a human being ever be tired of eating meat? Is there any man even in his tired state that won't be enticed by a woman's unclothedness let alone get seduction
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by rollywise(m): 7:32pm On Aug 11, 2022
Hope he won't come crying when she starts to Bleep out
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Ishilove: 7:32pm On Aug 11, 2022
Konji maketh a (wo)man mad.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Femabol01: 7:32pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?
Let her look more sexy.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by frozen70(f): 7:33pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

For the fact that you don't have kids yet, is more worrisome and the family will be accusing you of not being pregnant

This one weak me
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Haines: 7:34pm On Aug 11, 2022
Attention seeker kwantiniu grin grin

Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Nobody: 7:34pm On Aug 11, 2022
Carry your matter go court
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by DOM7: 7:34pm On Aug 11, 2022
Biblically is sin, report him to his maker (God) pray for his sexuality, immotion, work life and his work.
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by Joshcoli(m): 7:35pm On Aug 11, 2022
LoveUdie:
"I got married in 2021. Ever since day one, my hubby and I have sex twice a month. I have tried talking to him but he'll say he isn't feeling fine. If I try to seduce him he'll remove my hand. I'll have to wait till he feels like having sex which is twice a month.

We don't have kids yet and we both work. I'm tired because I'm missing out on the fun of marriage. What can I do?"


What can she do house? How can she make her husband show more interest in sex?

There's alot to this
I believe it's a mental thing

- What are your experiences,
- Are you on the same page sexually when it comes to sexual experience
- If you are more experienced how have you talk down on his in-experience
- do you shout on the man and disrespects him because he's not meeting up
- How is your approach to him for not meeting up, do you shout on him or make him feel measerable
- nothing pushes a man far away from a woman like disrespect

A man will
respect those above him
Love those bellow thim
Fight those who claim equality with him

Submission is bringing your strenght under control

Maybe he's begining to see you as his mother who has authority over him and he can only respect her but he's not attracted to her

He may not tell you but your man is fighting a silent supremacy battles with you and you are not aware.

I wish you best of luck in your marriage
Re: Help! My Husband Is Starving Me Of Sex And It Is Affecting Me by olibeans: 7:36pm On Aug 11, 2022
Give him more of fruits and go out together especially a picnic in a resort and sometimes lodge in an exquisite Hotel together for a weekend to spice up your marriage.

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