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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Emmyviva: 6:44am On Nov 13, 2022
Dami12345:


As someone who has suffered in abuja.
Mine is wuse 4 near the market. I walked there a lot.

Anyway, I know of writing gigs that pay about 150$ monthly.
You don't need anything except you phone, data to make uploads and some free time.

I won't ask you for money, but when you make good money and are balance, I would ask you to find a person who truly needs it and build that person too.

If your interested mention.
I'll link you up.
You could be a life Saver,,,Help a brother
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by iamclime(m): 6:46am On Nov 13, 2022
Paulheyman:


* I went for an interview in a private university, the VC, registrar and body of interviewers comprising of the HOD, dean and staff of my supposed department all congratulated me. They ask that I bring my original MSc certificate, I got the certificate with the little money I had then, while on my way to submit the certificate, I nearly had a head-on collision with a fuel tanker/truck. On getting to the university, the registrar once more congratulated. Guess what? it has been 5yrs after, I've not heard from any of them. The funny thing is that the host community of the said university was attacked by herdsmen some years back.

** After my experience with the university, I swore not to apply for any university job again till after my PhD. So, after my PhD, I applied for a job in another university. Not long ago, I was invited for something entirely different. Funny enough, in terms of qualifications, publications, youthfulness and academic standing I know I am far better than their choice.

*** Before I left PhD, my supervisor told me that "PhD distinguishes and that those that work with God should put in extra effort". So, I started looking out for a postdoc abroad, God willing I am currently on one now and will possibly be leaving the country next year

My point: Nigeria is not built to favor the best. Being proud of your achievements is regarded as arrogance. So, do not be disturbed, mourn your lose and move on with your life. Most times delay isn't denial, you're being prepared for something better

My Advise: Start up your own business, grow it into whatsoever you want it to be and if you've an Android phone follow some government based loans and grants in your state/country. Don't spend all your life savings looking for a job. I believe you're still a youth and that's your greatest advantage

Please send me a DM. I think we have some things in common on this journey to find academic jobs. Let's connect on LinkedIn.
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Komu1048(m): 6:47am On Nov 13, 2022
StoneLucifer:


U people and this low mentality. The Lagos your Tinubu ruled for almost 10 years, why have so many Lagosians dumped Lagos to travel abroad. Mtchwee..


People travel for many reason, some travel even to watch football. Lol
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by pheelhip(m): 6:51am On Nov 13, 2022
blazesam:
It nothing naa... Is that not how outcess rejected me because I was not based in Lagos... So will I kill myself or force myself to Lagos... I made it all, but that was the only problem

I was in your shoes
I had to change my location to lagos and stay with frnds till I secured my own accommodation.

Firms consider locations too when employing new staffs
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by achimendy(m): 6:52am On Nov 13, 2022
Goodness34:
depression is killing me, i tried alot of jobs but i could not secure any, now i even have phobia and i feel hopeless.

The only business i could have put in which is selling of petrol, kerosine and engine oil failed because its will cost atleast 20k to start.

How do i go about this please brothers and sisters?


That's why I always advice people to get every motivational gadget within their reach to motivate themselves. Get books , listen to messages so you can encourage yourself. Read more about successful people and see how their stories motivate you.

Lastly, pray to God and always maintain a positive mindset. Believe in yourself no matter what.

Just my opinion though. Goodluck.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by MropeEleniyan00(m): 6:54am On Nov 13, 2022
Joseph1505:
Affiliate marketing or Copywriting will be best for you.
I can help if you are interested


I will be interested if you can help me pls with affiliate marketing and copywriting ...

opeyemiekerin@gmail.com .. thanks alot
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by gbagyiza: 6:58am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful. I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, and I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me, and she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00 am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00 pm before I could see her, of course, I patiently waited for her..las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about so many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.

Pls, the motive behind this post is not to scare you but to help in finding a solution to this situation. Bro. note that some cases are spiritual. How can you explain the fact that the organisation was highly interested in you n suddenly they lose interest in you just like that? Pls. you need to sit n examine your life probably you will find out that something is wrong. In this end time, the only weapon to overcome evil n stagnation is to be close to God n be prayerful.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by micxwell(m): 7:08am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.
Don't give up dear friend. You'll smile soon. I see you're really in need of a job. Believe me,
I understand how you feel. There was a time I came back from an interview and I wept bitterly because of the whole experience. In fact, I was willing to work for free to at least get the required experience back then but no one was willing to take a chance on me. I'm not where I want to be yet but I'm sure I'll get there by God's grace.
Just build your networks properly. Put yourself in the midst of experienced professionals in your field. Join professional associations. Let them add you to their groups. Follow profiles on LinkedIn etc.
It's not enough to be brilliant nowadays but do people out there know you're existing, not to even talk of whether you're brilliant or not. All will pan out well for you soon.

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Pope98: 7:09am On Nov 13, 2022
Joseph1505:
Affiliate marketing or Copywriting will be best for you.
I can help if you are interested
I am interested sir.i would very much appreciate if you consider me.... Sir... I anticipate your reply
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Slurity(m): 7:11am On Nov 13, 2022
1gbdata:
It is not easy

Obi for a better Naija
Obi that could not save Anambra is who you are relying on to save Nigeria, your evil intention will not work in Jesus name.
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by zedegit: 7:18am On Nov 13, 2022
Studymore123:


Sorry for your depression. Please do the things that you enjoy and reflect on the positive things in life. If you can raise 5k, I'll send you 15k for your business.

Sir, If you are into paying online business, could you teach me?
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Spray(m): 7:19am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.

Hi, share your work experience with us
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by israelolugbemi: 7:19am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.


Can you send me a direct message ?
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by zedegit: 7:20am On Nov 13, 2022
kroger:


Send me a DM.. No need to get depressed I will assist you.

Sir I wish to learn money making in internet.Teach me sir
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by micxwell(m): 7:23am On Nov 13, 2022
gbagyiza:


Pls, the motive behind this post is not to scare you but to help in finding a solution to this situation. Bro. note that some cases are spiritual. How can you explain the fact that the organisation was highly interested in you n suddenly they lose interest in you just like that? Pls. you need to sit n examine your life probably you will find out that something is wrong. In this end time, the only weapon to overcome evil n stagnation is to be close to God n be prayerful.
I will not dispute your fact brother but you'll agree with me that the system here in Nigeria is faulty and God is not the cause but we the citizens. It's very clear from her story that they already have a preferred candidate for that role. Leave my loving Jesus out of this. Nigerians can pray for hours but they'll still go back to their old ways. No one is willing to change.

Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by OneNationTour: 7:25am On Nov 13, 2022
I am interested in the writing gig Sir.

Dami12345:


As someone who has suffered in abuja.
Mine is wuse 4 near the market. I walked there a lot.

Anyway, I know of writing gigs that pay about 150$ monthly.
You don't need anything except you phone, data to make uploads and some free time.

I won't ask you for money, but when you make good money and are balance, I would ask you to find a person who truly needs it and build that person too.

If your interested mention.
I'll link you up.
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by chigbokingsley(m): 7:26am On Nov 13, 2022
Studymore123:


Sorry for your depression. Please do the things that you enjoy and reflect on the positive things in life. If you can raise 5k, I'll send you 15k for your business.

Bro I am interested also please
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by noskcid(m): 7:27am On Nov 13, 2022
If you want to learn copy writing and how to make above 100 dollar weekly then hit me up

I have some pills to make money.
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Blackzero: 7:28am On Nov 13, 2022
Dami12345:


As someone who has suffered in abuja.
Mine is wuse 4 near the market. I walked there a lot.

Anyway, I know of writing gigs that pay about 150$ monthly.
You don't need anything except you phone, data to make uploads and some free time.

I won't ask you for money, but when you make good money and are balance, I would ask you to find a person who truly needs it and build that person too.

If your interested mention.
I'll link you up.
boss abeg put me on o
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by vickydevoka(m): 7:30am On Nov 13, 2022
graciamore:
So painful..I cried my eyes out yesterday, have been going for this particular interview since last month, I have been called to that place like 7times in wuse2, from one stage to another. The secretary called me on Wednesday that madam will like to see me,she assured me to get prepared for medicals and all...she told me to be there by 10:00am, I came and was told to wait till 3:00pm before I could see her, of course I patiently waited for her..las las I no get the job didn't know when tears effortlessly flow down from my eyes...I stood there and taught about soooo many things ranging from the transportation I have spent on this particular interview alone ... I kept singing not to break down on the road.
Very painful. Transportation alone na die

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Lisaint(m): 7:30am On Nov 13, 2022
Apart from ms-word!
Can anyone talk about others skills that can be well placed on cv,
That can also make one get employed faster!


I have a B.sc in Geography and planning sciences ( just concluded nysc July)

I actually wish to work with a Travels and tour agency or a logistics company/ an OAP for a media company!

What and what are the skills one needs to posses in order to get job along this type of field?

And also please
Those guys that work at apapa/Tincan port,
How did they usually get this jobs?
Happy Sunday

People of Nigeria
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by vickydevoka(m): 7:33am On Nov 13, 2022
chrisxxx:
From Rivers State I went to Kaduna for NAMA ATC interview, passed aptitude test and oral interview till today they didn't call. I went to Lagos thrice no success. I told myself I won't attend again. Anyone who would interview me away from Rivers State other than on phone should keep his job.
Ask them for zoom or Microsoft meeting
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Awesomeking: 7:34am On Nov 13, 2022
Dami12345:


As someone who has suffered in abuja.
Mine is wuse 4 near the market. I walked there a lot.

Anyway, I know of writing gigs that pay about 150$ monthly.
You don't need anything except you phone, data to make uploads and some free time.

I won't ask you for money, but when you make good money and are balance, I would ask you to find a person who truly needs it and build that person too.

If your interested mention.
I'll link you up.
pls link me
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Lisaint(m): 7:38am On Nov 13, 2022
Dami12345:


As someone who has suffered in abuja.
Mine is wuse 4 near the market. I walked there a lot.

Anyway, I know of writing gigs that pay about 150$ monthly.
You don't need anything except you phone, data to make uploads and some free time.

I won't ask you for money, but when you make good money and are balance, I would ask you to find a person who truly needs it and build that person too.

If your interested mention.
I'll link you up.

I’m interested sir

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Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Dami12345: 7:42am On Nov 13, 2022
Lisaint:


I’m interested sir

I created a thread to handle it.
Pls no more mentions.

https://www.nairaland.com/7430682/writing-gig
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Dami12345: 7:42am On Nov 13, 2022
Awesomeking:
pls link me


I created a thread to handle it.
Pls no more mentions.

https://www.nairaland.com/7430682/writing-gig
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Dami12345: 7:43am On Nov 13, 2022
Blackzero:
boss abeg put me on o


I created a thread to handle it.
Pls no more mentions.

https://www.nairaland.com/7430682/writing-gig
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Dami12345: 7:43am On Nov 13, 2022
OneNationTour:
I am interested in the writing gig Sir.



I created a thread to handle it.
Pls no more mentions.

https://www.nairaland.com/7430682/writing-gig
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Dami12345: 7:43am On Nov 13, 2022
Emmyviva:
You could be a life Saver,,,Help a brother


I created a thread to handle it.
Pls no more mentions.

https://www.nairaland.com/7430682/writing-gig
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Sirchiboy: 7:54am On Nov 13, 2022
kroger:


Send me a DM.. No need to get depressed I will assist you with #20,000k.
..
Thank you uncle for putting smile on his face.
I hope to benefit from you someday.
God bless you, uncle.
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Sirchiboy: 7:55am On Nov 13, 2022
Studymore123:


Sorry for your depression. Please do the things that you enjoy and reflect on the positive things in life. If you can raise 5k, I'll send you 15k for your business.
..
Thank you uncle for putting smile on his face.
I hope to benefit from you someday.
God bless you, uncle.
Re: How Did You Cope With The Pain Of Job Rejection? by Sirchiboy: 7:55am On Nov 13, 2022
kroger:


Send me a DM... Not easy at all but you have to keep pushing until you achieve.
.
Thank you uncle for putting smile on his face.
I hope to benefit from you someday.
God bless you, uncle.

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