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Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Somagirl(f): 11:10am On Aug 31, 2011
@Nayah I agree completely with you this time every woman has the right to choose what she wants to do with 'her' body even though some of us wholeheartedly disagree!

P.s I love your pic too *girl crush* wink
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by walex0709: 11:16am On Aug 31, 2011
Ha! the best way for the lady to kp her marriage if she wanted is to give the pregnancy to the man that cannot produce one and keep her mouth short
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:18am On Aug 31, 2011
Abort the faetus and move on with your husband. D&C takes less than 15 mins to carry out and cost less than $200. Its not murder, even 9 months pregnancy isnt human until it takes the first breathe of oxygen (life giving force) and get activated to the solar (soul) consciousness. Dont argue. Abort the pregancy NOW !!!!
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by badmrkt(m): 11:22am On Aug 31, 2011
i will not join the of murderers by advicing her to abort the baby, shameless she-goat.were kind women dey sef wey me i no dey see dem?me sef 4 lyk, am 2 wink grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Nobody: 11:24am On Aug 31, 2011
Come oh, on a second thought. How do you know that the pregancy belongs to your boyfriend and not your husband. This doesnt give you the leverage to surrender the kid to your husband. I heard that an average family has atleast a kid that does not belong to the husband.  Women are truly wicked
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Nayah(f): 11:24am On Aug 31, 2011
Badmrk who advised her abortion?  shocked
Somaligril lol girl crush!! but yes people are always judging the others without knowing context , life has learnt me not judging easily
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ebonyvibe(f): 11:28am On Aug 31, 2011
For people whoo think I am the one i have no reason to lie on this forum as I dont know anyone here from adam (even Mr Corke who has made it his personal agenda to persistently stalk me.)

Having said that personally I think she should tell her husband what has happened and face the consequence either way keep her baby there are lots of single mothers out there.

Mr Obama was raised by a single mother - NO problem

After six years of looking for a child having an abortion to me sounds like madness; if someone was to be pregnant for the husband am sure he wouldnt tell her to have an abortion.

I have been trying to encourage her but she is in pieces just brought it to this forum to let her see it is not the end of world and people can pull them self out of a mess
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by MrCork17: 11:31am On Aug 31, 2011
ebonyvibe:

For people whoo think I am the one i have no reason to lie on this forum as I dont know anyone here from adam (even Mr Corke who has made it his personal agenda to persistently stalk me.

Having said that personally I think she should tell her husband what has happened and face the consequence either way keep her baby there are lots of single mothers out there.

Mr Obama was raised by a single mother - NO problem

After six years og looking for a child having an abortion to me sounds like madness; if someone was to be pregnant for the man am sure he wouldnt tell her to have an abortion.

I have been trying to encourage her but she is in pieces just brought it to this forum to let her see it is not the end of world and people can pull them self out of a mess

ebonyvibe . sweeeery dont flatter yoursef. I do only light skin chicks except Nayah!!  wink
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Somagirl(f): 11:35am On Aug 31, 2011
Hi5 @Missy great minds think alike I say! tongue

@Nayah yes judge not for ye shall be judged also *made this up but I'm sure there's a holy book out there that supports this) smiley
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Nayah(f): 11:36am On Aug 31, 2011
loL Somaligirl
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by JamesDoe: 11:47am On Aug 31, 2011
Keep the baby - do DNA to confirm paternity once child is born;
Tell her husband but be careful in how he is told;
Carry her cross.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Chrisbenogor(m): 11:55am On Aug 31, 2011
Keep the baby ke?
All of you are considering the man the woman the silly boyfriend and forgetting that it is another child they are about to bring into this world. So who will be the parents for the child?

1. She tells her husband obviously a very big taboo, she gets the boot from the house obviously and then boyfriend remembers that he needs a fresh new wife. She can keep the child but he aint getting married to her.
Who suffers: Mother and Child.

2. She does the "smart" thing removes the baby, tells her husband she had and affair. She gets the boot too most probably and maybe BF would consider her just maybe.
Who Suffers: Woman

3. She does the "smart" thing removes the baby, tells no one about it. Plan to deny the affair flat out and just hope that things return to normal.



All this crap about telling him is bull, any woman that cheats on a man runs the serious 99% risk of getting the boot. Hey its not my fault they day its a mans world.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ebonyvibe(f): 12:08pm On Aug 31, 2011
i think she should forget the marriage and concentrate on her child.

She is gfoing to get the boot anyway as if she remains childless in this marriage

Gain something for herself out of this mess 'the child' .

ABortion is not the answer. Obviously she is not the one with the problem if the man wants her to stay with him impotent then he should meet her half way by accepting another man's child
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by phreakabit(m): 12:09pm On Aug 31, 2011
LOL!!!!  Husband secretly takes child for a Paternity test -> Husband Rushes home -> Throws wife from the porch upstairs -> Brings her belongings to her downstairs .
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ebonyvibe(f): 12:11pm On Aug 31, 2011
phreakabit:

LOL!!!! Husband secretly takes child for a Paternity test -> Husband Rushes home -> Throws wife from the porch upstairs -> Brings her belongings to her downstairs .

@ phreakbit husband has briefly forgotten he is shooting blanks
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by MrCork17: 12:11pm On Aug 31, 2011
***Maybe the Poster is refering to Beyounce. She pregnant for Kanye Wast  undecided****
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Somagirl(f): 12:24pm On Aug 31, 2011
@Ebonyville wife should have requested a divorce from the blank shooting husband before indulging in an affair and subsequently finding herself in this dilemma grin
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:27pm On Aug 31, 2011
WHOREDOM IS HERE!

I dated a lady for 2yrs (about 5yrs back), was about to get married to her but she ditched me for some other guy that she had been seeing behind me.

It was really depressing for me back then but I eventually moved on.

Around May last year I bumped into her and exchanged phone numbers and within a very short while she ended up confiding in me that her husband used diabolic means to hook her and that currently her marriage is on the verge of collapse as her husband constantly cheats on her and beats her up. Her husband even beat her up when she was about 8mths pregnant which led to a miscarriage and severe complications making her not able to conceive anymore.
With this dilemma, she told me her husband had a baby from one of his numerous girlfriends and had moved out of their apartment and was about to marry his baby mother.

So eventually we ended up having sex regularly.  3months later She and her husband got reconciled but that did not stop her from seeing me.

Unknown to her, I never got over what she did to me. Her getting back with her husband presented the perfect opportunity for revenge.

One day after having our sex sessions and she was in the shower, I got her husband's number from her phone.

I later then called him to tell him about how I had been sleeping with his wife for close to 6mths. I did not even spare him the graphic details and told him that every Friday when she claims to be going to church for night vigil I had her all night in any way or manner I desire.

I told him if he needed any more proof, that in 2weeks time his wife is supposed to attend a wedding. I also told him to check-into the same hotel I had been using with his wife this past 6mths under my name, after which he should txt me the room number.

He played along.

I called her on the fateful day to confirm if she will be able to make our appointment, and gave her the room number her husband had earlier booked in.

I wish I was there in the hotel room to see their faces.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:31pm On Aug 31, 2011
She should tell her husband in presence of two witnesses and be waiting for consequences.u reap what you sow.Gal 6:7.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by kashini: 12:40pm On Aug 31, 2011
Oboy, pregnant for Boyfriend is not the matter! the affairs is the matter let her ask God 2 4give her.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by PresidKing(m): 12:46pm On Aug 31, 2011
I guess EBONYVIBE is in serious dilemma, at first she hated all men and ran away from her hubby, now she is back with pregnancy and is seeking advice from Nairaland on way forward.  Adultery and adulterous

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-738889.0.html

Even if she is your friend and not you, same people, same story line, same species, same blood pigment, same lineage if traced from Adam or Allah, birds of same feather have same problem.

This is why before you marry, you need to trace origin from Archeologist and expecially people from EBONYVIBE VILLAGE or  descendant.

Una no go finish me with laugh for this nairaland.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by oohunt: 12:59pm On Aug 31, 2011
@OP

I think that your friend should tell her husband. When the truth comes out years later it would create even more shame and betrayal and pain both to the child and to her husband. Such things have a way of eating you up on the inside. You will never a rest of mind and will always be afraid that the truth may come out. This can also lead her to do things she would not want to do to cover up the truth. For instance, what happens if the child does not look at all like the both of them

I will not advocate her to abort the child. It is a human being living inside her and has every right to live. (If she does not want the child later she can give it up for adoption.)

This simple "experiment" has just proved that her husband has a problem. Did she know this? She needs to find out from her husband whether he knew that he has a problem. She can always use this angle to present her case. She can present this tactfully anyway she likes.

The deed has been done, she should be prepared to face the consequences. She should not make it worse by telling more lies.  

Note, I totally condemn her actions. As a married person, you have no business sleeping with somebody else. If you are having problems in your marriage, fix it by getting close to God for help. Afterall you took a vow in church in God's presence to consolidate the marriage/relationship. When things go wrong you should go back to him, even when you are the cause of the problem. It is not too late to go to God with this. If she is a Christian, she should go and speak to the priest in her church.

Keep us updated.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ebonyvibe(f): 12:59pm On Aug 31, 2011
@presidking have you ever heard of the saying 'if you dont have anything constructive to say SHUT UP

This forum is to hear your opinion of certain issues not hunting the poster
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by MrCork17: 1:05pm On Aug 31, 2011
PresidKing:

I guess EBONYVIBE is in serious dilemma, at first she hated all men and ran away from her hubby, now she is back with pregnancy and is seeking advice from Nairaland on way forward.  Adultery and adulterous

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-738889.0.html

Even if she is your friend and not you, same people, same story line, same species, same blood pigment, same lineage if traced from Adam or Allah, birds of same feather have same problem.

This is why before you marry, you need to trace origin from Archeologist and expecially people from EBONYVIBE VILLAGE or  descendant.

Una no go finish me with laugh for this nairaland.

Bro u are right. The chick is lookin for a man but wunt admit. All she does is cuss people undecided
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ZE: 1:06pm On Aug 31, 2011
@ op. forget that so called dilema.

the woman wanted to get pregnant @ all cost. she knew what she wanted thatz why she told you b4 hand that she is not considering abortion.

a married woman who have guts to keep another man friend was a flirt  when she was single and chances are that she had committed abortions b4.


she should confess to her husband and face the music.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ZE: 1:14pm On Aug 31, 2011
PresidKing:

I guess EBONYVIBE is in serious dilemma, at first she hated all men and ran away from her hubby, now she is back with pregnancy and is seeking advice from Nairaland on way forward.  Adultery and adulterous

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-738889.0.html

Even if she is your friend and not you, same people, same story line, same species, same blood pigment, same lineage if traced from Adam or Allah, birds of same feather have same problem.

This is why before you marry, you need to trace origin from Archeologist and expecially people from EBONYVIBE VILLAGE or  descendant.

Una no go finish me with laugh for this nairaland.

wonderful!!

meaning if the actual person is not EBONYVIBE definitely they are birds of the same feather.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ochukoccna: 1:17pm On Aug 31, 2011
Now u know Y men carry out paternity tests.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by MrCork17: 1:18pm On Aug 31, 2011
ebonyvibe (f).  Does the kid look anything like this people?

     If  yes, then you she should keeeep the kid  wink

Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by ebonyvibe(f): 1:33pm On Aug 31, 2011
there is nothing wrong with those kids Mr Cork it just shows that their parents are poor not that they are bastards.

My friend is okay financially (with or without her husband)and if she keeps the baby am sure he/she is not going to be hawking at any point in thier life.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by enomakos(m): 1:50pm On Aug 31, 2011
women and their palava again


can't married women respect their self these days?
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by PresidKing(m): 1:56pm On Aug 31, 2011
Ebonyvibe, manners pls, asking me to shurt up. hmmmmmm few ladies

since she/you can take care of yourself/herself without her/your husband, let her go for divorce as as this is the norm for ladies who wants to be independent.

This is mens world, don't forget that.
Re: Wife Pregnant For Boyfriend by enomakos(m): 1:57pm On Aug 31, 2011
Tobi_dad:

WHOREDOM IS HERE!

I dated a lady for 2yrs (about 5yrs back), was about to get married to her but she ditched me for some other guy that she had been seeing behind me.

It was really depressing for me back then but I eventually moved on.

Around May last year I bumped into her and exchanged phone numbers and within a very short while she ended up confiding in me that her husband used diabolic means to hook her and that currently her marriage is on the verge of collapse as her husband constantly cheats on her and beats her up. Her husband even beat her up when she was about 8mths pregnant which led to a miscarriage and severe complications making her not able to conceive anymore.
With this dilemma, she told me her husband had a baby from one of his numerous girlfriends and had moved out of their apartment and was about to marry his baby mother.

So eventually we ended up Being Intimate regularly. 3months later She and her husband got reconciled but that did not stop her from seeing me.

Unknown to her, I never got over what she did to me. Her getting back with her husband presented the perfect opportunity for revenge.

One day after having our sex sessions and she was in the shower, I got her husband's number from her phone.

I later then called him to tell him about how I had been sleeping with his wife for close to 6mths. I did not even spare him the graphic details and told him that every Friday when she claims to be going to church for night vigil I had her all night in any way or manner I desire.

I told him if he needed any more proof, that in 2weeks time his wife is supposed to attend a wedding. I also told him to check-into the same hotel I had been using with his wife this past 6mths under my name, after which he should txt me the room number.

He played along.

I called her on the fateful day to confirm if she will be able to make our appointment, and gave her the room number her husband had earlier booked in.

I wish I was there in the hotel room to see their faces.


good job man.the same thing happened to me

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