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Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 2:50pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
sexkillz:Firstly, thanks 4 the reply. Of course i want a long term relationshp. But how long must i continue to mess thngs up? I can't wait to get fond of one person. But how? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 3:11pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
When you say mess things up, what do you really mean by that? Have you been in previous relationships that broke up because of you? Do you have some attitude problems that ladies find irritating? Or is there a particular behavior that you detest, that is a characteristic of ladies you've met, prior to this time? Let's hear it! Cos from your response, you have a lot of work to do on yourself! Trying to avoid repeating your "mess ups"! Let it flow. . . . . . . |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 3:36pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
^^ Yeah! I easily end relationshps, The only complain abt my attitude, is d fact dat i'm always talking to another lady. But how am i suppose to react when a gurl says hi? Should i tell ha 'sorry, can't talk! Or oh! I have a gf. |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 3:55pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Hmm! I see! Girls are protective likewise boys! And in your case, it seems you pick offense and get angry anytime they confront you about that, right? Well, girls like when you apologize when they confront you with ish concerning other girls! Accept in a calm voice, and then explain to her whatever it is she wants to hear! Not my style though, i'd rather introduce them! In such cases, if your gf is with you at that particular time, nothing wrong in introducing her to the other girl that says hi! What such introduction does is that your gf would feel loved, and appreciated, and that you can be trusted around girls, while the other girl's respect for you would grow! She will tend to see you as mature and responsible! But if your girlfriend is not there, you dont necessarily need to tell them you have a gf, unless of course you feel like, but it's not a must!>>>> NEXT |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 4:24pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
^^ yeah! That's exactly what i did when she's around. But it's annoying when she gets overprotective! Trying to know my every moves. Though i admit dat i haven't found a gurl that'll make me go gaga! I'm really getting so frustrated abt this. . . I wonder how u fell 4 ur gurl? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 4:57pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Yeah! It's frustrating if a girl monitors your every move, but in time if she cultivates trust for you, it's gonna drastically reduce! Over-protectiveness can be a very good sign of interest or love sometimes, though i'm not a fan of doing things to an extreme, but understanding that most girls are very protective would help you see them in a different light! For you to be able to really LOVE someone, tolerance MUST come into play! You just have to cultivate it! I'm not a fan of tolerating bull[b]s[/b]hit either, mind you! You should have a tolerance level at least! Do things that'll make her trust you, like not waiting for her to call you before you tell her your plans for the day and stuff like that! A girl that doesnt care about you WOULD NEVER MONITOR you! Try talking to her about it once in a while, appreciate her for her concerns and then tell her how over concern makes you feel! Any girl in her right senses should understand! BTW you may wait forever for a girl that'll make you go gaga and you may not see her! What i suggest is that you write out those "gagalicious" qualities a girl should have, and at least, any girl that scores 70% from your list should be put on probation! Give her a try! She may eventually surprise you! PERFECT GIRLS ARE EITHER NON EXISTENT, or HAVE GONE EXTINCT!>>>>> NEXT! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Ladyjide(f): 5:04pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Go and buy it, it may have a return policy that way! ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 5:30pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
^^^ He's already bought it twice and returned it! Seal was always broken in both instances! ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 6:35pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
But these gurls are so full of pretence! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 6:47pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Yeah, TRUE! But NOT all Girls are full of pretense! I'm guessing since you know that girls are full of pretense, you should know the characteristics of such girls! All you have to do is to have an open, unbiased and fully receptive mind! Look out or the good in the girl and not always the bad! If you notice pretense, back off! If you notice a flaw you cant accept, but believe she can change with time, approach her and try talking her out of it, if she doesnt change, take a walk! Your happiness is what matters! Remember, in relationships, it's always about 2 people! Third party contributions are not really necessary in some cases. Never give much ear to what people say! Saved my own relationship last year! I chose to play deaf to some comments my friends were making, and alas, they were irrefutably proved, to be cooked up false stories! Avoid the crowd mentality of all girls being EVIL! Have an open mind! I'm still here! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Ladyjide(f): 6:50pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
sexkillz:Go buy a different brand then ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 7:02pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Two different brands, mind you ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 7:09pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
How do u handle gurlz that have pride and ego problem? Probably role models? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 7:45pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
I simply dont tolerate them! That's high on my INTOLERANCE list! ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 8:15pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
At least u have a bad side at dat! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 8:24pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
^^^ Damn! Who doesnt? BTW My current relationship is exactly ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 8:39pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
How's she? (Ur gurl) I was hoping I could have one like dat? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 8:47pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
^^ She's cool! Not perfect, just as i'm not perfect! I'm covering her flaws just as she covers mine! ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 9:10pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
sexkillz:U are a very lucky man! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 9:41pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
^^ You are even Luckier! No one gave me any tips! ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 10:01pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Thier is a saying dat gurlz like the bad guyz! Does being bad aid in these relationshps? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 10:03pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Thier is a saying dat gurlz like the bad guyz! Does being bad aid in these relationshps? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 10:03pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Thier is a saying dat gurlz like the bad guyz! Does being bad aid in these relationshps? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
HELL NO! Nothing like being your self! I told you before: AVOID CROWD MENTALITY!!! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 10:34pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Ok! Got that, But how do i keep my relationship stable and healthy? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
^^ Get one first na! ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 10:59pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Thier are so many gurlz in line! I can start tonyt if u want. . .! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 11:05pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
It's not about what i want, but rather, what you want! Be your self and Dont rush anything! In matters of the heart, if you rush in thru the door, you fly out thru the window! Take it slow! ![]() |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 11:13pm On Sep 04, 2011 |
Got that! But i wonder if it pays to stick to just one? U'll never know if she's going to mess up! Or wat do u think? |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 2:30pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
Just as there are many uncertainties in life, there's no way to know if she'll mess up! Just do your own part and leave her to do hers! If you arent compatible, you can always go your separate ways! Unless you are dating with ulterior motives, but if you are dating with a view to marriage, then stick to ONE! |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Dondav(m): 9:09pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
Got that! I'll stick to one, |
Re: How Can I Ever Love? by Nobody: 9:29pm On Sep 05, 2011 |
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