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Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by Tosinville(m): 7:46pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Seedord247 Your ugly nyansh for snobbin me o!, till you die you can never be like me or handsome like me. Mofo lol |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by seedord247(m): 7:48pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Tosinville: i said when you look like Ramsey Noah . . . i can give it a thought of adding you on my waitlist on Facebook |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 7:50pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
erico2k2:Am using 'stingy' in the context of usage above by the poster, i really do not care for the correct definition, any person that does not give, is stingy in my dictionary, nobody is saying he should pay bills, but insome aspect he should stand up and be a man. A man should be the bread-winner, not be waiting for what the woman will bring to the table. Any Niggar that is waiting for a woman to bring her own half of the money to pay peco bills, or dstv, has a long way to go. there are things that women will do without being asked or when the man is not around, she steps in and foot the bills or in the case of when he looses a job ( God forbid), or if the womans 'take home' is obviously more than the husbands' the woman steps in, but a fully grown man waiting for my salary or any womans' salary before he will live his life as a 'sole' provider, is a LOOSER. to me, |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by r231(m): 7:51pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
lovedgal: again you didn't answer my question. . . . . DO YOU REALLY KNOW THIS GUY YOU PLAN TO MARRY. don't tell me because he like you and you liked him a lot thats pure nonsense. . . . . definitely you don't knw him |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by dayokanu(m): 7:54pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
ronkebp: HAVE YOU ASKED THE POSTER WHAT SHE HAS EVER GIVEN TO THE GUY? |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 7:56pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
dayokanu: i don't have to know what she has given him, that is not the bone of contention here. She said her man is stingy and she has her own reasons for saying that. just because a lady is independent and makes all the money does not mean that the guy should not think to get her a small gift, what will you be doing in the relationship gan seff? sex and talk? hmmmmm, i just thank God for my life shaa!!!! |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by lovedgal: 7:58pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
^^^ yes, i know him, But one never knows the other person completely enough, that's why I commit it unto God's hands, i know him but I am still getting to know him everyday, @Dayokanu, I accept that you are stingy and that those texas girls have probably drained you more times than you feel comfortable with, I MUSTN'T HAVE GIVEN THIS MAN ANYTHING TO DESERVE HIS HELPING ME WHEN I GENUINELY NEED IT, Having said that, I have directly and indirectly given and that gives me joy, to be a giver, I do not mean sex as most freely potrayed here, |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by 144(m): 8:04pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
@Op u ve to understand that u re not yet his responsbility he might ve somany other resposibility he z carin for. But before callin him names, u ask him first, asking z a supernatural law for u to get. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by Nobody: 8:04pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Lol! These girls are becoming leeches these days! They keep twisting words to defend themselves! Thanking and praying to god will now be the solution. Whatever, the man is not asking you to take responsibility but don't be a liability at this early stage. Jeez! Try to look for other means of raising that money. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by Tosinville(m): 8:06pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Seedord247 where are you, were? LOL |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by dayokanu(m): 8:09pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
ronkebp: The natural law is that when you give you receive, If you dont give you shouldnt expect to receive unless you are a thief or just greedy. lovedgal: Actually I dont date beggars those who come cap in hand begging for a livelihood, I date girls who are well educated, earn their own money and dont need a man to help them before they survive The relationship is based on everything aside from leeching on their man. Some people are alergic to dating parasites. I feel sorry for your BF because he should also know what he is getting into, A beggar in dating would be a Beggar in marriage |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by erico2k2(m): 8:11pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
@ronkebp thats a total diffrent sceenerio,we are talking about two people who dont live together, the might not even live in same state,might only see each other once in a month for all we know she is in Uni but she aint told us where he lives yet or what he does for living, when you live together wiv you bf its a diffrent bsll game but when its relationships based on you living appart you dont expect the guy to give you money 2wards things like hand outs,rent,clothes,shoes,mobile top ups,hair do,?? |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 8:12pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
all4naija: Whatever!!!! a man that cannot provide for his gal, should go and sit down first, when he has made enough money for him to throw around he should come back and have her. Where i live you need to see how men pamper their girlfriends/ fiance/ wives, in every aspect, despite the fact that they are both independent, you need to see how they spend on vacations, on flowers, gifts and so on and so forth, so i don't know what you men are saying, all i can infer is that the naija guys we have now, are not capable and are irresponsible, and that is why we have aristos' taking over. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by erico2k2(m): 8:18pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
ronkebp:you dont get it do yah lolol you are so goulable, try and ask OP what she wants,see if its amongst any of those things you just listed as to what men do for thier girls over where you live plz ask lolyou would discover its the total opposit, you are living in a near perfect world where both gender have equall opportunity.YOU ARE ADVICING A GUY TO BUY FLOWERS FOR A GIRL IN 9JA lol that would B war start lol she will tell you say nah flower she go chop |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 8:19pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
erico2k2: I am talking about real relationships not boy/girl friend realtionship that will not last more than 2 months, i am talking about those who are serious to settle down, if the guy is up-and -doing financially and the girl is still a student and he knows what the girl's financial background is all about, i do not see anything wrong in helping her out, especially if he wants her to look good always. it is a different ball game for gold-diggers though, you men know them, but you will never stop chasing after them. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 8:23pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
erico2k2: Lol, all those flower runs is acceptable here, Naija get im own runs, let them do it as it is there, if na blackberry dey reign, then the so called lover should make it rain (joke) but seriously, it is all about showing that 'i care about you,' even if na to buy ikpekere!!!! it is acceptable, but not to do at all!!!! mbanu!!!!. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by erico2k2(m): 8:26pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
ronkebp:I have seen where the buying of flower became war lol girls in 9ja want physical cash,phone, most especially pay the Rent. NOW @ OP Answer this or hold your peace,what do you want from the guy?? stop bitting arround the Bush,lets see if you are woman anough to answer this question. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by dayokanu(m): 8:27pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Why isnt the woman the one giving? I am sure in that same environment you live, Women shower gifts on their BF/Fiancee/Husbands But for the leeches and parasite the giving is expected to be unidirectional |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 8:28pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
dayokanu: that is what am saying, both of them should be the giver and the receiver. And asper marraige, you do not know anything about it, just hug your fantasy and hope you find it someday!!! |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by dayokanu(m): 8:30pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
So whats the fantasy? Care to explain? |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by r231(m): 8:30pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
erico2k2: very true give 9ja girl flower she go ask you whether dem tell you say i be GOAT |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by Dyt(f): 8:39pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Gosh cant blv NL guys r so deadly dumb now i ask u guys typin bs if truely u care bout ur so called gfs dont u atleast show lil witout askin? I cld tell ur gfs pushes u all abt toads |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by emmatok(m): 8:40pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
@OP Your reasoning that that your BF is not good for marriage, because he is not spending on you is wrong. Haven't you heard of Men who spend millions on their GFs and yet their Wife and children are living in lack. A man is only responsible to his Wife,Daughter,Mother and Sister. Every other women is secondly including his GF. My question is, what do you have to offer in the relationship? Because i don't value women can't offer any thing yet they want to receive. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by MP007(m): 8:41pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
I have always found the issue of love and money in relationships interesting. When a man spends his money on lady its often since as a sign of true love and affection but when the lady spends on him, the society sees the man as being weak and lazy and often time refer to the lady as desperate. Double-standard in our so-called modern society. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by dayokanu(m): 8:43pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
emmatok: Good question. Especially the one in bold |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 8:43pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
dayokanu: if you read my post well, you would have noticed that i said, it has to be both ways, the giving has to be from both of them. and not just the guy alone. but no!!!! you decided to pick the only thing that mattered to you, 'leeches', |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by bdek(m): 8:45pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
here we go guys , this is one way girls are more richer nowadays than men because men incur more losses , we spend money, we suppose to save for developing capital on women ,and recharge card, i heard a woman said i cant call a man in my life, u heard this lady saying other bf are nt stingy , what happen to other is losses on their expenses on the same girl,how many guys will incur loses on the same girl bfor she marry a man after all she cant marry 2 man ,i believe this girl is a lazy type depending on man cash gift ,i think guys should wake up save ur income ,stop spending on girl friends until u r married, cos both of u are contending and under same pressure, u r free to express ur love in any form cash or whatever u like but not to an extend when ur income is affected just to please a woman and at the end she left for another better guys or richer guy for her to get more income , men are always the looser and the end. please let share love in moderate |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by emmatok(m): 8:46pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Dyt: Only dumb men waste money on GFs, when they can to something better with their money. So you think i would ignore my immediate family(parent and siblings) and business. For a GFs who probably has numerous BFs in her life. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by erico2k2(m): 8:49pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
emmatok:and just to ask, guys do take thier girls out,buy cards and flowers and holidays lol what else does she want ohhhh yeh black berry,Rent money,top up T fare lol |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by emmatok(m): 8:50pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
bdek: No mind them. The-same girl you will buy 5k recharge cards and she will still FLASH you to say thank you. Awon oshofree. |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by Dyt(f): 8:51pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Emmatok so u mean u dont give ur so called gfs gifts no choc,no tips,nottin? R ur fingers so closed lyk dat horse at onikan? |
Re: When This Stingy Man Says He Loves Me by ronkebp(f): 8:55pm On Sep 12, 2011 |
Dyt: Nope, they obviously don't. |
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